Do you trust your partner?

[rustic_vampire]

one of my friends posted this on facebook
I have a question for all the married couples and girls with bfs on here..why does it bother or does it bother you when your hubbys or bfs talk to other girls even when they are just friends???
*This goes for guys too not just girls, that's just how he posted it*

I wanna know your answers.

My answer to his response was this :
It doesn't bother me because I trust him. I trust him not to cheat, so why should it bother me? I mean it wouldn't be very fair if I could talk to guys and he not get mad and me get mad if he talks to girls

I personally don't feel like I have a right to tell my boyfriend who he can or cannot talk to. The only way I would do that is if I knew she wanted to try and get him to cheat, even then I wouldn't forbid him to talk to her I would just ask him not too.

[Jeff_in_Time]

Yes, I do.
Never led me to do anything other than trust.
Actions speak volumes, ya know.

[Nostalgic]

Hubby can talk to who ever he wishes.
In fact I've watched girls and guys try to flirt with him although he doesn't pick up on it. He is a hottie so it's normal they try and get him. Doesn't help that he wears his ring on the wrong hand due to webbed fingers lol.
I trust him and pinch his bum everytime someone checks him out.

[JessicaBunny]

yes, they don't trust me.

[BLUE]

Danimal can talk to whoever he wants to and visa versa.

[JessicaBunny]

it's more that they think i lied to them

[Bubbydoll]

Yes, I do trust my partner. I trust them with my heart and my life.

[Xox-Zip-xoX]

I have a question for all the married couples and girls with bfs on here..why does it bother or does it bother you when your hubbys or bfs talk to other girls even when they are just friends

Yeah, it does bother me. I am probably one of the most jealous people you will ever meet, especially when it comes down to my boyfriend. Not because I don't trust him, but because I don't trust the other girls. I would never try to tell my boyfriend who he can or can't talk to, but if there is a girl that he's hanging around, and she's starting to get a little too close for my comfort, I wont hesitate to tell him how I feel, and he always respects those feelings and will stop talking to them, and vise versa.

I think the reason why it bothers me so much, is because I can count 5 people off the top of my head that have tried to steal him from me, 3 of which were completely insane. Our school actually adviced us to get the cops involved due to assult, harrasment, death threats, and even one of the girls sent him a picture of herself in a bra. We were also adviced to get restraining orders against a few of them aswell, however we never did. There are still girls who flirt with him all of the time, right infront of me, and he doesn't even seem to realize what they're doing lol.

But yes, I trust him with my life<3

[tommy5]

I have issues trusting my partner i even posted on here for advice as well. I think i see things, little things that could possibly mean that she is cheating on me but i blow these way out of proportion. My Gf is absolutely gorgeous and as bad as it is to say she is well out of my league. I know she loves me, but i struggle to keep my trust for her. she is a very flirty girl but she doesnt think she is, so she cannot stop it. Its a very difficult state of mind to get out of and i am still stuggling with it a year and a half later. i have got better over the last six months, but it still niggles away at my mind. Tell your friend if he feels this way he needs to fight it every step of the way and try not to look out for the little things. when your mind is constantly thinking of something you will find anything to justify it.

[tommy5]

@jessica Bunny-how do you deal with your partner not trusting you?

[Jeff_in_Time]

@ Tommy - feeling like she is out of your league is making you real insecure, man.
She is with ya, she should know how she feels. Why doubt her feelings?

How flirty is she, over the top, or regular like most girls?

[tommy5]

to be fair its not over the job its quite minimal. I have been so good over the last few months because why would she be with me to just cheat on me we havent even been going out that long......i feel stupid looking back on it, its crazy to think that way. I did have a dream last night where she left me, but im putting that down to the fact that i have fought the paranoia way of thinking for so long i guess that was my minds way of releasing that built up emotion

[Jeff_in_Time]

If ya are still dreaming it, tommy, it means you are still thinking it some ways.
If you never had any evidence and friends never said hey man, she's cheating I heard this, chances are she is faithful.

[DocScott]

I had trust issues in my last relationship. It is one of the major factors that broke it up. It was my longest relationship lasting almost a year and half. Not surprising seeing as i have only had 5 relationships in my life so far. I was very jealous with almost any guy (and ill admit i was even worried about some girls) that my ex used to talk too. I went way over board and realized it too late. She is in a great relationship now and I have learned from my mistakes that i made and have changed the habits that i believe were bad.

[VenusInChains]

Hubby can talk to who ever he wishes.
In fact I've watched girls and guys try to flirt with him although he doesn't pick up on it.

Omg my husband is exactly the same, he has no idea when a girl is flirting with him. I don't tell him who he can and can't talk to, it's good to give your partner freedom. There was one time when one of the girls I was working with kept flirting with him. I expressed my dislike of her, not only because of what she was doing but because she was a complete bitch to me. I never told him he couldn't talk to her, but he respected the fact I didn't like her.

[SharA2]

When I had one, yes. It is difficult to keep a relationship going without trust.

[Nostalgic]

Hubby can talk to who ever he wishes.
In fact I've watched girls and guys try to flirt with him although he doesn't pick up on it.

Omg my husband is exactly the same, he has no idea when a girl is flirting with him. I don't tell him who he can and can't talk to, it's good to give your partner freedom. There was one time when one of the girls I was working with kept flirting with him. I expressed my dislike of her, not only because of what she was doing but because she was a complete bitch to me. I never told him he couldn't talk to her, but he respected the fact I didn't like her.

Hubby respects my dislikes also.

There was this one girl though, she is desperate for a man as my friend was telling me and she was fully aware that he was married and that i was there, but I couldn't help laughing everytime I looked over cause she was leaning into him and looking up at him with eyes of desire and then I looked at hubby who is blabbing away about politics thinking he's found someone who's interested in the subject. I let it continue cause I could see he was enjoying his political discussion. Felt kinda sorry for her but she should have known he wasn't interested in her from word go.

[kaligirl001]

i trust him to talk to other girls as long as hes willing to let me and her meet, same with me and other guys... he trusts me with it as long as i'm willing to let them meet.

[LadyColors]

I Trust my boyfriend Alot ;
His probably Tha Only guy Ive Ever Trustedd ; but His
so Cute & His a Dj & at partys Girls wanna be All Over
him & sometimes it makes Me Insecure & i Just wanna Go beat Tha
S*** Outta Them ; But My Boyfriend Ignores Themm !
All you Hear is "Omg Is That DEEJAYCOLORS!!?" // He doesn't Even
bother To look There Wayy
But i Kno He Hears Themm grrrr .

[jojo]

I am worried.

[mjsj03]

NO I DO NOT..FOR SOME REASON THEY ALWAYS CHEAT ......AND THEN LATER REGRET IT ...