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Postby TheJoker on Wed Nov 30, 2011 7:25 pm

i dont know how this thread will go here. so, what are your views on the subject? i am personally for it. so what if you love someone of the same sex and why not marry them! and if they want a a child, why not allow them to have one?
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby The Atomic Mango on Wed Nov 30, 2011 9:36 pm

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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby TheJoker on Wed Nov 30, 2011 9:43 pm

so does that mean your for it? by the way, i was always for it. even before i saw the video
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby KRSTYSTLCLR on Tue Dec 06, 2011 12:53 pm

For it .
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Postby SharA2 on Tue Dec 06, 2011 1:03 pm

I am also for it. These prejudices and biases against gays and lesbians needs to stop it doesn't seem to be as much of an issue in other parts of the world.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby tropicalheatwave on Wed Dec 07, 2011 11:20 pm

i always thought marriage was silly but yeah i'm for it. i see nothing wrong with same sex marriage.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby drewterry on Thu Dec 08, 2011 12:16 am

As much as homosexuals might try to be normal they will never be normal. That is about all there is to it. So yeah let them have their dillusions. Let them pretend to be the same as heterosexual folks who do it the right way. I mean we all can have our fantasies right? And I suppose they could find a pagan church or a satanic church or some dim witted atheist to perform a marriage ceremony for them too while they are at it. That way they can be just like a real heterosexual couple with wedding rings and babies and the whole nine yards. Heterosexuals should actually be flattered that homosexuals are trying so hard to mimic them and be just like them I mean after all mimicry is the most sincere form of flattery isnt it?
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby The Atomic Mango on Thu Dec 08, 2011 1:52 am

go, drewterry, go! show them the truth!
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby drewterry on Thu Dec 08, 2011 11:22 pm

The Atomic Mango wrote:go, drewterry, go! show them the truth!



I try but it doesnt work. None are so blind as those that will not see. Like jews hanging around white folks all the time when they have a country of their own or black folks hanging around white folks and mimicing them when they could just go back to their own country. Everyone wants to hang on white folks all the time and then turn around and tell white folks how mean they are. Homosexuals are the same way. They want to do everything that a heterosexual does but they cant because they are trying to do it the wrong way. Even when a lesbian gets pregnant for example she is still using a mans sperm to do it. She is just finding mechanical ways of doing what nature already gave people a biological way of doing. It would be kind of amusing if it wasnt so pathetic. But then what do I know Im just a white trash redneck with a mullet. LoL...
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby KRSTYSTLCLR on Fri Dec 09, 2011 10:15 am

WOW, REALLY...
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby Xero. on Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:21 am

Drewterry...
Not sure if troll or just really stupid.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby drewterry on Sat Dec 17, 2011 9:55 am

Neither I just let my emotions run riot about these subjects. I retain use of logic and actually think. You should try it sometime.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby Xero. on Sat Dec 17, 2011 10:25 am

drewterry wrote:
The Atomic Mango wrote:go, drewterry, go! show them the truth!



I try but it doesnt work. None are so blind as those that will not see. Like jews hanging around white folks all the time when they have a country of their own or black folks hanging around white folks and mimicing them when they could just go back to their own country. Everyone wants to hang on white folks all the time and then turn around and tell white folks how mean they are. Homosexuals are the same way. They want to do everything that a heterosexual does but they cant because they are trying to do it the wrong way. Even when a lesbian gets pregnant for example she is still using a mans sperm to do it. She is just finding mechanical ways of doing what nature already gave people a biological way of doing. It would be kind of amusing if it wasnt so pathetic. But then what do I know Im just a white trash redneck with a mullet. LoL...



Xero. wrote:Drewterry...
Not sure if troll or just really stupid.


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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby Nostalgic on Sat Dec 17, 2011 11:41 am

tropicalheatwave wrote:i always thought marriage was silly but yeah i'm for it. i see nothing wrong with same sex marriage.

Same here,
We had no choice but to get married if we wanted to stay together. If we didn't have visa issues I think we wouldn't have discussed marriage until Lucien was born so either way our marriage was or would have been just for paperwork reasons.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby MonSTAR on Fri Jan 06, 2012 11:40 pm

I did a presentation on Same Sex marriages and the effect on children a couple of semesters back. My report was titled "The Kids (of Gays) are OKAY!" which sums up the whole thing nicely. There are only a few studies out on the subject, but they all show that it makes very little difference whether the parents are gay or straight. If they are loving parents the kids will be okay.
So I'm for it.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby VenusInChains on Wed Jan 18, 2012 2:50 am

I'm for same sex marriage and same sex parents.

I'm not gay but this made me laugh
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby Nostalgic on Thu Jan 19, 2012 1:08 pm

VenusInChains wrote:I'm for same sex marriage and same sex parents.

I'm not gay but this made me laugh
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby CeciliaMystic on Sun Jan 22, 2012 8:50 am

If they are togather and happy let them be happy...who is to say anyone can't be with anyone??...love rules without rules-always. ;)
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby ncshank on Sun Jan 22, 2012 11:49 am

While I am not against the wishes of an individual, bringing up a child you will need to be open with your values and allow the child to grow in an environment not limited. This will be a bit difficult depending on where you live and if the environment accepts your realtionship. Because a child will be developing to establish his/her identity and it should not be clouded by prejudice in his environment.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby MrCleveland on Sat Mar 17, 2012 12:44 am

Totally...neutral!

