Twinflame Love

[augustina]

Do you have a twinflame...or is it a bunch of hog wash...


What is a Twin Flame?

Twin flames, also called twin souls, are literally the other half of our soul. We each have only one twin, and generally after being split the two went their separate ways, incarnating over and over to gather human experience before coming back together. Ideally, this happens in both of their last lifetimes on the planet so they can ascend together. So you probably haven't had many lifetimes with your twin.



Each twin is a complete soul, not half a soul. It is their task to become more whole, balancing their female and male sides, and ideally become enlightened, before reuniting with their twin. This reunion is of two complete and whole beings. All other relationships through all our lives could be said to be "practice" for the twin, the ultimate relationship.

[pepper]

I think it is just made up by some person that fell in love and thought they had something great.
Hog wash as you say.

[CaramelFlame]

I'd like to think its a real thing--something fantastical and rare.
Personally I haven't found my twin flame..yet, but I hope I will.

[Smiley Lord]

I'm not sure if they exist. It would be interesting if they did, but I wouldn't care if they didn't.

[CaramelFlame]

I'm not sure if they exist. It would be interesting if they did, but I wouldn't care if they didn't.

Maybe you wouldn't care--unless you discovered yours and then got her taken away.

[Smiley Lord]

I'm not sure if they exist. It would be interesting if they did, but I wouldn't care if they didn't.

Maybe you wouldn't care--unless you discovered yours and then got her taken away.

Then I probably would care. It would be painful, of course, but I would enjoy the experiences before and move on.

[pepper]

I hear tell that once you find your twinflame and lose them that there is no getting over it.
Do I want a love like that? Hell yes!! But I never want to lose them.

[conundrum_dragon]

Havent found my twin flame yet, one day.

[CaramelFlame]

Havent found my twin flame yet, one day.

ditto

[Vira]

soul bonding....or soul touch...its very dangerous...want to know more? ask me and...well... want some ice cream? kidding....i might can tell you some info on it....

[CaramelFlame]

Sure, I want to hear more

[pepper]

yes of course vira..tell us more.

[Vira]

Soul bonding or Soul touching is a little different from Twin flames.
For instance, it is not necessarily your other half. In reality,
people search for other people that they can be with forever.
By finding such a person you must have the same/mutal feelings
for one one another. If not it could lead to certain death. You
are so wrapped around this person that you want to give your body
and soul to this person. It's not always about finding a 'partner'. It
can also be among friends. Though I'm not sure if there's an actual
case of it happening amongst friends. There is even a limit to a
number of how many you can bond with. If you count yourself, it
would be a total count of five. Anymore than that could kill you. You're
sharing more than you're soul, you're sharing everything. You will still
be you just not at the same time. You'd be something else (metamor-
phosis), transcending to a different realm even as you appear to be
on earth, one of the highest enlightenment you could obtain in life.
P.S. If it comes to the path that the other does not want to be with you...
It could end in suicide....doesn't matter if you don't like the thought of
doing that. It is as simple as saying,

"If I cannot be with this person than I
rather not live at all..."

What no posts? No opposition? Come on fellas.....Got to say something.....

[CaramelFlame]

Oh wow thats intense!
How can you tell if you've "bonded"?
And you can have that type of bond with someone whos not necessarily your soulmate?
+ do you get a little piece of them if you bond?

*I've never heard of this.

[Vira]

I was taught and this just a fraction from what my
'teacher' knows. Though I doubt there would be
lessons for such things and the reason why you would not
know about it is because it's a lost well....what word am I
looking for? Anyways it's common to think you might have
not heard of it because throughout the ages alot of the
knowledge we think we know may not be false but at the
same time factual....
It's difficult....but I guess you'd know because well just
like with empathy you'd sense people's emotions. Well
when you're bonded with someone you will sense emotions
on a daily basis. There's more...but I'm not sure what else?

[CaramelFlame]

Daily basis??

[Vira]

Only with your bonded or partner? Like I said....You'll share alot...

[CaramelFlame]

Hmm really makes me wonder sometimes......

[RoseBlue]

Its honestly possible.

[Vira]

Think of it this way, love is both beautiful and ugly process.
Soul bonding/Touching mean that your souls will conjoin
into one. You will not only have to worry about you but your
bonded. Lets say this, since I didn't mention it earlier, If
one of you happens to die you/your bonded will commit suicide...
Unless...You happen to find someone else to bond with which can
be very slim since humans already have a hard time trusting just
one person. And I'm not talking about those little secrets..".you told
Jimmy" the other day, no I mean the those:
DEEP DARK SECRETS

Those ones that you'd like to keep in the back of your mind.
The ones that you fear will make others shun you.
The ones that may be harmful...whether to you or the people
around you...
To put it bluntly:

Someone you trust enough with your very life...

It's like a newborn baby....You have to make sure to nestle
him/her in your arms and make sure that he/she won't drop...
'Cause one false move and bye bye.....



