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top three qualities in a woman

Postby Nightingale on Sat Mar 03, 2012 7:35 pm

so guys, what are the top three things you look for in a woman?
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Adityasb on Sun Mar 04, 2012 4:27 am

This thread has been created numerous times and each time it did not took long to die.
So the qualities are:
1. Not to be a Bitch.
2. Someone who replie when you message her.
3. Someone who do not pretends to love you and make fun of you with her brother and cousins.
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Jon! on Mon Mar 05, 2012 12:54 am

Adityasb wrote:This thread has been created numerous times and each time it did not took long to die.
So the qualities are:
1. Not to be a Bitch.
2. Someone who replie when you message her.
3. Someone who do not pretends to love you and make fun of you with her brother and cousins.


you sound like you had it bad, dude >_>

Even though i don't prefer women. I would say a great gal is one who is not high maintenance (ie, she can look after herself, change her own car tyre and doesn't give you a weeks worth of "Ow i broke my nail" about the same damn nail that broke one month ago).

A sense of humor. Most (not all, but most) guys have a rather offensive sense of humor (at least it's depicted as offensive by most women) and we mean nothing of it. A woman who can share the joke and not take it all too seriously is a catch in my eyes. It means she'll get on well with the guy and the poor bloke don't have to walk on eggshells trying to hold his tongue in fear of getting bitch slapped from something that wasn't even at all that serious or meant to be offensive.

Lastly, a woman who is not fake. No duck pouts, less make-up, please do not try to look orange (since when that started to be a good look i'll never know!). She won't worry about what she says, she's true to her word and does not come out with bullshit she says just because it'll earn her brownie points. Somewhere down the line the guy will know when she first enticed him with words of how amazing she can cook and how intellectual she can be actually meant she's only just learnt to cook eggs and only skims the pictures in the newspaper. Guys dont care about that shit, we care about you are, not who you're trying to be. And indeed again, less war paint! If we're serious, we like to know what we'll have to wake up to see first thing in a morning without it being too much of a shock lmao
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby JeremyM on Mon Mar 05, 2012 11:33 pm

Adityasb wrote:This thread has been created numerous times and each time it did not took long to die.


Yeah, another unoriginal new poster, all the other rip off companion threads have died. I answered this in one of the original ones.
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Nightingale on Mon Mar 12, 2012 4:36 pm

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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby ScotlandDream on Tue Mar 13, 2012 6:41 pm

The three qualities i like in a girl are:

1. Sense of humor

2. Indepedant

3. Beautiful eyes/smile
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Guardian7347 on Thu Mar 15, 2012 1:12 pm

1. Some level of independence - I want a woman who has interests outside of me, has a life outside of me, because I have one outside of her. Yes, I want to spend time with her, but if she has nothing going on outside of me, we're going to run out of shit to talk about pretty soon, because I'm not too big on talking about myself.

2. Trust - OK, so this is really number one. TRUST ME!!! I've never cheated, never will. I don't give a damn what you're past boyfriends have done, I'm not them. Don't question my motives, don't try to trip me up in a lie, don't "confront me with evidence", because all you're going to do is start an argument and make me wonder what it is YOU'RE up to that makes you so paranoid about my own behavior. Just saying. I go into a relationship trusting implicitly. I will continue to trust implicitly until you give me just cause not to. Remember what your parents should have taught you. If you do something wrong, come clean and tell the truth. I can be pretty forgiving, but if you lie or conceal, I'll kick you to the curb so fast you won't realize what the hell happened, and yes....I WILL find out.

