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Postby rustic_vampire on Mon Feb 01, 2010 3:32 am

as the title states, post the last thing that you copied =D

I'll start
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby RobnHoodlum on Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:48 am

the last thing i copy/pasted?
my favorite songs.

KoRn - Make Me Bad
Tool - Parabola
Mudvayne - Happy
Depeche Mode - Enjoy the Silence
Depeche Mode - Personal Jesus
Marilyn Manson - Personal Jesus(cover)
Marilyn Manson - Sweet Dreams
Marilyn Manson - Coma White
Marilyn Manson - Coma Black
30 seconds to mars - End of the Beginning
30 seconds to Mars - The Mission
(i don't like the rest of 30 seconds to mars' music)
HORSE the Band - The Black Hole
Bring Me the Horizon - Chelsea Smile
Daft Punk - Stronger
Blind Guardian - And then There was Silence(amazing 14 minute song! fucking amazing, epic all the wya through, tells the story of a medieval warrior's life : from the time he starts his journey til the end of his life)
Blind Guardian - Another Holy War
Blind Guardian - Valhalla
King Diamond - Welcome Home
King Diamond - Spider's Lullaby
Amon Amarth - Cry of the Blackbirds
System of a Down - Ego Brain
System of a Down - She's like Heroine
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Embrace this moment. Remember; we are eternal,
all this pain is an illusion.
- the song Parabola, by Tool
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Bubbydoll on Mon Feb 01, 2010 11:47 am

That's a terrific piccy, Rustic Vampire :) (I want a loving kitty)

Last copied this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn7exBrC ... L&index=59
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Tue Feb 02, 2010 1:11 am

http://s20.photobucket.com/albums/b243/ ... G_0210.jpg

thankies! that's my baby, had for 12 years now!
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby RobnHoodlum on Tue Feb 02, 2010 1:16 am

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a picture of michael jackson rofl
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:05 am

http://www.outspark.com/login/reset_pas ... e1178dcfba

haha my addy to reset a password, awesome!
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby RobnHoodlum on Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:20 am

rustic_vampire wrote:http://www.outspark.com/login/reset_password/?email=jaded_eyes6%40hotmail.com&token=38b4fa4485bb0899e1b090e1178dcfba

haha my addy to reset a password, awesome!

outspark? which games do you play by them?
my lil bro plays Fiesta
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:22 am

lol I was actually tryin to get fiesta to work on my computer but it just stopped downloadin...
I signed up for it a long time ago, I don't remember what I was playin when I signed up though lol
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby RobnHoodlum on Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:26 am

rustic_vampire wrote:lol I was actually tryin to get fiesta to work on my computer but it just stopped downloadin...
I signed up for it a long time ago, I don't remember what I was playin when I signed up though lol

yea, that downloader for fiesta works crappy, causes so many problems.
i remember i tried for like, 2 hours to install fiesta for my bro cuz that stupid downloader freezes on certain things its installing
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:36 am

lol yeah I just gave up not worth my time lol
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby *~*Isis*~* on Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:55 pm

If it's a Tuesday, and x = 4, y = 7, z = 5.1, and It's raining ouside, how many aliens are watching Full House? (from the "dumb question" game)
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Bubbydoll on Wed Feb 03, 2010 7:38 pm

This: ( mine will prolly all be music ) :D


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kvfb8GcK ... re=related
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Wed Feb 03, 2010 10:15 pm

nauseous

lol I couldn't figure out how to spell it so I googled it and copied it
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby RobnHoodlum on Thu Feb 04, 2010 12:31 am

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i was telling someone about the lead singer of Lacuna Coil,
shes hot
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Thu Feb 04, 2010 12:37 am

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in my new topic in R&R haha

And she is hot =D
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Xwikki on Thu Feb 04, 2010 1:50 pm

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A picture for Isis's thread to do with art. Dante Gabriel Rossetti. :heartpump:
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eyes searching the night.
Forgive me, I'm a dreamer.
-Cay Lin.

"Pooh!" he whispered.
"Yes, Piglet?"
"Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh's paw. "I just wanted to be sure of you."
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby *~*Isis*~* on Thu Feb 04, 2010 6:57 pm

You can't change where you came from, but you can change where you are going.

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Fri Feb 05, 2010 4:58 am

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby arc794 on Sun Feb 07, 2010 8:55 pm

You are not very clever.
Because there is no Cleverbot.
Cleverbot is a myth?
No, Xee is a Chinese name.

