What should I do?!?!

[6Music6Lover6]

I'm a freashman in high school and have a crush on this junior. We have gym together and we say hi to each other at times. They're several obstacles though; first him and my brother are friends, I think he likes my friend but at the same time I think he likes me cause we talk to each other and he doesn't really talk to her. The other obstacle is that my brothers best friend goes to school with me and tells my brother that my guy friend is my boyfriend and I'm afraid that he told that to my crush and that my crush thinks that we are going out. Can someone anyone please tell me if he likes me or is at least Interested in me and if I should confess to him my feelings. Also some other information to answer my questions. I've been liking him for seven months now, he is shy but not when he is around his friends he's very outgoing, I've tried to confess to him before but it was an epic fail, so I have a feeling that he knows that I like him and the day after I tried to confess to hm we started to talk more( we only really say hi to each other, only really when I'm by myself). So like I said Please anyone, comment on this topic and I would also love to hear what a guy has to say to this. Thanks!

[Guardian7347]

Ok...it took a minute for me to sort the whole thing out, but here's what I'm hearing:
1. You have no idea if he's interested in you.
2. You have no idea if he's interested in your friend.
3. You have no idea if your brother has told him anything about your friend.
4. You have no idea if your brother has told him anything about you at all.
5. You don't actually talk to him, other than passing hellos in the hall.
6. You haven't actually ever told him you're interested, but you think he may have divined this information out of thin air somehow.
Sound about right?

If you want to find out if he's interested, there's an easy way to find out. Talk to him. Get to know him. Don't just bumrush the guy with a confession of your undying love, that's a little creepy. Smile. Ask about his day, his extra-curriculars, whatever. Make physical contact with him. If he says something funny, reach out and give a playful push, or just rest your hand on him momentarily. Most of all though, just talk. Once you get to know him some, just ask him if he's interested. It's really that easy.

[gargoylegoil]

Ok...it took a minute for me to sort the whole thing out, but here's what I'm hearing:
1. You have no idea if he's interested in you.
2. You have no idea if he's interested in your friend.
3. You have no idea if your brother has told him anything about your friend.
4. You have no idea if your brother has told him anything about you at all.
5. You don't actually talk to him, other than passing hellos in the hall.
6. You haven't actually ever told him you're interested, but you think he may have divined this information out of thin air somehow.
Sound about right?

If you want to find out if he's interested, there's an easy way to find out. Talk to him. Get to know him. Don't just bumrush the guy with a confession of your undying love, that's a little creepy. Smile. Ask about his day, his extra-curriculars, whatever. Make physical contact with him. If he says something funny, reach out and give a playful push, or just rest your hand on him momentarily. Most of all though, just talk. Once you get to know him some, just ask him if he's interested. It's really that easy.

[Coachvalles93]

Just like everyother high schooler out there just do what he ^ said talk to him if he doesn't seen interested in you well its life I just graduated from high school myself I've been in your shoes except when I told my crush I liked her she confessed to liking me and from there it was just talking

[yellow25rose]

I agree with guardian. I also think that you need to start learning to be aggressive in this life. I was the same way in high school until one day i decided I had nothing to lose in telling someone i thought he was cute or that i liked him. It would either lead to something or nothing. if he's friends with your brother and he does like you be prepared that he may want to hide that from your brother and if he does that...for sure it's not worth it. good luck enjoy high school.

[Nostalgic]

Guardian has good advice

[gargoylegoil]

Yes I agree, most times he's right on point.

[Guardian7347]

Thank you ladies.
@GG - I've never really paid much attention to the quote in your siggy before. I've often seen the pic, because I happen to be a fan of his work, but I just read the quote....I like it!

[gargoylegoil]

Why, Thank you Guard!

[6Music6Lover6]

@Guardian7347 Thanks for the advice man, I really appreciate it. I'll try it out when school starts next month! And also I wanted to thank everyone one else who gave me advice. I really appreciate everyone's input on the situation.

[hemasanghavi]

honestly..guardian is right..
and ya i will add something..just be yourself..if he likes he should and would like like the real u..its ok to be anxious...bilut you need to bring your self confidence too

[sayuri]

I gotta agree with Guardian as well... But must add, be yourself. Be a friend first to him, and then see if that leads to something...