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[perfect_insanity]

How do the DMers feel about long distance relationships (LDRs is what I call em')....

I think they could be done depending on the people involved.

You....?

[kaligirl001]

My personal experience tells me they are no good for me, but a friend of mine has been in one for a few years and it seems to work for them. So I'm with you on this, I really think it depends on the people involved.

[Soulkiss333]

It is definely about personalities

I am in a LDR and it's great. It is the longest relationship I ever been in. I am someone who likes space and I becomes bored easy or just lose that spark (no reason sometimes just is). I usually only last about 3 months and that is pushing it. I been in this relationship since November and it is still going really good. It works out for the both of us (not just me). We are both really busy ppl right now in our lives so we dont have a lot of time to spend with someone if we were dating someone in the same town, it would be a lot of pressure/demanding time we dont have. From the past and as well for him, when you are busy.. ppl dont always understand you cant just drop everything and go sit with them or whatever. It has always cause problems in the past.

However, we dont live so far we dont see each other. I live in Seattle and he is BC, Canada...so we are about a three hours away by car or train. We see each other almost every single weekend and try to take turns visiting each other. It is nice, when we see each other we are happy and have a lot of things to talk about, the "spark" is very much still alive. Dont feel smother or a lot of pressure. It's perfect!!! for us.

About the trust factor, I guess it does take a certain about of trust as well of enjoying the time away/can be by yourself (if you have a problem with either of those two things in a relationship than it is not for you). About the trust I am not an overly trusting person or under trusting person...I just flow with it, so far no issues from that it not even a worry.

[jojo]

How do the DMers feel about long distance relationships (LDRs is what I call em')....

I think they could be done depending on the people involved.

You....?

I think they are fine and work if you are not any of the following:
Insecure
Obessive
Jealous
Have trust issues
Needs alot of physical intimacy
Can't afford to travel.

That is just to name a few that could cause BIG problems for you or anyone in LDR.

I never had one, so I cannot tell you off my own personal experience, you know you best.

[JeremyM]

How do the DMers feel about long distance relationships (LDRs is what I call em')....

I think they could be done depending on the people involved.

You....?

Could work, same as you said it depends on the two people trying it. You'd have to visit each other regularly though.

[sayuri]

It does depend on that person... But personally i think a LDR takes a bunch more work on both parties... Cuz if you live far away it could be hard to see each other, and then if you have different time zones then that makes it even more difficult. But to each his own!! C'est la vie!
~Sayu Chan