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:52 pm

Haha I so became of a fan!

nasueous
I just can't seem to remember how to spell that damn word, I think I've looked it up for the last 4 or 5 days lol
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby The_Lone_Wolf on Sun Feb 07, 2010 10:08 pm

The lyrics to "Fly Across The Border(2010)"

You can push yourself to the limit, be strong now, jump with me
You can fly over a rainbow, with me, close your eyes and just believe

Nothings gonna stop you and me from hittin'
Do what we want while this beat is kickin'
You know that you're my kindred spirit
Fly with me, J-Z, I'll push you to the limit

You used to hide behind another face
At first I didn't understand
But then I saw in you a kindred spirit
I called your name, and held out my hand
Then you looked in my eyes
And I said
Never let anything get in your way of saving those that you love
No matter what they say, you can be strong, have faith within your heart
You can push yourself to the limit, be strong now, jump with me
You can fly over a rainbow with me, close your eyes and just believe

I got you when the goin' gets rough, yo
No rhymes as tough as this love
You may feel like you can't go on
If we try side by side, we'll survive, never die
Now you feelin' my flow, what I mean
No doubt that you're feelin' like I do
Don't let a chance like this pass by you
A combo like you and me is meant to be
Fly across the border

(You can push yourself to the limit, be strong now jump with me)
We’re a perfect couple, you and me can't you see? Come on, Let's fly across the border
(You can fly over the rainbow with me, close your eyes and just believe)
A couple you and me baby, come on, let’s fly across the border
If we try, side by side, we'll survive, never die
Let's fly across the border
The only thing that scares me is perfection,
knowing there's no way I can do better...
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Sun Feb 07, 2010 10:23 pm

cleverbot: Are you alive?
me: no I'm dead
cleverbot: Are you dead?
me: yes
cleverbot:That's plain scary. I'm talking to a dead person.
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Tue Feb 09, 2010 3:01 am

-Wrapping the rope tightly
I go out side to play
as I hide the rope
I start to get that feeling
-soon I leave my room
only for I won't do it now
I want to wait
for the prefect moment
-Walking out with a wild grin
no one knows my place
which is only for the best
'cause if they knew they would stop me
-Playing outside with a few friends
the feeling is growing more and more
telling them I'm not feeling well
I leave them and go home
-Getting the rope from hiding
I go to the to of my house
tying the rope tightly
I suspend it from the side of the house
-Putting the rope around my neck
I pull it tightly
now I can barely breath
since it's choking me
-Slowly I walk to the edge
inching my way closer
I look over the edge and see the ground
then I jump off
-as I jump, right before it happened
I heard my neck snap
now I'm hanging from the side of the house
but shortly I fall to the ground
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby pennylane on Wed Feb 10, 2010 8:18 pm

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Short Paper

60 Points (15% of grade)

Due Tuesday, 3/9 (Group A)

Thursday, 3/11 (Group B)



Your fist major assignment is to write a short paper between 800-1000 words on a topic of your choice regarding the text(s) that we have discussed in this class. You are encouraged to respond to the questions listed on class notes, where you will find many interesting topics that we haven’t fully covered or explored in our class discussion. However, you are also encouraged to pursuit a topic of your own other than following the suggested topics on class notes.

I’ve attached two lists of group A and group B students. Please check the lists to see which group you are in and turn in your paper in accordance with the respective due date.



As we have discussed in class, this major assignment will be composed of three parts:

1. An Annotated Bibliography (10 points, both group A&B due on Thursday, 2/11 in class)

You should construct a list of at least two annotated scholarly sources excluding your primary sources. I expect you to do a short passage of annotation about 100-150-word for each source, summarizing the text briefly and evaluating the text to see how it will serve your argument.

Typed, printed, proof-read, and in MLA format.

A primary source is the text that you are going to research. For example, if you want to write an essay on Bret Harte’s “The Luck of Roaring Camp,” the short story will be your primary source, and the scholarly articles and books on this story and Bret Harte will be your secondary sources.

Please refer to Purdue Online Writing Lab for the format about annotated bibliographies.

http://owl.english.purdue.edu/owl/resource/614/01/





2. Research Proposal (10 points, both group A&B due on Thursday 2/25 in class)

You should write a research proposal around 250 words describing your project for this major paper. I expect to read your discussion of the significance of the question that you are going to examine in the essay, your main argument, and a working thesis. Besides, this research proposal should have a working title, as a title will usually highlight your main point.

Typed, printed, proof-read, and in MLA format.



