3 qualities girls want in a guy

by **Ballack** on Thu Aug 04, 2011 2:52 pm

Jeff_in_Time wrote:@ Ballack- I don't get why chicks go for the bad boys. My sister is the same way.
The bad boy won't love you in his late teens and 20's.
And he'll cheat on you in his 40's too. IMO.

nop that's not a badboy... that's an asshole... Badboy and "playboys" are different, badboys don't give a fuck and playboys do. badboys don't want attention, they are what they are, and playboys will do anything to smoothe talk them into sex or making out.

despite all the masculinity, badboys know how to treat a lady... playboys just want booty calls and they say what women want to hear..

by **arawraw** on Thu Aug 04, 2011 6:37 pm

1. At least a bit above decent looks (People below that never worked for me)
2. Insensitive. Because I'm a rude person and if I'd make him cry I'd just leave the scene of the crime.
3. Reptile hog. Who else would accept my zoo?

I'm a weird person though, don't listen to me (:

by **JessicaBunny** on Mon Aug 15, 2011 8:10 pm

. . . add mature to mine :lol:

by **Xwikki** on Tue Aug 16, 2011 6:21 am

Bubbydoll wrote:It is true we do, a lot of girls who have great dad's, active in the family, supportive, loving, kind, look for qualities that their own dad's have when choosing a BF and a mate too. Girls who do not have wonderful dad's already know what they don't want in a man, BF at an early age as well.

That's a good point. I had a crappy father and know what I don't want in a guy; but there's a difference between knowing what you don't want in a partner and having stupidly unrealistic standards.
And as weird as it is they do say you pick partners with traits of your family members. :whoa:

But if that's true, then I'm pretty much buggered. Father couldn't commit and couldn't wipe his own ass without help (figuratively), and the brother is an arrogant git who's immature. Great. :lol:

Ballack wrote:Johnny Depp, Gerard Buttler, Mark Wahlberg (this i think it's the best exemple).. all of them, badboys.

I don't like either of them. The second and third one I had to google, and the third guy looks like he's a fan of stuffing his undies with socks. I think a good example of a 'bad boy' would be Ian Somerholder.

- Looks (if you don't have a good face, don't mind it... work your body... women like a well preserved body. not a buffed one like those guys on wrestling... a ripped one. oh and dress nicely... go to a store and take your friend with you... MALE friends who know how to dress. ask your mom for a t-shirt, if she brings a cool one, than start thinking on getting her along on your shop fevers. DONT TRY TO OVERDRESS YOURSELF, don't go with a timberlake outfit if it is not your style. i pick my clothes from Pull&Bear, cheap and original.)

I don't care much for a ripped body. I find very muscular men unattractive unless they're naturally built. And a guy with terrible clothes sense just makes it all the more fun to go shopping. :lol:

- Badboy attitude (be arrogant but not a jerk, know yourself and what you could achieve [be confident but not cocky], be yourself and don't give a crap about others, of course don't be a clown.. don't overdue it. learn to say "no" to women, they love a challenge and don't be desperate. you look desperate and you will be as easy as a hooker after a big fat check. don't smile if you don't have to smile, don't talk if you don't have to talk, speak your mind. if they are not right then don't agree with them, debate on it. girls most like you for WHO you are and WHAT you think, don't give a damn. most important, don't give all of yourself, keep secrets. everyone loves mistery. and Badboys know how to treat a lady besides all of those things)

Hmm, that kind of attitude is a kind of iffy one with me. I don't like people who agree with everything I say, but I don't like the not giving a crap about others thing. It just comes across as self-centered to me. But there is a challenge in gaining the affection of someone who's like that.

[don't take advices from porn, jesus christ. don't be slapping your girl with your thing or be saying "ooohhh you like this don't you? oh yeah... u cow"... saint peter, that's horrible...]

Jeff_in_Time wrote:Good in the sack, makes me think of the dude doing this and always winning, lmao.

That's quite amusing. :lol:

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 9:33 am

No wonder im still single... lol

Im not an asshole (ya... screwed there)
I dont make alot of money (Military... Flat broke)
Average muscular body (None of that super ripped stuff)
Not very much experience in the bed room (handful of times maybe)

Im screwed! :lol:

by **Jeff_in_Time** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 11:22 am

Lmao @ sanick.
But your honest, dude and that sometimes is what counts the most with girls, ya know.
Plus half of them said they like a sense of humor.