3. Looks - Sorry, but looks DO count. I don't need a supermodel, but I want someone who looks good. Physical attraction is pretty much a universal requirement. You don't have to get dressed up every day, and sweat pants and a T-shirt are fine for sleepwear or the occasional day lounging around the house, but put a little effort into your looks from time to time...for me. They say men should try to win their girlfriend every day, well that kinda goes both ways. You can't bitch about your bf looking at other women if you're dressed to blend in to the wallpaper.
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby sweetshar on Fri Mar 16, 2012 3:57 am

Guardian7347 wrote:1. Some level of independence - I want a woman who has interests outside of me, has a life outside of me, because I have one outside of her. Yes, I want to spend time with her, but if she has nothing going on outside of me, we're going to run out of shit to talk about pretty soon, because I'm not too big on talking about myself.

2. Trust - OK, so this is really number one. TRUST ME!!! I've never cheated, never will. I don't give a damn what you're past boyfriends have done, I'm not them. Don't question my motives, don't try to trip me up in a lie, don't "confront me with evidence", because all you're going to do is start an argument and make me wonder what it is YOU'RE up to that makes you so paranoid about my own behavior. Just saying. I go into a relationship trusting implicitly. I will continue to trust implicitly until you give me just cause not to. Remember what your parents should have taught you. If you do something wrong, come clean and tell the truth. I can be pretty forgiving, but if you lie or conceal, I'll kick you to the curb so fast you won't realize what the hell happened, and yes....I WILL find out.

3. Looks - Sorry, but looks DO count. I don't need a supermodel, but I want someone who looks good. Physical attraction is pretty much a universal requirement. You don't have to get dressed up every day, and sweat pants and a T-shirt are fine for sleepwear or the occasional day lounging around the house, but put a little effort into your looks from time to time...for me. They say men should try to win their girlfriend every day, well that kinda goes both ways. You can't bitch about your bf looking at other women if you're dressed to blend in to the wallpaper.



Wow!! I have that first two but never been there in the last one.. So, i didn't pass your requirement.. Hhhahaha.. Can i still apply to be your girl? hehehe joke!! :lol:
No need to copy your way of living and paste it to mine.
I'm exactly not the perfect one but i could be that lucky still, by the way of who i am.
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Nightingale on Sat Mar 17, 2012 12:35 pm

Uh-oh! FLIRT ALERT!!! :cheers: PARTY TIME!!!!
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Guardian7347 on Sat Mar 17, 2012 4:38 pm

sweetshar wrote:
Guardian7347 wrote:1. Some level of independence - I want a woman who has interests outside of me, has a life outside of me, because I have one outside of her. Yes, I want to spend time with her, but if she has nothing going on outside of me, we're going to run out of shit to talk about pretty soon, because I'm not too big on talking about myself.

2. Trust - OK, so this is really number one. TRUST ME!!! I've never cheated, never will. I don't give a damn what you're past boyfriends have done, I'm not them. Don't question my motives, don't try to trip me up in a lie, don't "confront me with evidence", because all you're going to do is start an argument and make me wonder what it is YOU'RE up to that makes you so paranoid about my own behavior. Just saying. I go into a relationship trusting implicitly. I will continue to trust implicitly until you give me just cause not to. Remember what your parents should have taught you. If you do something wrong, come clean and tell the truth. I can be pretty forgiving, but if you lie or conceal, I'll kick you to the curb so fast you won't realize what the hell happened, and yes....I WILL find out.

3. Looks - Sorry, but looks DO count. I don't need a supermodel, but I want someone who looks good. Physical attraction is pretty much a universal requirement. You don't have to get dressed up every day, and sweat pants and a T-shirt are fine for sleepwear or the occasional day lounging around the house, but put a little effort into your looks from time to time...for me. They say men should try to win their girlfriend every day, well that kinda goes both ways. You can't bitch about your bf looking at other women if you're dressed to blend in to the wallpaper.