3. Final Draft of your Essay (40 points, due on Tuesday, 3/9 for Group A students,

Thursday, 3/11 for Group B students)

In this 800-1000-word paper you must develop a thesis that connects and/or contrasts the various texts and issues introduced in our reading and discussion, or you may focus upon a particular work or writer for intensive study. You paper should conform to the MLA manual of style for citations. If you are going to use a documentation style other than MLA and need help, please let me know.

I will grade this paper based on the complexity and originality of your thesis, the organization and clarity of your argument, and your use of pertinent evidence to support and sharpen your ideas. All papers must be turned in on the dates due. I don’t accept papers via email.

Typed, printed, proof-read, and in MLA style.


i have no idea what this is someone was on this computer before i was
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Bubbydoll on Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:38 pm

There are 6 registered dreamers and 1 hidden user online ..posted in HDs thread about huge # of posters online but only that shows in active users.
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Postby rustic_vampire on Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:55 pm

Warning Signs of an Abusive Personality
It is sometimes possible to predict the likelihood of the person you are currently or are about to become involved with being abusive. Below are a list of behaviours and traits which are common in abusive personalities. These are commonly known as Warning Signs.

While not all abusive people show the same signs, or display the tendencies to the same extent, if several behavioural traits are present, there is a strong tendency toward abusiveness. Generally, the more signs are present, the greater the likelihood of violence. In some cases, an abuser may have only a couple of behavioural traits that can be recognized, but they are very exaggerated (e.g. extreme jealousy over ridiculous things).

Often the abuser will initially try to explain his/her behaviour as signs of his/her love and concern, and the victim may be flattered at first; as time goes on, the behaviours become more severe and serve to dominate, control and manipulate the victim.
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Jealousy
At the beginning of a relationship, an abuser will always say the jealousy is a sign of love. He/she may question you about whom you have spoken to or seen during the day, may accuse you of flirting, or be jealous of time you spend with family, friends, children or hobbies which do not include him/her. As the jealousy progresses, he/she may call you frequently during the day or drop by unexpectedly. He may be unhappy about or refuse to let you work for fear you'll meet someone else, check the car mileage or ask friends to keep an eye on you. Jealousy is not proof of love, it is a sign of insecurity and possessiveness.

Controlling Behaviour
Controlling behaviour is often disguised or excused as concern. Concern for your safety, your emotional or mental health, the need to use your time well, or to make sensible decisions. Your abuser may be angry or upset if you are 'late' coming back from work, shopping, visiting friends, etc., even if you told him/her you would be later back than usual. Your abuser may question you closely about where you were, whom you spoke to, the content of every conversation you held, or why you did something he/she was not involved in. As this behaviour gets worse, you may not be allowed to make personal decisions about the house, clothing, going to church or how you spend your time or money or even make you ask for permission to leave the house or room. Alternately, he/she may theoretically allow you your own decisions, but penalise you for making the wrong ones. Concern for our loved ones to a certain extent is normal - trying to control their every move is not.

Quick Involvement
Many victims of abuse dated or knew their abuser for less than six months before they were engaged or living together. The abuser will often claim 'love at first sight', that you are 'made for each other', or that you are the only person whom he could ever talk to so openly, feel so at home with, could understand him so well. He/she may tell you that they have never loved anyone so much or felt so loved by anyone so much before, when you have really only known each other for a short amount of time. He/she needs someone desperately, and will pressure you to commit to him/her or make love before you feel the relationship has reached 'that stage'. He/she may also make you feel guilty for not committing yourself to him/her.

Unrealistic Expectations
The abuser may expects you to be the perfect husband, wife, mother, father, lover, and friend. He/she is very dependent on you for all his/her needs, and may tell you he/she can fulfil all your needs as lover, friend, and companion. Statements such as: 'lf you love me, I'm all you need.', 'You are all I need.' are common. Your abuser may expect you to provide everything for him/her emotionally, practically, financially or spiritually, and then blame you for not being perfect or living up to expectation.

Isolation
The abuser may try to curtail your social interaction. He/she may prevent you from spending time with your friends or family and demand that you only go places 'together'. He/she may accuse you of being 'tied to your mother's apron strings', not be committed to the relationship, or view people who are your personal friends as 'causing trouble' or 'trying to put a wedge' between you. He/she may want to live in the country without a phone, not let you use the car, stop you from working or gaining further education or qualifications.