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 11:35 am

Lol i guess thats true. It is what it is, its not too bad honestly, i stopped chasing women so hard about 3 years ago, and its been nice. I think i've missed a few chances by not really paying attention. But i got my Truck, my house, my dog, and food. Life is good to me minus this whole war thing... haha

by **Jeff_in_Time** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 12:19 pm

I don't know, dude, chicks love soldiers. That he can protect me and our country is a massive plus.
Lots of nice girls on here, maybe you'll meet one and hit it off?

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 12:52 pm

Haha maybe...One step at a time though... I need to get home first. Maybe i will drop by England on my way home, I love Women with British Accents. One of God's several gifts to mankind

The whole protecting thing is easy when i've got 210 rounds of business strapped to my chest and holding a rifle... lol its over rated

by **Xwikki** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 1:19 pm

Sanick wrote:I love Women with British Accents. One of God's several gifts to mankind

-Cough-

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 7:16 pm

Xwikki wrote:
Sanick wrote:I love Women with British Accents. One of God's several gifts to mankind

-Cough-

So... i vaguely remember putting in a post somewhere that im terrible at reading females..? lol

by **GirlOnFire** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 9:11 pm

Jeff_in_Time wrote:I don't know, dude, chicks love soldiers. That he can protect me and our country is a massive plus.
Lots of nice girls on here, maybe you'll meet one and hit it off?

I can vouch for this. I loooooooove soldiers. They're like number two on the sexiest type of guy for me. Hahahaha. :blowingkisses:

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 9:49 pm

Hmm...Maybe i need to throw that soldier thing out more often when i get home

*puffs out chest* "Ya, thats right Darlin'...Im A soldier!"

"Oh Sanick... you're my hero!"

Lol...Once again, This guy is too shy around women...haha

by **GirlOnFire** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 9:53 pm

Haha. Hey, whatever works! I think it has to do with the whole uniform thing too.

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 9:59 pm

Oh i know it does... I know alot of guys who throw it around and seriously just have a girl with them at all times, wether its the same girl or a different one.

Like i Said, I am just too shy to throw it around like that. Any girl i find attractive i straight up become a stutterin fool, or i get really quiet... haha. Emails and texts are different...But in person? Or ya, im a total flop...lol

by **GirlOnFire** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 10:02 pm

Haha, yeah my friend is stationed in Hawaii right now,hes a marine though and he called me the other day and was like OMG HAWAIIAN GIRLS OMG. Haha.

Awww, some people have that problem I suppose. I've always been a talker so I can't really relate to you about that.

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 17, 2011 10:19 pm

In groups i can be quite the chatter box... idk something about being with a good lookin girl for the first time just... make me crazy nervous haha... Ya those lucky soldiers in Hawaii have life made... lol

by **Xwikki** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 1:56 pm

Sanick wrote:So... i vaguely remember putting in a post somewhere that im terrible at reading females..? lol

Haha, I was just showing my appreciation for you saying that you liked English accents. Not enough people in the world appreciate them. :lol:

by **Sanick** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 2:07 pm

Xwikki wrote:
Sanick wrote:So... i vaguely remember putting in a post somewhere that im terrible at reading females..? lol

Haha, I was just showing my appreciation for you saying that you liked English accents. Not enough people in the world appreciate them.

Madness...How could anyone NOT love an English accent... Im getting all warm just thinkin about em! lol

by **Bubbydoll** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 4:35 pm

I think English and Aussie accents are the sexiest ones. Vikki needs to post a sound bite for us, I have never heard her accent and now I want to

by **Sanick** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 4:42 pm

Yes... i second this Notion! Lol

by **Xwikki** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 4:49 pm

I still need to grab a video of me and put it on youtube. I'll probably try and get a friend to film me when I get like, another piercing or something. And I'll get it on youtube for you guys. I've been meaning to do it for a while actually, but my mother refuses to pay for my piercings. :lol:

by **Sanick** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 4:54 pm

A video works too... i would just die for some good lookin Girls from England to Talk to me without expecting a response... haha I'd get too flustered and probably pass out. LOL :oops:

by **Xwikki** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 5:09 pm

I can be kinda like that, it's hilarious. Or I'll start waffling on about random shit, or laugh untill I like, die. :lol:

by **Sanick** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 5:11 pm

Uh..Waffling on is simliar to Rambling on right? lol

Do you have a weakness in guys that causes you much flustering with men? lol

by **Xwikki** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 5:14 pm

Rambling is right yes. Babbling, rambling, waffling, inventive names for the same thing.

