Rant and Rave Think Tank 2

[BLUE]

I would take a year off and watch the seasons go by.

[Chelsea Lynn]

:cabbagepatch: Hmm thinking of question for this tank...... Uh simple one

What would you do if you were given 1million dollars?

I'd put some away for college. Buy my mom a home. I'd also invest so my million would grow. If all went as planned, I'd get a home, adopt my nephew, his college would be paid for..thing of such nature.

[BLUE]

Omb Chelsea solo cute!

[Chelsea Lynn]

Omb Chelsea solo cute!

Thanks, Blue! How are things going with you, its been a whiiile!

[BLUE]

Things are good. Whet have you been up to lately?

[jojo]

Copying this question in here for Isis, I told her to post it in here and on the forum too, she'd get more replies.
think she might be shy to do it, so I am doing it for her.

Okay, here's my next random question...

Suppose a pregnant woman is lost in the woods and goes into labor. She gives birth to the baby, but the baby dies within a short time--like, less than an hour--of its birth. Because she has no access to communication and no way to get help, the mother decides to lay the baby to rest by wrapping it up and leaving it in the woods.

What would the chances be of her facing murder charges upon being found?...

Here's my reply from her thread.

On that specific scenario? None it isn't premeditated on her part.

[jojo]

I know people like that photo, it is sad. Like they are trapped living inside themselves, scared to have any real human contact, only cyber.

Here is a good link of online addictions:
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/internet_cybersex_addiction.htm
Some points from it :

Signs and symptoms of Internet addiction or computer addiction

Signs and symptoms of Internet addiction vary from person to person. For example, there are no set hours per day or number of messages sent that indicate Internet addiction. But here are some general warning signs that your Internet use may have become a problem:

Losing track of time online. Do you frequently find yourself on the Internet longer than you intended? Does a few minutes turn in to a few hours? Do you get irritated or cranky if your online time is interrupted?
Having trouble completing tasks at work or home. Do you find laundry piling up and little food in the house for dinner because you’ve been busy online? Perhaps you find yourself working late more often because you can’t complete your work on time — then staying even longer when everyone else has gone home so you can use the Internet freely.
Isolation from family and friends. Is your social life suffering because of all the time you spend online? Are you neglecting your family and friends? Do you feel like no one in your “real” life — even your spouse — understands you like your online friends?
Feeling guilty or defensive about your Internet use. Are you sick of your spouse nagging you to get off the computer and spend time together? Do you hide your Internet use or lie to your boss and family about the amount of time you spend on the computer and what you do while you're online?
Feeling a sense of euphoria while involved in Internet activities. Do you use the Internet as an outlet when stressed, sad, or for sexual gratification or excitement? Have you tried to limit your Internet time but failed?

Physical symptoms of Internet addiction

Internet or computer addiction can also cause physical discomfort such as:

Carpal Tunnel Syndrome (pain and numbness in hands and wrists)
Dry eyes or strained vision
Back aches and neck aches; severe headaches
Sleep disturbances
Pronounced weight gain or weight loss

Wow.
I know so many who are then! I will read that link, thanks Shara.

@ psyhcokid
I'd MOVE! anywhere.
Buy a big house.
Quit my job, finish school though and pay it all off.
Treat family/friends.
Buy a cool car/ maybe 2.
Go on a 6 month holiday.

[KRSTYSTLCLR]

The scenario is rather vague. Why would she be lost in the woods? I think how far along she was and her reason to be in the woods might matter. Considering what Isis mentioned, I don't think the woman would be blamed, but surely an investigation would be called for, just in case.

[Guardian7347]

The scenario is rather vague. Why would she be lost in the woods? I think how far along she was and her reason to be in the woods might matter. Considering what Isis mentioned, I don't think the woman would be blamed, but surely an investigation would be called for, just in case.

Agreed. A serious investigation would be called for, and an indictment may occur, but in the end I think she'd walk.

As for the million dollar question, I'd take care of mama first, invest the rest, and live off the interest. Nothing extravagant, but I'd live nicely.

