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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby Strider » Mon Feb 13, 2012 1:31 pm

tsetse22 wrote:I should write "This is a hold up. I have a gun." in the memo corner of the checks I write for people who piss me off, and pray they cash them at the teller.


XD This just made my day :D
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby St. Dymphna » Mon Feb 13, 2012 1:48 pm

the entitlement of youth: pay for our ignorance, now!
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby gargoylegoil » Mon Feb 13, 2012 2:32 pm

I'm a Wigwam, I'm a Teepee, I'm a Wigwam, I'm a Teepee.....geez, I'm too tense :lol:
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby SamZee » Mon Feb 13, 2012 3:42 pm

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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby physco kid » Mon Feb 13, 2012 5:16 pm

I wonder why I hate valentines day with such a burning fury? :?
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby JeremyM » Mon Feb 13, 2012 5:35 pm

I hate V-day expectations. lolz
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby gargoylegoil » Wed Feb 15, 2012 5:34 am

"I hate quotations. Tell me what you know." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby Nostalgic » Wed Feb 15, 2012 9:10 am

JeremyM wrote:I hate V-day expectations. lolz

:lol: you brought the wrong flowers?
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby gargoylegoil » Wed Feb 15, 2012 9:14 am

Nostalgic wrote:
JeremyM wrote:I hate V-day expectations. lolz

:lol: you brought the wrong flowers?

Or...yikes..NO flowers :lol:
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby Nostalgic » Wed Feb 15, 2012 9:57 am

gargoylegoil wrote:
Nostalgic wrote:
JeremyM wrote:I hate V-day expectations. lolz

:lol: you brought the wrong flowers?

Or...yikes..NO flowers :lol:

:lol: the drama.

Why do people expect gifts on this day??
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Postby gargoylegoil » Wed Feb 15, 2012 9:59 am

Because of society and the media
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby Nostalgic » Wed Feb 15, 2012 10:08 am

gargoylegoil wrote:Because of society and the media

Definitely has some influence, media started the hype I guess but why do people want, I mean really want something from their partners on this day?
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Postby Jeff_in_Time » Wed Feb 15, 2012 10:57 am

Nos and GG, did ya both check the date on Jer's post? lmao.
Was day before vday, don't think the dude bought flowers that day.

I think some girls have high expectations and it makes the guys sweat it.
Girls should do for their guys too.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby physco kid » Wed Feb 15, 2012 5:04 pm

Those kind of girls are getting rarer then the minute :shock: Almost all whine if they don't get something... :roll:
(If I had a partner) I would be doing something for my partner. I wouldn't expect anything really.
Respect and him just loving me will do me fine. Not that I'd turn down the gifts though if he offered :P
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Postby starreborn » Wed Feb 15, 2012 5:14 pm

i am so glad i don't have to deal with that crap. :lol:
we sense that life is a dark comedy and perhaps we can live with that. however, because the whole thing is written for the entertainment of the gods, too many of the jokes go right over our heads.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Wed Feb 15, 2012 5:58 pm

Hey buddy, you are in deep "kaka", "doodoo", :harhar: "sh_t"!
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby JeremyM » Fri Feb 17, 2012 4:58 am

@ GarG and Nos.

No, lolz, nothing like that. Just trying to make it special and different from the year before.

How can any guy who knows his girl ever get the wrong flowers? It was about dinner plans. She enjoyed herself, all is good.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby St. Dymphna » Fri Feb 17, 2012 7:46 am

dorn, anyone?
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby Nostalgic » Fri Feb 17, 2012 8:15 am

St. Dymphna wrote:dorn, anyone?

I'm sure he'll come back
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby rp0059 » Fri Feb 17, 2012 6:55 pm

All fortune belongs to him who has a contented mind.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Fri Feb 17, 2012 11:08 pm

St. Dymphna wrote:the entitlement of youth: pay for our ignorance, now!


Haha, how about:

the entitlement of George Bush: pay for your wars Forever!

or something like that.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby tsetse22 » Sat Feb 18, 2012 6:55 pm

My wife is slowly picking up my bad habits.
She went after my cigarettes and some beer and she's been gone hours now...
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby Strider » Sun Feb 19, 2012 9:02 am

My mom ran up to me the other day, literally, and goes:

What's eighteen inches long and hangs infront of an asshole?

George Bush's tie.

I though I was going to pass out I laughed so hard.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby physco kid » Sun Feb 19, 2012 7:04 pm

I wonder how I made it this far in my life.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby tsetse22 » Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:56 am

physco kid wrote:I wonder how I made it this far in my life.


As someone who emerged through what could only be called a self-inflicted battlefield,
called my life, I certainly know that feeling! So I have a conscious outlook on that.