What gays do at home is none of my buisness...It's wrong according to my beliefs, but I'll STILL talk to them like they're people. Also, I hear that gays had troubled childhood lives...true? (I'll be making a thread about questions I have about the gay community such as "were they born that way", "do many want to marry", or even "has their childhood sucked")?
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby Rainne on Sun Mar 25, 2012 11:31 pm

Xero. wrote:Drewterry...
Not sure if troll or just really stupid.


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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby msdreamy on Tue May 15, 2012 3:34 am

Not sure what side of the fence I'm on. As a Democrat and a Christian I have mixed feelings. I know conservatives hold to the Bible and say marriage is between a man and a woman, as the Bible teaches us. I just can't help but think that the Bible itself wasn't written at the same time of creation and I'm sure people still got married waaaay back when. Therefore, marriage is older than the Bible and organized religion. Since marriage pre-dates organized religion why would we let religion dictate whom you can marry? It also seems to me that more people are coming out of the closet these days than in any other time, and what you see are gays who are generally looking for manogamous relationships, to share their lives with someone they love (just like straight people). And yes they can continue to do so even without being married (just like straight people) the only difference is, when you are not married, you pay more in taxes. If you look at the tax code it's generally set up so that unwed people/families pay more in taxes, forget about death benefits and receiving your lover's pension when they die or ANYTHING remotely tied to money whatsoever! It would seem to me that the solution for conservatives would be simple, change the tax code so that everyone is taxed equally and not according to whether or not their married, and if they have one child or ten children. I'm sure you will notice a huge difference when it comes to the subject of marriage. My case in point....my brother was living with his girlfriend of 2 years; she has a daughter from a previous relationship and then subsequently got pregnant by my brother. They decided day care was too expensive so she would stay home and take care of the baby while he went to work and paid the bills. Then tax season came around and since she did not have an income she could not file for earned income tax credit for 1st born. And because they weren't married he could only claim his son and himself. They were planning on a wedding the following year in the summer, however due to TAXES they eloped in December of that year so that my brother could claim everyone on his taxes. How romantic! Like I said, I'm not sure where I stand on the issue, but it seems to me like it's more of a tax issue than anything else.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby Vulcanoid on Tue May 22, 2012 9:31 am

I'm not for it personally. Don't get me wrong. I even have close friends, a gay couple. Really cool guys. Their relationship is OK, Marriage is OK, but a kid is too much in my opinion. Because of the fucked society we live in, the poor kid will be ridiculed his whole childhood, other kids will be ashamed to hang out with him, no one will visit him at his home. Or worse, the kid itself will lie about his parents.
Why? Because 99% of kids today grew up like that, with a mom and a dad that hate gay and lesbians.
I'm just being realistic and think about the kid in the first place. I'm sure I'll attract ALLOT of hate because of this answer, but that's how it is. The gay and lesbian couples that want a kid should think about his future, and not think about themselves first.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby Brielle2000 on Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:56 pm

Up for it. It's nobody's business what happens in other people's lives.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby Seale on Sun Jun 10, 2012 4:31 am

Vulcanoid wrote:I'm not for it personally. Don't get me wrong. I even have close friends, a gay couple. Really cool guys. Their relationship is OK, Marriage is OK, but a kid is too much in my opinion. Because of the fucked society we live in, the poor kid will be ridiculed his whole childhood, other kids will be ashamed to hang out with him, no one will visit him at his home. Or worse, the kid itself will lie about his parents.
Why? Because 99% of kids today grew up like that, with a mom and a dad that hate gay and lesbians.
I'm just being realistic and think about the kid in the first place. I'm sure I'll attract ALLOT of hate because of this answer, but that's how it is. The gay and lesbian couples that want a kid should think about his future, and not think about themselves first.
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I agree with what you said, but doesn't it make sense to let it happen then, and break the cycle? The more gay couples get married, and adopt poor little third-world orphans, the more the world will soften up and accept that it is happening. It might result in future generations being much more tolerant and open-minded.

Of course there'll always be narrow-minded individuals and bullies, but those can be overcome. Kids have, and always will cast other kids out of their social circles for absolutely ridiculous reasons - that's why they're kids.

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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby VenusInChains on Wed Jun 13, 2012 6:51 pm

Vulcanoid wrote:I'm not for it personally. Don't get me wrong. I even have close friends, a gay couple. Really cool guys. Their relationship is OK, Marriage is OK, but a kid is too much in my opinion. Because of the fucked society we live in, the poor kid will be ridiculed his whole childhood, other kids will be ashamed to hang out with him, no one will visit him at his home. Or worse, the kid itself will lie about his parents.
Why? Because 99% of kids today grew up like that, with a mom and a dad that hate gay and lesbians.
I'm just being realistic and think about the kid in the first place. I'm sure I'll attract ALLOT of hate because of this answer, but that's how it is. The gay and lesbian couples that want a kid should think about his future, and not think about themselves first.
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That's kinda like saying fat people shouldn't have kids cause their children might be fat aswell and might get picked on, or people who aren't white shouldn't have kids cause their children might be victims of racism. I don't think it's selfish to want kids reguardless of what situation a person is in. Wouldn't they make better parents then some straight couples because their children will never be unwanted or told they were accidents.
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Re: Same Sex Marrage/parents...

Postby paulo on Sat Sep 08, 2012 4:17 am

who cares what people does with their life as long as it not hurting anyone, and it's more efficent to use energy developing ur own personality than waste it getting all het up about others choices (you might want to check you reason why it upsets you so much, LOL). so let whoever love whoever... but on the subject of same sex couple having children, i know MANY MANY straight couples who had a baby by accident and resent the child for it, or have an abortion, or just basically mistreat or neglect the child this does cause pain to another being and therefore is wrong, a gay couple would never do this as they activally want a child and will probly be better parents for it. rant over
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