I have had ENOUGH!

[dragonwolfgirl]

I have had ENOUGH of my older sister, she's so selfish and stupid! I know its horrible to say and everything but seriously, she is.

Don't get me wrong, I still love her, she is my sister after all, but she's lost both her job and her place in college, she's a good person and everything she's just stupid and doesn't understand that she needs to BE at college and work to get far in the future, she lost both because she's been spending too much time with her boyfriend, she's not been with friends for a while too and her boyfriends gone to train in the army now so she's rotting away in her room everyday and not taking looking for a new job seriously.

Then she's selfish, she doesn't get how much mum and dad do for her, my mum had to spend her birthday money to get some food for the rest of the week until they get paied on tuesday, but my sister said "Thats your problem then" CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT!? God I hate her for it, I have to buy mum a birthday present and card, even my little sister pitched in for it, but my older sister didn't bother, she was too busy at her boyfriend's before he left to the army. She's 'borrowed' lots of money off all of us to use as bus fare to get to her boyfriend's too and she never pays it back, my mum even transfers money to her account to use as bus fare but she spends it all on food and clothes instead. She is SO STUPID! She thinks that now she's 18 she can do whatever she wants! But she can't, she says "OH, I can still find a job, losing my place in college and being sacked from my old job won't effect it" But it WILL

When she is at home I wait and watch all day to see what argument would pop up, when she's here (especailly with my dad present) there is always an arument, I'm not kidding, EVERY SINGLE DAY and argument and I hate it, somtimes I'm even brought into the arguments my dad says that I do as I'm told and pitch in but my older sister doens't he's even mentioned that I'm 'good' and possible 'perfect' I hate it when my dad says that becuase then my sister goes to me saying that I'm such a bitch and stuff But I don't want to be any of those things.

I don't expect alot of help from this, I just wanted to get it off my chest, it was getting tiring

[RockPillow®]

It sounds like your sister has fallen into depression. You seem so concerned about her, and it's pissing you off. This is why I don't communicate with my family or care about them. Well, there are more reasons than that, but yeah.

[SmileAreSexy]

Man she sounds selfish. Maybe you need to call her out on it. Im kinda with you.. my mom yells about everything. She practically was having a seizure today because i cleared her data on the browser on her kindle and it cleared all the emails and usernames remembered before (which she can easily remember and type back in) she told me "stay the f*** off my kindle!!!" -___- big friggin deal.

No but your sister is definatly ungrateful. Your parents need to sit down and talk with her about the disrespect. You cant live at your parents forever. Well.. you can but you wont get far.

[lml]

If your sister is sitting up in her room waiting around for her bf and not living her life, she may be depressed and be in need of a therapist. That just doesn't sound normal for an 18-year-old girl.
Her selfishness, as you see it, may be a symptom of her depression or other problems.
Your family needs to come together to show support for her, try not to get angry at her, and convince her to get intervention if needed.
If not, it's your mother's call if she lets her stay in the house doing nothing. You can't control it, so ignore it and don't get involved. You are hurting you, not her.

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