For me the only possible answer has been I probably haven't gotten around to finishing
what it is I'm put here to do, even though I haven't completely figured out what "it is" yet.....

In my older years, it seems to be a game of trying to leave "good foot prints"
and looking for chances to make a difference to someone or something.

Otherwise I suppose the 'Why' is just sheer luck, & that just makes for boring
funeral and a forgettable existence.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby physco kid » Mon Feb 20, 2012 8:26 am

tsetse22 wrote:
physco kid wrote:I wonder how I made it this far in my life.


As someone who emerged through what could only be called a self-inflicted battlefield,
called my life, I certainly know that feeling! So I have a conscious outlook on that.

For me the only possible answer has been I probably haven't gotten around to finishing
what it is I'm put here to do, even though I haven't completely figured out what "it is" yet.....

In my older years, it seems to be a game of trying to leave "good foot prints"
and looking for chances to make a difference to someone or something.

Otherwise I suppose the 'Why' is just sheer luck, & that just makes for boring
funeral and a forgettable existence.


I use to believe I had a purpose but now I just doubt I have one anymore. It feels like I lost my will to live but I am still alive. Like I have no purpose. But I guess I got one or I'd be dead now. It's just I am filled with wonder how I made it this far in life and I haven't gave up. I think being alive is luck. Since you could get killed anytime.
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Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Mon Feb 20, 2012 7:20 pm

Who cares!
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby tsetse22 » Tue Feb 21, 2012 3:23 am

KRSTYSTLCLR wrote:Who cares!

?

KC... come on, we were only talking about having a purpose.... ultimately, what's more important than that? :rofl:
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Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Tue Feb 21, 2012 3:53 am

ROFL
tsetse, you ruined a perfectly good pity party!
:)
Btw I was talking about mine.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby tsetse22 » Tue Feb 21, 2012 4:00 am

"Pity party, table for one is ready" LOL

Awwww. Now you have me needing to know if you meant that for another conversation, or your purpose?
I am sure if you knew what yourz was, you'd be surprised.
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Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Tue Feb 21, 2012 4:11 am

No I went on a rant last night at home and on DM. I'm fantasizing about running away from home.
Lol

Speaking of purpose though, mine cannot be life guard forever. Right? ? ? Please dont let that be mine.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby tropicalheatwave » Tue Feb 21, 2012 11:06 am

i'm in aww of the human mind. its amazing, it can do the impossible. the mind can preform miracles. it can make the most simple things complicated. it can make a huge problem out of nothing. it goes on creating obstacles and then trying to overcome them, not realizing that you created your own obstacles to begin with. i applaud the human mind. :clap:
KRSTYSTLCLR wrote:I'm fantasizing about running away from home.
are you sure your not trying to run away from yourself??? sometimes running away can be the best thing though. maybe you just need a break from your ordinary life. but regardless of where you go you will always be there.
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Postby Strider » Tue Feb 21, 2012 12:30 pm

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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby tsetse22 » Tue Feb 21, 2012 1:04 pm

Krysty,
Saw you pic and thought you were in your late-to-mid twenties. So your living at home?
How old are you? (if I may ask)

btw, things have a way of leveling out. It's good to stand your ground, or at least express your breaking point on things sooner better than later. Yet, it sucks to go through it.. but remember it has a result.. as long as you don't go over board ;)
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Postby SmileAreSexy » Tue Feb 21, 2012 2:15 pm

I was watching animal hoarders and thought "What if someone hoarded ostriches? LOL THAT WOULD BE WIERD"

HAI MY NAMES CAROL AND I HOARD OSTRICHES :rofl:
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Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Tue Feb 21, 2012 2:37 pm

Ha, I forgive for ruining my pity party.

Im old enough to have a 24 yr old, 21, 19, and 18 year old sons and a 10 month old grandaughter. The problem is that last Aug. only my 18 year old was living at home. Now we have 4 more young adults living at home and a baby. The baby is the only one that I like at the moment. Don't get me wrong, I love them all but my husband and I am near financially ruined and these young adults arent pulling their fair share of anything. 3 of them are contributing something financially. One is a college student and the student is the only one who really helps clean. Two of our youngest son's help me cook. But my hubby and I are within about 2 weeks of being evicted for overdue rent. I haven't had a trash pick up in over a month. We just take it to work or a friends house. Overgrown yard, water, gas and elec. due and only 1 car between us. There! anyway thats what is making me feel like throwing in the towel. Im the kind of person that can take a lot of pressure and be kind, but I am really on my last bit of patience and hope. If we do get evicted, there is no way we can move everyone with us. Either way someone's going to be homeless. Why not me? I can live with other family and the baby and her mama can live with her family. So .......Thats why the rant last night.
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Postby TheSpontaneousWonder » Tue Feb 21, 2012 2:41 pm

Funniest rumor I heard on Campus: I have turned "cukoo" because of my fiance. xD haha people are nuts! I'm a better person because of him!!!
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Postby TheSpontaneousWonder » Tue Feb 21, 2012 2:53 pm

KRSTYSTLCLR wrote:Ha, I forgive for ruining my pity party.