[JeremyM]

Copying this question in here for Isis, I told her to post it in here and on the forum too, she'd get more replies.
think she might be shy to do it, so I am doing it for her.

Okay, here's my next random question...

Suppose a pregnant woman is lost in the woods and goes into labor. She gives birth to the baby, but the baby dies within a short time--like, less than an hour--of its birth. Because she has no access to communication and no way to get help, the mother decides to lay the baby to rest by wrapping it up and leaving it in the woods.

What would the chances be of her facing murder charges upon being found?...

I'd wonder if she was that far along why was she out in the woods alone, and in woods she didn't know[if she got lost] and if the baby died that quickly, did it suffocate?

She didn't have a cell phone with her walking alone in woods?
No mother would leave the baby there, for animals to eat? I don't think so.

It looks fishy!

[JeremyM]

Off of jojo's question about internet addiction.

If you had a wife/husband/gf/bf who was cyber addicted and you found out what would you say to them, how'd you feel, would you end relationship?

and no, I am not referring to anything about me, but I had an aunt who's 2nd husband was caught cyberfucking a 26 year old, lolz, he was 58. She was so hurt she filed for divorce.

[physco kid]

If you had a wife/husband/gf/bf who was cyber addicted and you found out what would you say to them, how'd you feel, would you end relationship?

( If I did have a bf ) I wouldnt end the relationship. No point unless he's cheating. I would just ask if he wanted to work on it with me.(since I do fit some the addiction signs as the strained vision and ect.) I would probably feel a bit shocked though if he was

[JeremyM]

That's a good reply, PK.
Now what if he was having cybersex, that to many is considered cheating, but to lots it isn't, would you walk away then.

I know you are younger, so you don't have to answer if you don't want to, don't want to make you feel awkward.

I think for me if just addicted to being online, I wouldn't break it off either, but if they were having internet sex, I definitely would.

[BLUE]

Cybersex is cheating to me. I couldn't to it to danimal and I wouldn't want it done yo me. Just not worth the hurt online or in person.

[physco kid]

That's a good reply, PK.
Now what if he was having cybersex, that to many is considered cheating, but to lots it isn't, would you walk away then.

I know you are younger, so you don't have to answer if you don't want to, don't want to make you feel awkward.

I think for me if just addicted to being online, I wouldn't break it off either, but if they were having internet sex, I definitely would.

It didnt make me feel awkward. ^-^ Just thought I'd give meh

[jojo]

Off of jojo's question about internet addiction.

If you had a wife/husband/gf/bf who was cyber addicted and you found out what would you say to them, how'd you feel, would you end relationship?

and no, I am not referring to anything about me, but I had an aunt who's 2nd husband was caught cyberfucking a 26 year old, lolz, he was 58. She was so hurt she filed for divorce.

Cybering is cheating so to the curb!

Online obsessing is a problem too if they don't shower, eat, clean or go to school and work, they'd need a talking to on it, but it'd have to get severe to say bye.

[*~*Isis*~*]

I don't want to touch the cybersex issue.

As for the million-dollar question, I would want to give a good deal of it to support causes that matter to me, such as various researches (Alzheimer's, diabetes, autism, etc.) and fighting violence against women, as well as programs to help build girls' self-esteem. I would invest some of it in building a badly needed community center. I would make over my parents' home, and I would buy myself a condo. If I had anything left I would spoil my nieces and nephews at Christmas.

@jojo--thanks for posting my question. I appreciate it

[JeremyM]

I agree, BLUE and jojo. It is cheating, some people try to fool themselves and others into thinking it isn't.

Why don't you want to comment on cybersex, Isis? I have never done that either, and still hold a judgement on it.

[tsetse22]

This has happened to me twice now... someone hands me their i-phone to show me a picture of something
like a fish they caught, or cabinet they're building... and the phone accidentally goes to the main picture menu
and there's photo's of their junk... Argh!

When that happens that person becomes dead to me. Idiots.

[JeremyM]

Hah! oh, man. What do you even say to them in that moment, do they even act embarrassed?

I don't have any dirty pics on my phone, you never know who will be looking through it, lolz.

[tsetse22]

Absolutely not... pretended not to notice and walked away. Such moron's.