Wow!! I have that first two but never been there in the last one.. So, i didn't pass your requirement.. Hhhahaha.. Can i still apply to be your girl? hehehe joke!! :lol:
Why not? Two out of three aint bad! :lol:
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby sweetshar on Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:47 pm

Nightingale wrote:Uh-oh! FLIRT ALERT!!! :cheers: PARTY TIME!!!!


hahaha.. Not for sale!! Jokes only!! hehe :lol:
No need to copy your way of living and paste it to mine.
I'm exactly not the perfect one but i could be that lucky still, by the way of who i am.
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby sweetshar on Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:51 pm

Guardian7347 wrote:
sweetshar wrote:
Guardian7347 wrote:1. Some level of independence - I want a woman who has interests outside of me, has a life outside of me, because I have one outside of her. Yes, I want to spend time with her, but if she has nothing going on outside of me, we're going to run out of shit to talk about pretty soon, because I'm not too big on talking about myself.

2. Trust - OK, so this is really number one. TRUST ME!!! I've never cheated, never will. I don't give a damn what you're past boyfriends have done, I'm not them. Don't question my motives, don't try to trip me up in a lie, don't "confront me with evidence", because all you're going to do is start an argument and make me wonder what it is YOU'RE up to that makes you so paranoid about my own behavior. Just saying. I go into a relationship trusting implicitly. I will continue to trust implicitly until you give me just cause not to. Remember what your parents should have taught you. If you do something wrong, come clean and tell the truth. I can be pretty forgiving, but if you lie or conceal, I'll kick you to the curb so fast you won't realize what the hell happened, and yes....I WILL find out.

3. Looks - Sorry, but looks DO count. I don't need a supermodel, but I want someone who looks good. Physical attraction is pretty much a universal requirement. You don't have to get dressed up every day, and sweat pants and a T-shirt are fine for sleepwear or the occasional day lounging around the house, but put a little effort into your looks from time to time...for me. They say men should try to win their girlfriend every day, well that kinda goes both ways. You can't bitch about your bf looking at other women if you're dressed to blend in to the wallpaper.



Wow!! I have that first two but never been there in the last one.. So, i didn't pass your requirement.. Hhhahaha.. Can i still apply to be your girl? hehehe joke!! :lol:
Why not? Two out of three aint bad! :lol:


hahaha.. Nightingale said flirt alert is on the air!! hehe.. Its only a joke by the way!!
But it could be possible if someone out there will persist!! haha :lol:
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I'm exactly not the perfect one but i could be that lucky still, by the way of who i am.
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Guardian7347 on Mon Mar 19, 2012 2:22 pm

sweetshar wrote:
Guardian7347 wrote:
sweetshar wrote:
Guardian7347 wrote:1. Some level of independence - I want a woman who has interests outside of me, has a life outside of me, because I have one outside of her. Yes, I want to spend time with her, but if she has nothing going on outside of me, we're going to run out of shit to talk about pretty soon, because I'm not too big on talking about myself.

2. Trust - OK, so this is really number one. TRUST ME!!! I've never cheated, never will. I don't give a damn what you're past boyfriends have done, I'm not them. Don't question my motives, don't try to trip me up in a lie, don't "confront me with evidence", because all you're going to do is start an argument and make me wonder what it is YOU'RE up to that makes you so paranoid about my own behavior. Just saying. I go into a relationship trusting implicitly. I will continue to trust implicitly until you give me just cause not to. Remember what your parents should have taught you. If you do something wrong, come clean and tell the truth. I can be pretty forgiving, but if you lie or conceal, I'll kick you to the curb so fast you won't realize what the hell happened, and yes....I WILL find out.

3. Looks - Sorry, but looks DO count. I don't need a supermodel, but I want someone who looks good. Physical attraction is pretty much a universal requirement. You don't have to get dressed up every day, and sweat pants and a T-shirt are fine for sleepwear or the occasional day lounging around the house, but put a little effort into your looks from time to time...for me. They say men should try to win their girlfriend every day, well that kinda goes both ways. You can't bitch about your bf looking at other women if you're dressed to blend in to the wallpaper.