Blame-shifting for Problems
Very rarely will an abusive personality accept responsibility for any negative situation or problem. If they are unemployed, can't hold down a job, were thrown out of college or University or fall out with their family, it is always someone else's fault, be it the boss, the government, or their mother. They may feel that someone is always doing them wrong, or out to get him. He/she may make a mistakes and then blame you for upsetting him/her or preventing him/her from doing as they wished to.

Blame-shifting for Feelings
The abuser will deny feelings stem from within him/her but see them as reactions to your behaviour or attitude toward him/her. He/she may tell you that 'you make me mad', 'you're hurting me by not doing what I ask', or that he/she cannot help feeling mad, upset, etc. Feelings may be used to manipulate you, i.e. 'I would not be angry if you didn't ...' Positive emotions will often also be seen as originating outside the abuser, but are more difficult to detect. Statements such as 'You make me happy' or 'You make me feel good about myself' are also signs that the abuser feels you are responsible for his sense of well-being. Either way, you become in his/her mind the cause of good and bad feelings and are therefore responsible for his/her emotional well-being and happiness. Consequently, you are also to blame for any negative feelings such as anger, upset or depression.

Hypersensitivity
Most abusers have very low self-esteem and are therefore easily insulted or upset. They may claim their feelings are 'hurt' when they are really angry, or take unrelated comments as personal attacks. They may perceive normal set-backs (having to work additional hours, being asked to help out, receiving a parking fine, etc.) as grave personal injustices. They may view your preference for something which differs from their own as a criticism of their taste and therefore themselves (e.g. blue wallpaper rather than pink, etc.).

Cruelty to Animals
The abuser may punishes animals brutally, be insensitive to their pain or suffering, or neglect to care for the animals to the point of cruelty, e.g. not feeding them all day, leaving them in areas he/she knows will cause them suffering or distress. There is a strong correlation between cruelty to animals and domestic violence which is still being researched. (For more information and personal experiences, see Domestic Violence and Cruelty to Animals.)

Cruelty to Children
The abusers unrealistic expectations of their partner are often mirrored in their attitude toward children. He/she will think of children as 'small adults' and blame the children for not being responsible, having common sense or understanding. He/she may expect children to be capable far beyond their ability (e.g. is angry with a two-year old for wetting their pants or being sick on the carpet, waking at night or being upset by nightmares) and will often meet out punishments for 'naughtiness' the child could not be aware of. Abusers may tease children until they cry, or punish children way beyond what could be deemed appropriate. He/she may not want children to eat at the table, expect them to stay quiet, or keep to their room all evening while he/she is at home. Since abusers want all your attention themselves, they resent your spending time with the children or any normal demands and needs the children may have. As above (cruelty to animals), there is a very strong link between Domestic Violence and Child Abuse.

'Playful' use of Force in Sex
He/she may pressurise you to agree to forceful or violent acts during sex, or want to act out fantasies where you are helpless. A male abuser may let you know that the idea of "rape" excites him. He/she may show little concern about whether you want to have intercourse and uses sulking or anger to manipulate you into compliance. Starting sex while you are sleeping, demanding sex when you are ill or tired, or refusing any form of intimacy unless you are willing to go 'all the way' can all be signs that he/she could be sexually abusive or sexually violent.

Rigid Gender Roles
Abusers usually believe in stereotypical gender roles. A man may expect a woman to serve him; stay at home, obey him in all things - even things that are criminal in nature. A male abuser will often see women as inferior to men, more stupid, unable to be a whole person without a relationship. Female abusers may expect the man to provide for them entirely, shift the responsibility for her well-being onto him or heckle him as being 'not a real man' if he shows any weakness or emotion.

Verbal Abuse
In addition to saying things that are meant to be cruel and hurtful, either in public or in private, this can include degrading remarks or running down any accomplishments. Often the abuser will tell you that you are 'stupid', could not manage without him/her. He/she may keep you up all night to 'sort this out once and for all' or even wake you at night to continue to verbally abuse you. The abuser may even say kindly things to your face, but speak badly about you to friends and family.

Dr. Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde
Very rarely do abusers conform to the stereotypical image of a constantly harsh, nasty or violent person, either in public or in private. More frequently the abuser portrays a perfectly normal and pleasant picture to the outside world (often they have responsible jobs or are respected and important members of the local community or Church) and reserves the abuse for you in the privacy of your own home. Nor are abusers always overtly abusive or cruel, but can display apparent kindness and consideration. This Jeckyll and Hyde tendency of the abuser serves to further confuse the victim, while protecting themselves from any form of suspicion from outsiders. Many victims describe "sudden" changes in mood - one minute nice and the next explosive or hysterical, or one minute happy and the next minute sad. This does not indicate some special "mental problem" but are typical of abusive personalities, and related to other characteristics such as hypersensitivity.