[JeremyM]

Obviously they are mailing it around to various people they know, or casually know online. Or pop ups like you got a few times by accident.

That sort of shit will ruin a person, politicians, ministers, married men alike. No one needs a pic of their own dick on their phone or computer, lolz.

[SharA2]

@Shara

I see myself in some of those addicted to internet signs....
I agree with society now days. Its like every man/ woman for them selves. Not like 20 or 30 years ago when neighbors had awesome block parties and everyone helped their neighbors. Families and family dynamics are so different too. At least that's my feeling. Maybe other parts of the country are different, not where I am.

I do not like when I am off for extended days and I cannot recall what and where I posted I have some of the internet addiction signs too, I think anyone who may use a computer for leisure time, probably would. We are on the low end of it, I am sure. It is everyone for themselves like you said, Krsty, my mom's parent never even used to lock their doors, the people you lived by you trusted. No tall fences and guard dogs, kids played with neighbor kids and other parents were happy to play mom or dad for them.

@ Physcokid- I said in a thread by BLUE similar things-- Travel the world, set up schools for kids around the world in needy countries. Support charities that matter to me, pay off all the bills of all my siblings and mother, buy a nice home.

[SharA2]

Okay, here's my next random question...

Suppose a pregnant woman is lost in the woods and goes into labor. She gives birth to the baby, but the baby dies within a short time--like, less than an hour--of its birth. Because she has no access to communication and no way to get help, the mother decides to lay the baby to rest by wrapping it up and leaving it in the woods.

What would the chances be of her facing murder charges upon being found?...
.

Her being lost and giving birth and the baby dying does not mean she did wrong or that anything was malicious on her part, but her leaving the babies body behind and covering it up, that looks suspicious. Why wouldn't she also have her health, life endangered after a birth in the woods-- could be bleeding out? If she did not kill the baby, and the baby died on its own because of the circumstances of its birth I do not see her being charged with murder. An investigation would certainly be made regardless.

@ JeremyM- I see it as cheating too, I would no longer trust them.

[KRSTYSTLCLR]

Just want to say Welcome Back Shara

[SharA2]

Thank you I love the pink
I read your announcement thread-- is everything okay now?

[KRSTYSTLCLR]

Well Im not sure. This computer is acting funny still and I updated all my protections etc. If It goes like my other one did, well I just cant afford another computer. It really pisses me off, and I'm pretty sure what ever was wrong with it came from this site.

Thanks for asking and it really is good to have you back. The last week has been weird....LOL Ha
Good night

[*~*Isis*~*]

Why don't you want to comment on cybersex, Isis? I have never done that either, and still hold a judgement on it.

Because I don't want to get into the infidelity issue, period. I personally think--and yes, I'm aware that this makes me sound crazy--that there's an infidelity witch hunt going in America, and the cheaters get away with what they've done (for the most part) while the "oh-so-dreaded" other woman--who may not even know about the marriage--is blamed for the entire thing and is labeled every damn name but a child of God, and depending on where she lives, she suffers a fucked-up reputation and has to leave town, and never see her loved ones again, just to find peace...and don't even get me started on AOA (alienation of affections) lawsuits!

I spent too much time in 2010 and 2011 defending Alicia Keys and Fantasia Barrino against trolls. And how many names were Swizz Beatz and the T-Mobile guy Fantasia was with called? NONE!!!

And no, I haven't had an affair with a married man just because I have this opinion. And just because I'm single doesn't mean I can't feel strongly about this--and there are a lot of people who are like, "Wait until you're married, you'll think the exact same way." No, I wouldn't, because (1) I'm not them, and (2) I don't like seeing other women acting like that, so why would I?!...

*breathes deeply to catch her breath*

So that's my opinion. Take it as you wish. I may have offended some people, and I apologize if I did, but that's my view, and I'm sticking to it

[KRSTYSTLCLR]

Just a quick hello Isis, and do you still do the Angel Readings? Or did it burn you out?

[*~*Isis*~*]

I sort of burned out. A psychic I went to see a couple of years back said it was because I wasn't getting any energy exchange (this is why psychics take money). I'd like to get back to readings someday, but I need a way to keep from burning out again.