P.S. As a I said....It doesn't have to be with male/female relations....
It CAN HAPPEN BETWEEN FRIENDS

[CaramelFlame]

Ok thats concerning now...

[Vira]

I did say it was dangerous.

[CaramelFlame]

But do you know if you can help it? Like can you consciously control if you bond to someone?

[RoseBlue]

From my experience it can be controled or stopped if needed to be. You can shield and ground yourself from this person. The bond really shouldn't take place unless they are both open to it. This is my belief so I could be wrong but its what I was taught.

[Vira]

From my experience it can be controlled or stopped if needed to be. You can shield and ground yourself from this person. The bond really shouldn't take place unless they are both open to it. This is my belief so I could be wrong but its what I was taught.

^-^ It is so...

[heartsdreamer]

""If I cannot be with this person then I
rather not live at all..."

That's nonsense! That's at the hard core of attachment and it's not love!

[Vira]

""If I cannot be with this person then I
rather not live at all..."

That's nonsense! That's at the hard core of attachment and it's not love!

Then you don't know what love really is...not that I do...

[BLUE]

I'm not sure if they exist. It would be interesting if they did, but I wouldn't care if they didn't.

Maybe you wouldn't care--unless you discovered yours and then got her taken away.

Then I probably would care. It would be painful, of course, but I would enjoy the experiences before and move on.

If it is the other half of your soul do they ever really leave? ..or is it...until I see you next time?

[pepper]

I really think that if one dies..the other one stays with you..after all you are connected till you merge as one complete.. I can tell you that it is a love that you have never known with anybody.
People only think they know what love is till they meet up with their twin...twins have work to do in the spiritual sense...
Not just a typical love story...

[pepper]

""If I cannot be with this person then I
rather not live at all..."

That's nonsense! That's at the hard core of attachment and it's not love!

I can tell you that once you meet that other person..that you will experience a love that you have never felt before. We get married and think we are in love..but unless you have met
that other part of you..you will never experience what love really is...it will knock you off your feet. There is no other love like that love... They say that the two mirror each other and that they are the part of us that loves us..self love.

[heartsdreamer]

I'm not sure if they exist. It would be interesting if they did, but I wouldn't care if they didn't.

There's a slight possibility they exist:

One of the definitions I got online...

Soul mates:

Soul Mates are souls we have met and lived with in many life times. They have been our lovers, spouses, mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, teachers, students, friends, and family, or even our enemies, victims, or tormenters. We contract with these souls to return to earth together for greater learning and growth.

Twin souls, also called Twin Flames or Twin Rays, are the other half of your soul. This is based on the belief that we are all parts of the Divine Being, God, All That Is, Source, Spirit, Creator. The Divine Being, in order to experience Its Self, divided into many souls, each in turn divided into many others and many others. The final splitting of the many neutrally gendered souls created male and female halves of a whole, the Twin Soul.
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Soul mates:

We have many soul mates, the first larger splitting of souls. These souls resonate with us and there is a comfort in that recognition. We evolve and reincarnate with these souls through many lifetimes, learning lessons in our many unions and partings, you can say on some level we are all soul mates one with another, learning and growing together. Not all these lessons are loving or comforting as lessons in forgiveness and unconditional love are challenging. Sometimes we are the "victim", and sometimes we are the "darkness" that shows another soul their light.

This is where freewill and choice comes into the "game", how we react or perceive our relationships. Someone can come into your life and cause you much pain and suffering, this is a soul contract between you to grow and evolve in love and forgiveness. This is one perception of karma, and one that will free you from the karmic cycle of "I kill you, now you kill me" type of karmic dance some souls are involved in for many lifetimes. You break the cycle by acting rather than reacting, by freeing the ego from the soul and learning to love and forgive even in suffering.

Our greatest joy and our greatest pain are both conceived in these soul mate relationships, our feelings intensified by our soul connections, whether for good or bad. You can often spot a soul mate or karmic relationship by "love at first site" or "revulsion at first site", depending upon the lessons you've contracted to learn from this soul.
One can live a lifetime in joy and harmony with a resonant soul mate, and this a beautiful, but rare gift.
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This is what I have to say about it: every human soul has an anima and animus--male and female- NOT DIVIDED!. Our souls are considered to be FEMININE even though they are half-male and half-female but in the "whole" are feminine.

I strongly believe that souls can't be divided because "streams of consciousness" can't be divided but shared. This is the position of Buddhist philosophers and logicians. And from my own life experiences while interacting with many humans I have to agree with them.

Then...I believe the "Force" I believe in creating this Universe is FEMININE. Yes feminine. Women are more in touch with this force than men by birth, and believe because of motherhood. That's why women are more emotional (nothing wrong by being emotional in my opinion) than men and easier to become enlightened and shared their feelings with others. On the other hand, men to become enlightened, must love women first to get in touch with that femininity (men must wake up their femininity) and become whole. Men away from this femininity have a problem demonstrating her love and feelings. Meen must BALANCE their ANIMA and ANIMUS to be "complete", "whole."