Drink or Substance Abuse
While neither drinking or the use of drugs are signs of an abusive personality, heavy drinking or drug abuse may be a warning sign and do increase the risks of abuse, especially violence, taking place. Often an abusive person will blame the drink for his/her abuse. However, a person who, knowing there is a risk he/she could be violent when drinking or on drugs, chooses to get drunk or high, is in effect choosing to abuse. The link between substance abuse and domestic abuse is still being researched, and it is apparent that while neither alcohol nor drugs necessarily cause violence, they do increase the risk of violence. (See What about alcohol and domestic abuse?)

History of Battering or Sexual Violence
Very rarely is abuse or violence a one-off event: a batterer will beat any woman he is with; a sexually abusive person will be abusive toward all his intimate partners. Situational circumstances do not make a person an abusive personality. Sometimes friends or family may try to warn you about the abuser. Sometimes the abuser may tell you himself/herself that he/she has hit or sexually assaulted someone in the past. However, they may further go on to explain that "she made me do it by ..." or in some other way not take responsibility and shift the blame on to the victim. They may tell you that it won't happen with you because "you love them enough to prevent it" or "you won't be stupid enough to wind me up that much". Once again, this is denying their own responsibility for the abuse, and shifting the responsibility for the relationship to remain abuse-free on to you. Past violence is one of the strongest pointers that abuse will occur. If at all possible, try to speak to their previous girlfriends.

Negative Attitude toward Women
Some men may tell you that you are different to all the women they have known before, who display a lack of respect of women generally or who talk negatively and disrespectfully of their previous wives or girlfriends. They may tell you that you are special, not like the others and that they consider themselves to be the luckiest man alive to have found the last decent woman. It is not likely to be long before they remember that you are a woman and don't deserve their respect.

Threatening Violence
This would obviously include any threat of physical force such as "If you speak to him/her again, I'll kill you", or "If any wife of mine acted like John's did, I'd give her a right seeing to". Threats are designed to manipulate and control you, to keep you in your place and prevent you making your own decisions. Most people do not threaten their mates, but an abuser will excuse this behaviour by saying "everybody talks like that.", maintaining he/she is only saying this because the relationship or you are so important to him/her, tell you you're "over-sensitive" for being upset by such threats, or obviously want to hurt him/her. Threats can also be less overt, such as "If you leave me, I will kill myself", or "You are so wonderful, I will never let you go/couldn't live without you".

Breaking or Striking Objects
The abusive person may break your treasured object, beat his/her fists on the table or chair or throw something at or past you. Breaking your things is often used as a punishment for some imagined misdeed on your part. Sometimes it will be justified by saying that now that you are with him/her, you don't need these items any more. Breaking your possessions also has the effect of de-personalising you, denying you your individuality or literally trying to break links to your past. Beating items of furniture or throwing objects will often be justified by saying you wound him/her up so much they lost control, once again shifting the blame for this behaviour on to you, but is actually used to terrorise you into submission. Only very immature or abusive people beat on objects in the presence of other people in order to threaten or intimidate them.

Any Force during an Argument
An abuser may physically restrain you from leaving the room, lash out at you with his/her hand or another object, pin you against a wall or shout 'right in your face'. Basically any form of force used during an argument can be a sign that actual violence is a strong possibility.
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby xxParisJacksonFanxx on Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:49 am

like to eat their own vomit........don't ask.
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby abbatude on Sun Feb 14, 2010 4:22 pm

"S.E.X."

[Verse 1]
"No" is a dirty word,
Never gonna say it first,
"No" is just a thought that never crosses my mind.
Maybe in the parking lot,
Better bring your friend along,
Better off together than just one at a time.

[Chorus]
S is for the simple need.
E is for the ecstasy.
X is just to mark the spot,
Because that's the one you really want.
(Yes!) Sex is always the answer, it's never a question,
'Cause the answer's yes, oh the answers (Yes)
Not just a suggestion, if you ask the question,
Then it's always yes. Yeah!

[Verse 2]
I'm loving what you wanna wear,
I wonder what's up under there?
Wonder if I'll ever have it under my tongue?
I'd love to try to set you free,
All of you all over me.
Love hearin' the sound you make the second you're done.