I dunno, it can be when they pay attention. Not may people pay attention to one thing, and when someone focusses their attention on you, it makes you extra aware of everything you're saying and doing. So like, you'll end up babbling like a idiot because you're worried about babbling like an idiot. :lol:

by **Sanick** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 5:18 pm

Lol Thats awesome

Sorry im still kinda new to the whole language difference thing. I'll learn fast though

by **Xwikki** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 5:26 pm

Oh no, I'm terrible to learn from for like, British stuff. I'm quite influenced by American sayings cause I talk to you lot so much. :lol:

And I kind of use words that not many people use anyway sometimes.

by **Sanick** on Thu Aug 18, 2011 5:57 pm

Still better then nothing really... Lol

As Far as different languages and cultures, besides arabic and the Iraqi culture, i am quite sheltered.

by **Bubbydoll** on Sat Aug 20, 2011 1:30 pm

Xwikki wrote::lol: I still need to grab a video of me and put it on youtube. I'll probably try and get a friend to film me when I get like, another piercing or something. And I'll get it on youtube for you guys. I've been meaning to do it for a while actually, but my mother refuses to pay for my piercings.

Yes, if you do post a vid or sound link, let me know so I can check it out. Will you be in pain during that piercing, tears, cursing? I decided against my tongue one, I cannot take the pain. :oops:

by **Xwikki** on Sat Aug 20, 2011 1:45 pm

Sanick wrote:Still better then nothing really... Lol

As Far as different languages and cultures, besides arabic and the Iraqi culture, i am quite sheltered.

I am too, I talk to pretty much Americans online and that's it.

Bubbydoll wrote:Yes, if you do post a vid or sound link, let me know so I can check it out. Will you be in pain during that piercing, tears, cursing? I decided against my tongue one, I cannot take the pain.

Of course.

Haha, I'm unsure what piercing to get, so the pain is uh, undetermined. I didn't make a squeak or have any tears when I got my lip done though.

by **Cimeronn** on Sat Aug 20, 2011 11:41 pm

1) trustful (i have a thing about trust)
2) willing to talk ... sitting there in silence is not always nice
3) funny

by **EmoElf** on Sun Aug 21, 2011 4:51 pm

1. Honest/trustworthy
2. Caring/protective(not too protective though)
3. Funny,can make me laugh whenever I feel blue

by **AmaChanXoXo** on Tue Aug 23, 2011 7:40 am

Hmm....

Mystery - not too mytserious, but a little somethign to unravel! :heartpump:

Honesty - I've been lied too one too many times...
Independence - clingyness, is well clingyness, and I don't want it!

by **Tease143** on Thu Aug 25, 2011 2:42 am

I don't ask much, but he has to be:

Smart. Funny. and Honest.

by **Strider** on Tue Aug 30, 2011 2:54 pm

1) He's gotta be himself
2) He's gotta have a sense of humour
3) He's gotta love me for me

Number three is the big one for me, if he doesn't love who I am, does he really love me?

by **Jeff_in_Time** on Tue Aug 30, 2011 5:41 pm

Yeah, Strider, acceptance is imp.

by **Vulcanoid** on Wed Aug 31, 2011 4:20 am

I'm a guy, but i believe most girls should look into:
1) personality - how a guy talks, acts, thinks around himself and others (most important)
2) seriousness - he has act according to the situation. He can't be funny and have jokes all the time. Everyone has their own problems, right?
3) attitude - he must NOT be a slacker and he must never give up. A guy should act like a man in different situations. He must not be a pessimistic fellow, he must not act girly (for example, when it rains i give my jacket to my girlfriend and i cover her with my umbrella entirely even though i am soaked to the skin)

there

. Every girl who looks into there 3 traits will have the perfect boyfriend, just like me :wave:

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 31, 2011 5:01 am

Vulcanoid wrote:I'm a guy, but i believe most girls should look into:
1) personality - how a guy talks, acts, thinks around himself and others (most important)
2) seriousness - he has act according to the situation. He can't be funny and have jokes all the time. Everyone has their own problems, right?
3) attitude - he must NOT be a slacker and he must never give up. A guy should act like a man in different situations. He must not be a pessimistic fellow, he must not act girly (for example, when it rains i give my jacket to my girlfriend and i cover her with my umbrella entirely even though i am soaked to the skin)

there . Every girl who looks into there 3 traits will have the perfect boyfriend, just like me

Ya... because a cocky guy makes the perfect bf right?

Every woman has their own high priorities as we have seen in this thread so far. The attributes you have choosen as the "perfect bf" works for your girlfriend, but may not be for every other one.

Your traits you explain are so vague, everything else fits under them. I can guarentee, you are not perfect. No one is

by **Xwikki** on Wed Aug 31, 2011 5:26 am

Sanick wrote:I can guarentee, you are not perfect. No one is

*Ahem cough*

by **Strider** on Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:04 am

by **Sanick** on Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:54 am

Well according to Islam, only Mohammad was sinless, and then the Jewish (i believe) believe abraham was sinless... so thats up to the interpretation of your religous status

Needless to say, im speaking of terms in which, the son of a higher deity isnt involved lol

by **Strider** on Wed Aug 31, 2011 12:19 pm

I don't really have a religion, I'm more on the Atheistic side of the spectrum, but her answer was funny

by **kaligirl001** on Wed Aug 31, 2011 8:33 pm

1) A guy who likes me for me! (Why would I change myself to make a guy interested, he's eventually going to see the real me and know I was acting)
2) A guy who is the same guy around me as he is with his friends (If you want me to be with you, and only you, then don't be 2 different people. I understand everyone is a little different when they are with there friends, but when you are a totally different person its just not going to work)
3) A guy that's proud to be with me and wants to show the world (I'm proud to be with you and want to show it, so let's show each other off together)

by **Strider** on Thu Sep 01, 2011 5:16 am

kaligirl001 wrote:1) A guy who likes me for me! (Why would I change myself to make a guy interested, he's eventually going to see the real me and know I was acting)
2) A guy who is the same guy around me as he is with his friends (If you want me to be with you, and only you, then don't be 2 different people. I understand everyone is a little different when they are with there friends, but when you are a totally different person its just not going to work)
3) A guy that's proud to be with me and wants to show the world (I'm proud to be with you and want to show it, so let's show each other off together)

Yes Exactly!

by **Cassidylynn** on Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:49 am

Strider wrote:1) He's gotta be himself
2) He's gotta have a sense of humour
3) He's gotta love me for me

Number three is the big one for me, if he doesn't love who I am, does he really love me?

I like your 3.

by **Kristy23** on Thu Sep 01, 2011 11:33 am

Priority/values
Self control
MUST listen to different types of music. I cant stand one kind of music.

by **tsetse22** on Thu Sep 01, 2011 12:05 pm

JUS THINKIN OUT LOUD......

Why can we fella's ask what

3 GIRLS GUYS WANT IN QUANTITY?

if so,
Jessica Alba
Halle Berry
Angelina Jolie

..in any qty actually, Thank you for your indulgence, have a nice day.

by **Cassidylynn** on Thu Sep 01, 2011 12:35 pm

^

Nice choices too. lol

by **Xwikki** on Thu Sep 01, 2011 2:13 pm

Sanick wrote:Well according to Islam, only Mohammad was sinless, and then the Jewish (i believe) believe abraham was sinless... so thats up to the interpretation of your religous status

Needless to say, im speaking of terms in which, the son of a higher deity isnt involved lol

Haha, it was only me joking around. I don't follow any religion either, rather I'm influenced by them.

tsetse22 wrote:JUS THINKIN OUT LOUD......

Why can we fella's ask what

3 GIRLS GUYS WANT IN QUANTITY?

if so,
Jessica Alba
Halle Berry
Angelina Jolie

..in any qty actually, Thank you for your indulgence, have a nice day.

I'll never know what guys see in Jessica Alba, she's so boring-looking.

I'd go for:
Jessicka Fodera
Krysta Cameron
Shakira