Im old enough to have a 24 yr old, 21, 19, and 18 year old sons and a 10 month old grandaughter. The problem is that last Aug. only my 18 year old was living at home. Now we have 4 more young adults living at home and a baby. The baby is the only one that I like at the moment. Don't get me wrong, I love them all but my husband and I am near financially ruined and these young adults arent pulling their fair share of anything. 3 of them are contributing something financially. One is a college student and the student is the only one who really helps clean. Two of our youngest son's help me cook. But my hubby and I are within about 2 weeks of being evicted for overdue rent. I haven't had a trash pick up in over a month. We just take it to work or a friends house. Overgrown yard, water, gas and elec. due and only 1 car between us. There! anyway thats what is making me feel like throwing in the towel. Im the kind of person that can take a lot of pressure and be kind, but I am really on my last bit of patience and hope. If we do get evicted, there is no way we can move everyone with us. Either way someone's going to be homeless. Why not me? I can live with other family and the baby and her mama can live with her family. So .......Thats why the rant last night.


Hey, I understand how you feel. There's too much debt and stress to be able to keep composure. I wish I could give you an easy solution but the only solution I have is to have a family discussion and see if they could find other places to go....I know you didn't come on here for advice but as a person who has had issues with family, the grass can truly be greener on the other side.
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Postby St. Dymphna » Tue Feb 21, 2012 6:11 pm

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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby physco kid » Tue Feb 21, 2012 6:40 pm

Wow. I wonder where my Sanity went? Did it just went on a permanent Vacation?
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Postby tropicalheatwave » Tue Feb 21, 2012 9:35 pm

KRSTYSTLCLR wrote:Ha, I forgive for ruining my pity party.

Im old enough to have a 24 yr old, 21, 19, and 18 year old sons and a 10 month old grandaughter. The problem is that last Aug. only my 18 year old was living at home. Now we have 4 more young adults living at home and a baby. The baby is the only one that I like at the moment. Don't get me wrong, I love them all but my husband and I am near financially ruined and these young adults arent pulling their fair share of anything. 3 of them are contributing something financially. One is a college student and the student is the only one who really helps clean. Two of our youngest son's help me cook. But my hubby and I are within about 2 weeks of being evicted for overdue rent. I haven't had a trash pick up in over a month. We just take it to work or a friends house. Overgrown yard, water, gas and elec. due and only 1 car between us. There! anyway thats what is making me feel like throwing in the towel. Im the kind of person that can take a lot of pressure and be kind, but I am really on my last bit of patience and hope. If we do get evicted, there is no way we can move everyone with us. Either way someone's going to be homeless. Why not me? I can live with other family and the baby and her mama can live with her family. So .......Thats why the rant last night.
good luck with that. if for some reason you become homeless, lots of book stores have free wireless internet service, which can be of help. you can spend all day there. also, you can get a membership at a cheap gym with a shower and bathroom. that way you can shower, brush your teeth, maybe even workout, etc. for food: can tuna, can beans, can vegatables, can sausages, cereal, bananas are pretty cheap and nutritious. hope all works out.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Tue Feb 21, 2012 10:25 pm

@ Wonder, Thanks *hugs*

@ Tse, sooo...whats my purpose?

@ Tropical, *looks right, looks left, looks at sky. Debates with self. . . .Really?*
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby tsetse22 » Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:30 am

KRSTYSTLCLR wrote: @ Tse, sooo...whats my purpose? Tks



Oh, idk, but I'm sure deep down you have some idea/s.... I'll bet it will turn out to be a happy surprise. :halo:
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby cap1015 » Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:52 am

KRSTYSTLCLR wrote:Ha, I forgive for ruining my pity party.

Im old enough to have a 24 yr old, 21, 19, and 18 year old sons and a 10 month old grandaughter. The problem is that last Aug. only my 18 year old was living at home. Now we have 4 more young adults living at home and a baby. The baby is the only one that I like at the moment. Don't get me wrong, I love them all but my husband and I am near financially ruined and these young adults arent pulling their fair share of anything. 3 of them are contributing something financially. One is a college student and the student is the only one who really helps clean. Two of our youngest son's help me cook. But my hubby and I are within about 2 weeks of being evicted for overdue rent. I haven't had a trash pick up in over a month. We just take it to work or a friends house. Overgrown yard, water, gas and elec. due and only 1 car between us. There! anyway thats what is making me feel like throwing in the towel. Im the kind of person that can take a lot of pressure and be kind, but I am really on my last bit of patience and hope. If we do get evicted, there is no way we can move everyone with us. Either way someone's going to be homeless. Why not me? I can live with other family and the baby and her mama can live with her family. So .......Thats why the rant last night.