Thanks for asking. I've been worried about letting people down, because I'm still getting lots of requests.

[KRSTYSTLCLR]

Oh, well thats too bad. I used to do massage therapy, mostly sports therapy, but it burned me out. I think it was the energy of always helping someone else too. Anyway if you get back into the readings....Lol, I just have never had a reading and curious about it.

Do you have any other topics for this thread?

[*~*Isis*~*]

Here's my third random question, in two parts:

(1) If a man rapes a woman, gets her pregnant, and she dies from the complications, should that be considered murder? (I think it should.)

(2) Do you think America's rape laws are sufficient? (I think they're far from.)

[KRSTYSTLCLR]

Are you going to Law School?

I'm not sure about the rape being considered murder if the woman dies due to complications of pregnancy. I think that there would have to be specif extenuating circumstances related to the rape.

I don't know what Americas rape laws are. It varies from state to state. I think some sex offender laws are ridicules.

[*~*Isis*~*]

No, I'm not in law school--good question, though--but there is a good reason I'm asking questions like this. I just can't say yet

The way I see it it's a valid chain argument; the pregnancy wouldn't happen if not for the rape, so therefore, the rape indirectly caused the death.

[Seale]

Here's my third random question, in two parts:

(1) If a man rapes a woman, gets her pregnant, and she dies from the complications, should that be considered murder? (I think it should.)

(2) Do you think America's rape laws are sufficient? (I think they're far from.)

1) Sure, I'd be willing to support it if someone called it involuntary manslaughter. The rapist doesn't intend to kill the victim, but the victim dies because of the rapist's actions. Lock 'im up.

2) I live in Denmark, and don't really know anything about America's rape laws. But from what I've seen, and heard, there are a lot of people who're unhappy with the different laws in the States.

[KRSTYSTLCLR]

@ Isis,

I disagree with the chain reaction, because the woman could have had an abortion, or should of most likely seen a DR. after the rape. If so there would have been a complete work up of her blood and a physical exam. These exams should determine if she was damaged from the rape and she would have made a informed decision in regards to trying to carry to term.
Remember on something like that, there had to be a reasonable doubt. Forensic Dr.'s would be called as expert witnesses and if the woman didn't see a Dr. after the rape, it would probably be found that she was negligent in her own way.

Also, think about what it takes to bring a case to the DA in the first place. There would have to be some evidence for a Prosecuting Attorney to even bring the case to trial.

[JeremyM]

Why don't you want to comment on cybersex, Isis? I have never done that either, and still hold a judgement on it.

Because I don't want to get into the infidelity issue, period. I personally think--and yes, I'm aware that this makes me sound crazy--that there's an infidelity witch hunt going in America, and the cheaters get away with what they've done (for the most part) while the "oh-so-dreaded" other woman--who may not even know about the marriage--is blamed for the entire thing and is labeled every damn name but a child of God, and depending on where she lives, she suffers a fucked-up reputation and has to leave town, and never see her loved ones again, just to find peace...and don't even get me started on AOA (alienation of affections) lawsuits!

I spent too much time in 2010 and 2011 defending Alicia Keys and Fantasia Barrino against trolls. And how many names were Swizz Beatz and the T-Mobile guy Fantasia was with called? NONE!!!

And no, I haven't had an affair with a married man just because I have this opinion. And just because I'm single doesn't mean I can't feel strongly about this--and there are a lot of people who are like, "Wait until you're married, you'll think the exact same way." No, I wouldn't, because (1) I'm not them, and (2) I don't like seeing other women acting like that, so why would I?!...

*breathes deeply to catch her breath*

So that's my opinion. Take it as you wish. I may have offended some people, and I apologize if I did, but that's my view, and I'm sticking to it

Relax, hun, I am not easily offended and I did ask your opinion. I don't know about Alicia Keys or Fantasia. But I never blame a woman over a man,I look at all the facts and then decide.

I think the person who is married holds the most blame when cheating, they have another person they vowed to honor and broke that.