What I'm saying is this--men to become whole must love women to get in touch with this femininity permeating in this physical realm.

To reach love at the level of the soul (feminine) you must transform your ego, otherwise, you'll never find your soul mate. There can't be no barriers of egoways between souls.

Enough!

[heartsdreamer]

Also, be careful of all the new gobbledygook coming out of the mouth of the so called NEW AGE gurus--they want your $$$$$

[pepper]

Also, be careful of all the new gobbledygook coming out of the mouth of the so called NEW AGE gurus--they want your $$$$$

wonders? was buddah ever considered new age crap???

[Vira]

Why is there so many definitions for love?
It can't be labeled masculine or feminine.
It is there. Whether for your child.
your pet. your lover, spouse, mother,
father, brother, sister, grandmother,
grandfather, cousin, aunt, uncle, step-father,
step-mother, step-brother, step-sister, your
twice-removed cousin that's living in LA...w/e
you get my point....EVEN your
friend(s)......

More than anything what people need is love.
It is the basic root to do anything....prove me wrong...
only someone who doesn't understand can prove a point
or has gone through alot of pain and doesn't believe it exists.....

[RoseBlue]

I agree we all want to be loved. Even if we've been through a lot of pain we still yearn for love.

[heartsdreamer]

Also, be careful of all the new gobbledygook coming out of the mouth of the so called NEW AGE gurus--they want your $$$$$

wonders? was buddah ever considered new age crap???

Absolutely not! Was Jesus?

[pepper]

of course he was. they considered him a new cult starting up and they wanted to kill the dude...he caused a real uproar with all those religious people. They tried every way they could
think of to get rid of him and his teachings. Even people in his home town called him crazy..
they lied about him and everything..they finally succeeded in killing the poor guy. Then when
the people went around telling of this new way(they had to secretly meet in homes to pray and fast and teach each other..even with the wonderful powers they had, the people would seek to kill them off and abolish what they were preaching about...a new cult for the times. even to this day, people mock the cult that sprang up from it and ridicule the teachings...They were called the Way Movement..says that in that book...what is the name of that book..oh yes, The Holy Bible. JESUS IS THE WAY!! Jesus Rocks!!!
Followers of Jesus are the way movement.

[dabiatch]

Twinflame love to Jesus. *shrugs shoulders* guess that is where it ends up anyway.

Once I thought I had found my twinflame. Is it twinflame or possession?

[Vira]

Twinflame love to Jesus. *shrugs shoulders* guess that is where it ends up anyway.

Once I thought I had found my twinflame. Is it twinflame or possession?

I know...someone has to bring religion into this....-shrugs also- Tell me more, why do you think you
may have found your twinflame?

[dabiatch]

*once thought* Long boring story. Turned out all was lies, so it could not have been a twinflame. *spins head around*
Vira? Did you find your twinflame?

[Vira]

*once thought* Long boring story. Turned out all was lies, so it could not have been a twinflame. *spins head around*
Vira? Did you find your twinflame?

-Jerks head back-No....haven't found mine yet.....- frowns then chuckles - I'm still waiting...Guess we both are, eh?

[CaramelFlame]

Stupid other halfs, where are they, they should be looking for us, I say!

[RoseBlue]

Stupid other halfs, where are they, they should be looking for us, I say!

Mine actually did look for me. He asked me if I could move and I told him my parents would never move. So he did move. Keep the hope that maybe your second half is looking for you but hasn't found you.

[pepper]

Stupid other halfs, where are they, they should be looking for us, I say!

Mine actually did look for me. He asked me if I could move and I told him my parents would never move. So he did move. Keep the hope that maybe your second half is looking for you but hasn't found you.

why didn't you move roseblue? you know your parents moved to where they wanted to be when they started their lives.
and that they still live where they want to be...

[Vira]

Stupid other halfs, where are they, they should be looking for us, I say!

Mine actually did look for me. He asked me if I could move and I told him my parents would never move. So he did move. Keep the hope that maybe your second half is looking for you but hasn't found you.

why didn't you move roseblue? you know your parents moved to where they wanted to be when they started their lives.
and that they still live where they want to be...

I think what we should be thinking about is they are moving,
moving forward, to us...If we really want to see them we can't
sit and wait. We must make action. Now that doesn't mean
scoping out guys. It Just means we might have to wait a little
more. Do normal things and when we actually stop obsessing over
him. He'll appear. I know it'll happen to me since that's just my
karma.

[CaramelFlame]

He will, they will. I have patience, and a zest for travel=D I wish I could know what he looks like though at least

[Vira]

He will, they will. I have patience, and a zest for travel=D I wish I could know what he looks like though at least

You and me both....

[RoseBlue]

Me too. I don't seem to get clear dreams of him but I am sure that I will regonize his voice so I guess that is a start.

[heartsdreamer]

Stupid other halfs, where are they, they should be looking for us, I say!

Turn tyourself into a bundle of love and sooner or later -- Bang! You're done!

love attracts love...

[BLUE]

Love attracts all sorts of things.