While the solution is not easy, it is simple.......have a meeting you and hubby tell those there, you will be responsible for the following:
then list the things that the grown people can do, like clean up the yard, etc......explain that this is not negotiable.
Next go over the financial situation, I promise you some of those people have some money or can get it, they haven't given it to you or got somewhere else because no one has forced them to be an adult. Explain that if they can't help come up with some cash, they gotta go.

This is not being mean or cruel, but at some point you have to help in your own survival and right now, they are depending on you, and not in a good way. This is a true disservice to them in the long run. I promise if you have this meeting and keep it calm and just to the facts it could be the foundation, for an amazing transformation in your family dynamics. The one thing I hope you don't do is to keep trying the same methods and
expect different results. I think you will be amazed at the relief and hopefuly the cooperation that you will recieve.

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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby SmileAreSexy » Wed Feb 22, 2012 10:32 am

KRSTYSTLCLR wrote:Ha, I forgive for ruining my pity party.

Im old enough to have a 24 yr old, 21, 19, and 18 year old sons and a 10 month old grandaughter. The problem is that last Aug. only my 18 year old was living at home. Now we have 4 more young adults living at home and a baby. The baby is the only one that I like at the moment. Don't get me wrong, I love them all but my husband and I am near financially ruined and these young adults arent pulling their fair share of anything. 3 of them are contributing something financially. One is a college student and the student is the only one who really helps clean. Two of our youngest son's help me cook. But my hubby and I are within about 2 weeks of being evicted for overdue rent. I haven't had a trash pick up in over a month. We just take it to work or a friends house. Overgrown yard, water, gas and elec. due and only 1 car between us. There! anyway thats what is making me feel like throwing in the towel. Im the kind of person that can take a lot of pressure and be kind, but I am really on my last bit of patience and hope. If we do get evicted, there is no way we can move everyone with us. Either way someone's going to be homeless. Why not me? I can live with other family and the baby and her mama can live with her family. So .......Thats why the rant last night.


Aww im sorry krstystlclr:( Dont give up hope! I hope the best and dont worry about ranting. You obviously have a lot on your mind.

tropicalheatwave wrote: good luck with that. if for some reason you become homeless, lots of book stores have free wireless internet service, which can be of help. you can spend all day there. also, you can get a membership at a cheap gym with a shower and bathroom. that way you can shower, brush your teeth, maybe even workout, etc. for food: can tuna, can beans, can vegatables, can sausages, cereal, bananas are pretty cheap and nutritious. hope all works out.


OMG TROPICS If I could choose one person to help me survive it would be you :lol: !
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Wed Feb 22, 2012 3:31 pm

Thanks Cap. That is pretty much what I had done. It wasen't until I had a little meltdown at home that they started to get a clue. I guess when they see me lose it, thay know things are pretty bad. I totally agree that it is a disservice to them. They HAVE to learn to survive and learn to take hardship as a learning tool to do better. Dad and I won't always be here to lead the way and figure things out.
Thanks for the blessings sent our way *hugs*

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Thanks kiddo! Yeah everyone needs to rant once in a while. :)
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby physco kid » Wed Feb 22, 2012 4:05 pm

Dang it! I just had gathered what little sanity I had and it went away when I thought of my friends words! XP I didn't know a promise would hurt sooo much X_X . What made it worse is that my friend sounded like a little girl.I would consider her a lil sister I never had . Made my heart crumble like stale bread. :( During the time I spent the night at my friend's. I think it was Either Friday night or Saturday morning.... I told her more about Kermit and How I had Severe Depression. She asked, "Whats Depression?" I told her basically it was a person feeling sad and worthless, and they feel suicidal. She asked, "Whats suicidal?" Told her someone wanting to kill themselves. She said, "Don't kill yourself, Miranda. I would be very sad." Picture maybe a sad looking 4 yr old then you might see why. Maybe Caring too much is my problem but I can't help it.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby physco kid » Wed Feb 22, 2012 5:33 pm

Yaayyy for nice showers....
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby tsetse22 » Thu Feb 23, 2012 2:17 am

For Lent I am going to give up.
Some people dream, other just sleep.
Some folks are goats and others just sheep
all more alike than different.
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Re: Share off random thoughts for God-knows-what reason.

Postby KRSTYSTLCLR » Thu Feb 23, 2012 12:36 pm

OMG its almost March!?!?
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