Wow!! I have that first two but never been there in the last one.. So, i didn't pass your requirement.. Hhhahaha.. Can i still apply to be your girl? hehehe joke!! :lol:
Why not? Two out of three aint bad! :lol:


hahaha.. Nightingale said flirt alert is on the air!! hehe.. Its only a joke by the way!!
But it could be possible if someone out there will persist!! haha :lol:
Yes hon, I caught the joking part. It's all good.
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Vulcanoid on Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:26 am

Wall 'o text above? Meh, I'll stick to the subject.
Well first of all, i don't really care about looks. Of course, the girl should be fit and healthy, but that's just anyone would look for and it's normal. I care more about her personality and way of thinking.

1) Have something to live for. Any girl should know what she's doing, where she'll be in 5 years from now, her career, family. Girls that are undecided and will let themselves carried by the wind, are a HUGE turn-off for me.

2) Intelligence Even though I'm still young, I don't like silly girls. Being able to carry an intelligent conversation with my her is a must. Having a considerable bag o' knowledge is very sexy :) .

3) Being sincere I hate lies almost as much as stupidity, and i guess this applies for everyone. No one would like to be cheated / lied on a constant basis. I know i wouldn't cheat or lie on someone i love, so it's only fair i should expect the same amount of respect.


I already said i don't really care about physical looks, but certain traits are a plus, of course :D (Asian girls always come first though hehe)

1) Glasses Hell yeah! Girls with glasses are a combination of cuteness, hotness and brains (most of the times).

2) Short hair / bald A girl with short hair / bald is a girl of my dreams. Too bad there are a few girls with these kind of tastes. In case of long hair, redhead or black would do.

3) White / light skin Yep. Even though i like dark / tan skin, white / light skin always comes first :)
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Guardian7347 on Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:49 pm

Vulcanoid wrote:Wall 'o text above? Meh, I'll stick to the subject.
Well first of all, i don't really care about looks. Of course, the girl should be fit and healthy, but that's just anyone would look for and it's normal. I care more about her personality and way of thinking.

1) Have something to live for. Any girl should know what she's doing, where she'll be in 5 years from now, her career, family. Girls that are undecided and will let themselves carried by the wind, are a HUGE turn-off for me.

2) Intelligence Even though I'm still young, I don't like silly girls. Being able to carry an intelligent conversation with my her is a must. Having a considerable bag o' knowledge is very sexy :) .

3) Being sincere I hate lies almost as much as stupidity, and i guess this applies for everyone. No one would like to be cheated / lied on a constant basis. I know i wouldn't cheat or lie on someone i love, so it's only fair i should expect the same amount of respect.


I already said i don't really care about physical looks, but certain traits are a plus, of course :D (Asian girls always come first though hehe)

1) Glasses Hell yeah! Girls with glasses are a combination of cuteness, hotness and brains (most of the times).

2) Short hair / bald A girl with short hair / bald is a girl of my dreams. Too bad there are a few girls with these kind of tastes. In case of long hair, redhead or black would do.

3) White / light skin Yep. Even though i like dark / tan skin, white / light skin always comes first :)
lol Kinda kills your argument about not caring about looks when you take the time to not only "stay on subject", but to go off topic and cover in some detail what physical appearances turn you on. Apparently light-skinned asian chicks either with short hair, or tied up in a bun wearing glasses...going for that librarian look I see. Can't argue with that. lol
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Vulcanoid on Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:52 pm

Guardian7347 wrote:lol Kinda kills your argument about not caring about looks when you take the time to not only "stay on subject", but to go off topic and cover in some detail what physical appearances turn you on. Apparently light-skinned asian chicks either with short hair, or tied up in a bun wearing glasses...going for that librarian look I see. Can't argue with that. lol


No lol haha, I really don't care much for the looks. This was more like.... umm... a description about the perfect girl for me, you know..... If i were to chose from this or that, i would pick that of sure :)
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Re: top three qualities in a woman

Postby Guardian7347 on Fri Mar 23, 2012 12:37 pm

Just giving you a hard time man, it's all good.
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