my husbands weird dreams

[hxccryss]

MY HUSBAND HAS JUST EXPRESSED TO ME SOMETHING VERY ODD AND KIND OF COOL BUT WE WANT TO KNOW WHAT IT MEANS. WHEN HE WAS NINE YEARS OLD HE USED TO DREAM ALMOST EVERY NIGHT ABOUT A LITTLE GIRL HIS AGE THAT HE HAS NEVER MET NOR EVER SEEN BEFORE IN WAKING LIFE .AND HE WAS ALWAYS INVISIBLE TO HER. THE LAST TIME HE DREAMT ABOUT HER WHEN HE WAS NINE HE WAS WATCHING HER PLAY AND HE STOOD IN FRONT OF HER AND SAT DOWN AND WAS LOOKING AT HER AND SHE LOOKED BACK AT HIM AND SMILED. HE JUMPED BACK BECAUSE HE THOUGHT HE WAS INVISIBLE TO HER THIS WHOLE TIME. HE FELT SO CONNECTED TO HER AND PASSIONATE ABOUT HER THAT STILL TO THIS DAY HE REMEMBERS HER. THE REASONS ALL THIS IS COMING ABOUT IS OUR CONNECTION WITH EACHOTHER IS SO AMAZING AND PERFECT AND HE WAS LIKE OMG MAYBE YOU WERE HER IN MY DREAM BECAUSE SHE HAD YOUR EYES. AND MY EYES ARE VERY DISTINCTIVE. NOW THE ISSUE HERE IS. I HAD AN EIGHT WEEK OLD BABYGIRL THAT PASSED AWAY BEFORE HIM AND I MET BUT HE CLAIMS HER EVERYDAY AS HIS DAUGHTER. AND SHE ALSO HAD MY EYES EXACTLY. SO WHAT I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW IS MAYBE HE SAW ME AS A LITTLE GIRK AND WE WERE DESTINED TO BE SOULMATES OR DID HE SEE MY DAUGHTER IF SHE HAD EVER TURNED NINE OR NEITHER IF THOSE. IF ANYONE HAS ANY COMMENTS WE WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE THEM. THANK YOU.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Usually dreams of under 16 boys will be about their fathers .a little girls means a happiness or curing an illness for his father at that time.
But the theory you say also is possible to see your soul mate at the very young age.


The advantages of the dreams:

1- Dreaming is a way to discover the benefits and harms of the things and understanding the true and false of the affairs that human needs and there is no other way to know them.
This is a big advantage for the dreams to know the small duties and to discover the life trials that will be achieved from God without any interference.
2- Dreaming is a way to recognize our own situation by God to know if we are prosperous or unblessed. If God satisfied with us or is angry? It is a way to believe that any good or evil deed has a reward or a torture. A dream is a good news or a warning from God very more effective than a preach or a lecture.
3- Dreaming is a way to be aware of the deceased people’s situation in the afterlife that their news is cut and there is no sign from them. It can be to compensate their lost prayers and to compensate their evil deeds. There are many storied about the dead people who have reported their tortures and pains in the afterlife.
4- Dreaming is a way to understand about the after life and its rewards also about heavens and the hell because some of them are seen in the dreams and is said: This is for the deeds which you assumed nothing bad. If you look in the holy books you’ll find it is said at that time like that.
5- Dreaming is a way to believe and to put aside the unbelieveness about the blessings or torture in the grave that can’t be seen in the apparent dead body.It is like when one dreams a happy dream and enjoys it or dreams about snakes and is afraid and so on.
6- Dreaming is a way to understand the vast and wide world of the grave that has everything like this world but more pure and more truthful than here.There is everything like eatable food and drinks, sex and gardens, also hardships and hurts.
7- Dreaming is a conscious way to believe the religions about remaining the souls after destroying the bodies because many people dream about their fathers and sons or other deceased people who say that “ I have put you some money or asks t pay his debts”that when the dreamer awakes and inspects he understands that the dead person was right.
8- Dreaming is a way to psychology to understand that the soul and spirit are separated and independent from the body .To see another body except the physical body.
9- Dreaming is a miracle ,there is a big knowledge in it .Many important and difficult philosophical matters will be solved by them without any dispute or discussion, by them the man’s heart accepts and joins the believers.
Dreaming is a way to prove that prophets and their succeeders knew the peoples destiny and their hidden deeds.



Dreams are in 6 groups one are truthful dreams that are meaningful and predicting with symbolic metaphors based on holy books.
Another one is Deja Vu dreams that are seen as will happen.
Another group are psychological dreams as Mr. Freud and Mr. Jung said.
A group are Messy dreams that are caused by dad food or drinks and have no meaning.
A group are direct and truthful dreams about the deceased people or when saint people speak and say a news about our past or future.
A group are causative dreams that a reason like heat or cold or repeatition is caused the dream.
What I am doing is trying to introduce this kind of symbols and truthful meaningful dreams.

Hope this helps.

[Spiritchaser]

I think the little girl your husband dreamed about was his 'anima' - the female part of himself that all men have and that's why she felt so close and familiar. I too used to dream about a similar little girl around this age which you have just reminded me about-thank you. I loved her so much. When we grow up we find a partner who posseses the qualities of our anima so in this way their is a connection between the little dream girl and you. However I also think it is possible that he had a premenition when aged 9 of meeting you, and that his anima in the dream took on your physical appearance.

I am not sure I believe we have just one soul mate in the whole universe. What happens if we never get around to meeting them? Or if they live in Alaska and you live in South Africa and both of you are too poor to travel? What a tragedy that would be! I think what we call our 'soul mate' is really inside, the inner female if we are male or the inner male if we are female, but other people can have some of these qualities and because of this we connect with them and love them.

[hxccryss]

Wow thank you both for your insight. We appreciate it.