[Chorus]
S is for the simple need.
E is for the ecstasy.
X is just to mark the spot,
Because that's the one you really want.
(Yes!) Sex is always the answer, it's never a question,
'Cause the answer's yes, oh the answers (Yes).
Not just a suggestion, if you ask the question,
Then it's always yes. Yeah! (YES)
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Chorus]
S is for the simple need.
E is for the ecstasy.
X is just to mark the spot,
Because that's the one you really want.
(Yes!) Sex is always the answer, it's never a question,
'Cause the answer's yes, oh the answer's (Yes).
Not just a suggestion, if you ask the question,
Then it's always yes. Yeah! (YES)
(Yes!) Sex is always the answer, it's never a question,
'Cause the answer's yes, oh the answer's (Yes).
Not just a suggestion, if you ask the question,
Then it's always yes. Yeah! (YES)
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

YES!


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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Mon Feb 15, 2010 12:05 am

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

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Haha facebook profile link (add if ya want lmao)
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Nostalgic on Tue Feb 16, 2010 3:08 pm

"Hesitation is a mistake that invites defeat. I would not be Mord-Sith had I not hesitated when I was young." - Cara
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Wed Feb 17, 2010 12:43 am

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Tazzicus on Wed Feb 17, 2010 12:17 pm

persimmon
Craziness, that was from last night. Someone posted it on the forum in reply to a question I then copied it because I never heard of it before. Now I want to go find one. :lol:
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Xwikki on Wed Feb 17, 2010 4:04 pm

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My head is tilted skyward,
eyes searching the night.
Forgive me, I'm a dreamer.
-Cay Lin.

"Pooh!" he whispered.
"Yes, Piglet?"
"Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh's paw. "I just wanted to be sure of you."
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Xwikki on Wed Feb 17, 2010 4:29 pm

I see a bit of a case of deja-vu...
:D :D :D

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:33 pm

wtf is that ribz???

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Lady Spirit on Fri Feb 19, 2010 3:20 pm

The dark portal finally ended and i found myself surrounded by darkness. the ground was hard as stone and just as black as the area around me. a cold chill wraped around me. "it's colder here than the place i was just at. Now where the hell am i? Is this Purgotory?" I looked around but was comforted by darkness. "If i'm in a dream, how do i end up here? How do i wake up and if i do wake up how do i get back here?" questions filled my mind as i just started walking.

As i kept walking a thought hit me. "Even though i can't summon my wolves they still can hear me!" So i focused my mind and sent out a type of signal to several of my wolves.

Real World

Tearon and Neara dropped into the tunnel hole and followed my scent. They moved with great speed, taking turns and running through the maze-like tunnels.

Luna teleported herself to the world we were in and was right behind the two guardian wolves, Neara and Tearon. As a chain, Rowen was right next to Luna.

Along wiht Rowen was pure black wolf and another wolf with mix gray and black fur aswell as black feathered wings, his eyes were yellow as fire. The pure black wolf had gray eyes.

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Looks like the wovles on her trail, but what can they do? and who are these two new wolves? Will Spirit wake up? Is she really in purgotory or is she in a dream world? Find out next time!
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby Tazzicus on Sat Feb 20, 2010 2:42 pm

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby xxacidgreenxx on Sun Feb 21, 2010 6:21 pm

There are 489,205 people in the U.S. with the first name Ashley.
Statistically the 114th most popular first name.
95.58 percent of people with the first name Ashley are female.
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby xMaggotxSicx on Sun Feb 21, 2010 10:40 pm

http://tinypic.com/r/9aa5o4/6
something i drew hahaaaa
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Sun Feb 21, 2010 10:56 pm

Shadows shift silently as the moon continues to rise. A black cat cries into the dead of night. The weather shifts from a cool breeze to a thunderous fight, challenging the shadows to a duel of death. Crying louder, the cat crawls under a green dumpster to shelter itself from the threatening rain. A sudden flash of lightening causes the cat to fluff up and its eyes to glow in the deep set night.
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Re: Post the last thing you copied

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby arc794 on Mon Feb 22, 2010 1:19 am

^ I lol'd when I saw that xD

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby rustic_vampire on Mon Feb 22, 2010 1:52 am

arc794 wrote:^ I lol'd when I saw that xD

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That's fuckin awesome!

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Re: Post the last thing you copied

Postby arc794 on Mon Feb 22, 2010 3:07 am

rustic_vampire wrote:
arc794 wrote:^ I lol'd when I saw that xD

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That's fuckin awesome!

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