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Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

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Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby 77ant77 » Sun Sep 22, 2013 3:42 am

Last night I had the weirdest dream, I can honestly say its one of my weirdest ones... Here it goes. O am 14 years old by the way. So I had just graduated from school and i had plans to move in with my much older boyfriend, nobody knew about him but me and he was 47 really fat and ugly! But i still loved him, i went up to his flat after school which coincidentally was above my older sisters. In bed i kept trying to please him but wouldn't have sex because i was on my period but i couldnt he would just brush me off and open a box by his legs filled with sex toys and tell me to use one but i kept on refusing, but then i fell asleep and in the morning woke up and decided to move in with my sister, so i went downstairs and told her everything... I then read her text messages and they were all about me with the older guy and how annoying and unsuitable i was i was heartbroken but this is all i can remember, please help me understand this? Thankyou:)
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Re: Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby LaundryTime » Sun Sep 22, 2013 8:54 pm

hmmmm well he's my shot in the dark
you have a boyfriend that you perceive to be lazy and an "old man" (or perhaps you feel he's more mature than you somehow). You keep trying to please him (with yourself), but he continually insists on using sex toys (asking you to live up to a false standard of being sexy or ways to please him: sort of like you want to have real sex with him at an intimate level, but he expects you to be "porn star" instead). You realize that this relationship isn't working out and go to "live" with your "sister" (who could easily be anyone you consider to be like a sister) and discover her disapproval about the relationship. I wouldn't be upset with the sister figure - she came to the same conclusion you did, she just got to it a lot sooner because she had a more objective position.
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Re: Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby Ghuntington » Tue Oct 25, 2016 9:16 pm

Hi,
Dreams are a language teaching us about ourselves. I have my own theory that our higher self has trouble communicating with us. So, we use events, emotions et al, including sex in our dreams, as a form of a conscious event marker. It worked! You woke up, recalled the dream and found it unsettling so you are now looking to figure it out. I can assist.

What I've learnt from my own dreams is that there is nothing in a dream by chance. Therefore, if you answer the following questions, to the best of your recall ability, I will happily give you an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

First tell me the number of scenes in your dream. THEN FOR EACH SCENE I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left.
2. To your right.
3. In front of you.
4. Behind you.
5. Above you.
6. Below you.

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. Simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds, reptiles, fish or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

I realize this is a lot of work. HOWEVER, I think you might be surprised by how much you can learn about yourself from a single scene.

I realize that describing a sex scene might seem uncomfortable. However, the more honest and detailed your answer, the more I can assist you. If you'd like to check me out, look through the interpretations I've done here.

In many of my interpretations, I note a free website I've created "learningfrommydreams" dot com. You can go there to also see what I'm about. You'll note my take on reality is different than many people.

If your'd feel more comfortable, you can also email me your dream from "learningfrommydreams" dot com

With kind regards,
Guy :)
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Re: Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby Sheena » Sun Dec 04, 2016 6:15 pm

Given the age, the intensity of sexual interest and the dream content, consider that dreamer is afraid of penises.
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Re: Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby Sheena » Mon Dec 19, 2016 11:54 am

They are phonies. Notice the names are not in Cyrillic.
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Re: Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby Sheena » Thu Jan 05, 2017 4:01 pm

Taking a second look:
Curious Yellow.
Desire for maturity to include sexuality while phobic about it. The obstacle is in the imagery of menstruation and the schizoid adaptation of the sex toys. These images will have personal meanings which must be provided by dreamer herself.
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Re: Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby dlow » Mon Jan 09, 2017 9:36 pm

Hi Jeriid,
I wouldn't be alarmed by this dream... it just reflects you confusion over relationships and sexuality, which of course is totally natural for someone your age. Because (I assume) you would never want to have sex with someone like that in real life, the dream is probably letting you know that, deeper down, you do have desires and temptations to do behave sexually in an improper way.(Having those feelings is, to a certain extent, natural, but that doesn't mean you necessarily obey them, right?) But at the same time you don't want to have sex in the dream, even with sex toys, so the dream is also saying that you have real desire not to behave improperly! So you're at war with yourself on this issue--welcome to the human condition!! I think Spirit just wants to make you aware that you are (naturally) experiencing this conflict, and to think carefully and exercise self-discipline in what you decide to do.
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Re: Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby katiegreatbatch » Tue Jan 10, 2017 12:36 am

Undesirable influences entering you( not sexually) an inability to figure out what fulfils you (the sex toys)
Dreams work in metaphor.
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Re: Older man and sex toys...what is going on?!?

Postby Sheena » Tue Jan 10, 2017 2:43 pm

katiegreatbatch wrote:Undesirable influences entering you( not sexually) an inability to figure out what fulfils you (the sex toys)
Dreams work in metaphor.
Good one.
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