People always blame the woman, even in rape cases, even the court system can't see it right. So I hear ya!

[JeremyM]

Here's my third random question, in two parts:

(1) If a man rapes a woman, gets her pregnant, and she dies from the complications, should that be considered murder? (I think it should.)

(2) Do you think America's rape laws are sufficient? (I think they're far from.)

1- There should be some accountability on the rapists part. I don't know what under the law.

2- None of the laws are sufficient on anything, imo, including rape, domestic abuse, stalking.

[tropicalheatwave]

Off of jojo's question about internet addiction.

If you had a wife/husband/gf/bf who was cyber addicted and you found out what would you say to them, how'd you feel, would you end relationship?

and no, I am not referring to anything about me, but I had an aunt who's 2nd husband was caught cyberfucking a 26 year old, lolz, he was 58. She was so hurt she filed for divorce.

i wouldn't say anything. i would grab a baseball bat and bash the computer then throw it out. that way the computer will never be used again. if she buys another one then i'll do the same thing. i can live without a computer. (seriously i wouldn't know what to do, but i could see myself doing something like that)

[jojo]

^ lol that's hot!

@ Isis- You are welcome.

This has happened to me twice now... someone hands me their i-phone to show me a picture of something
like a fish they caught, or cabinet they're building... and the phone accidentally goes to the main picture menu
and there's photo's of their junk... Argh!

When that happens that person becomes dead to me. Idiots.

I would make fun of the guys so bad they'd never make that mistake again. What freaks.

[jojo]

Here's my third random question, in two parts:

(1) If a man rapes a woman, gets her pregnant, and she dies from the complications, should that be considered murder? (I think it should.)

(2) Do you think America's rape laws are sufficient? (I think they're far from.)

Idk if he could be charged with murder for her dying from a pregnancy he caused by raping her, his lawyer might argue she could have taken that after rape pill to make sure she did not get pregnant off that rape.

Don't the police suggest that and the hospital to rape victims?

No. The rape laws aren't sufficient, we need more female judges.

[SharA2]

Well Im not sure. This computer is acting funny still and I updated all my protections etc. If It goes like my other one did, well I just cant afford another computer. It really pisses me off, and I'm pretty sure what ever was wrong with it came from this site.

Thanks for asking and it really is good to have you back. The last week has been weird....LOL Ha
Good night

If you find the forums slow today, it is-- so is will not just be your computer. Do you feel your other computer crashed because of this website? Have you contacted the webmaster about the problems you have been encountering, he can check the website and let you know.

I understand it is very costly to keep repairing your computers and having them cleaned when the website can scan its site for viruses everyday to make sure it is safe for its forum goers. I cannot get online and on forums daily like others--can only sporadically, but I try. Thank you, KRSTY. I loved your photo you posted.

[SharA2]

Here's my third random question, in two parts:

(1) If a man rapes a woman, gets her pregnant, and she dies from the complications, should that be considered murder? (I think it should.)

(2) Do you think America's rape laws are sufficient? (I think they're far from.)

I do not know if he would ever serve time on a murder conviction for her death-- that would be a difficult case to win, he should be serving time for the rape to begin with. If that was my child who died because of a situation you described I would file suit against him, not positive under what charge, maybe -- wrongful death.

No, I think the rape laws are not sufficient. I do like that most states have rape shield laws.
I think spousal rape is difficult to prosecute and those laws should be stronger, I think they do not get reported as much because the woman feels no one will take it serious, including the courts. I think but I may be wrong that the penalties on spousal rape are lesser than those on stranger rape crimes. This may be specific to certain states.

[jojo]

Can more people answer Isis's question for her, she needs the info for her writing.

@ Guardian- How many rapes are reported by military women serving overseas or even at home? Is that a big problem or not?

[Guardian7347]

Can more people answer Isis's question for her, she needs the info for her writing.

@ Guardian- How many rapes are reported by military women serving overseas or even at home? Is that a big problem or not?

There are differing numbers for the differing branches, but reported rapes are far below the actual number. I can't claim to know these numbers personally, but I'm sure you could google them if you were really interested. What might surprise you is that there are more cases of male on male rape than there are male on female rape...although if you really stop and think about it, it makes sense. Rape in the military, regardless of the numbers, is a huge problem. It destroys the most important quality we possess. That implicit trust that the other guy (or girl) has got your back. Everything starts to fall apart once you lose that trust.

[tropicalheatwave]

even gangs join the military http://youtu.be/hpMg393Imk4

[jojo]

Can more people answer Isis's question for her, she needs the info for her writing.

@ Guardian- How many rapes are reported by military women serving overseas or even at home? Is that a big problem or not?

There are differing numbers for the differing branches, but reported rapes are far below the actual number. I can't claim to know these numbers personally, but I'm sure you could google them if you were really interested. What might surprise you is that there are more cases of male on male rape than there are male on female rape...although if you really stop and think about it, it makes sense. Rape in the military, regardless of the numbers, is a huge problem. It destroys the most important quality we possess. That implicit trust that the other guy (or girl) has got your back. Everything starts to fall apart once you lose that trust.

If the reported are far below the actual numbers it is a HUGE problem. I might try to see if I can google a current stat on it.

It does surprise me that there are more male on male rapes, then male on female rapes. Why? Because more men serving and drinking and close quarters? idk I never thought it would be more against men at all.

What is if you know is the penalty for that offense? Are military personnel allowed to fraternize sexually at all?

@ tropical - that video was really interesting. That is scary about that guy in the beginning of the vid on trying to kill the police officer. Officer only had a hand gun
The military doesn't screen about gang members?

WTF they are getting combat trained and taking it to the streets when back home.

[Guardian7347]

Can more people answer Isis's question for her, she needs the info for her writing.

@ Guardian- How many rapes are reported by military women serving overseas or even at home? Is that a big problem or not?

There are differing numbers for the differing branches, but reported rapes are far below the actual number. I can't claim to know these numbers personally, but I'm sure you could google them if you were really interested. What might surprise you is that there are more cases of male on male rape than there are male on female rape...although if you really stop and think about it, it makes sense. Rape in the military, regardless of the numbers, is a huge problem. It destroys the most important quality we possess. That implicit trust that the other guy (or girl) has got your back. Everything starts to fall apart once you lose that trust.

If the reported are far below the actual numbers it is a HUGE problem. I might try to see if I can google a current stat on it.

It does surprise me that there are more male on male rapes, then male on female rapes. Why? Because more men serving and drinking and close quarters? idk I never thought it would be more against men at all.

What is if you know is the penalty for that offense? Are military personnel allowed to fraternize sexually at all?

@ tropical - that video was really interesting. That is scary about that guy in the beginning of the vid on trying to kill the police officer. Officer only had a hand gun
The military doesn't screen about gang members?

WTF they are getting combat trained and taking it to the streets when back home.

I can only make guesses as to why there are more male on male attacks, but yes, I would presume that to be the case.
Military penalties for rape can be pretty severe. Dishonorable discharge is the least of your worries. Again, I can't claim to have all the answers, but it's definitely not pretty.
Military personnel are allowed to fraternize sexually...to a limited extent. You can't play around outside of your "association", meaning if you are an officer, they can't be enlisted. If you are a sergeant, they can't be lower enlisted. Either way, they can't be in your chain of command, so if I had a female officer over me, I couldn't be on top of her.

[BLUE]

I had never thought of rape in the case of soldier on soldier. Please don't think I am diminishing rape in any other sense but in my head soldier on soldier is a whole other level. You have manly men there for one purpose. It is a level of one of the highest trust. Taking a manhood of that caliber in that situation....I can't even imagine. I am still trying to wrap my brain around it. *protects Guardian's booty*

[Guardian7347]

I had never thought of rape in the case of soldier on soldier. Please don't think I am diminishing rape in any other sense but in my head soldier on soldier is a whole other level. You have manly men there for one purpose. It is a level of one of the highest trust. Taking a manhood of that caliber in that situation....I can't even imagine. I am still trying to wrap my brain around it. *protects Guardian's booty*

Tell you what sweetheart. You protect my booty, and I'll keep your hands warm!