3 qualities girls want in a guy

[Beejebus]

So yeah, list them ladies.

What are your top three?

[TheOneJJ]

Common sense
Romantic
Loyal

[CURIOUS4U]

1. Self-confidence
2. Attentive
3. Humorous

[Xwikki]

Accepting
Affectionate
Induvidual.

[*~*Isis*~*]

Responsible, faithful, honest.

[rustic_vampire]

faithful, trusting, loving

[Bubbydoll]

1. Trustworthy
2. Compassionate/Understanding
3. Funny ( humor is a definite must for me)

[xdvlslilanglx]

1) LOve
2) Fun, outgoing, like he could be kinky at times but then serious at other, idk 1 word that can sum that up
3) HOnesty

[Beejebus]

Looks like faithful, honest[trusting] and humor get a lot. Not one wants an intelligent guy?

[xdvlslilanglx]

intelligence is a gud thing too
liek i dnt want him to be a dumbass but i dnt want him to be a know it all either

[Bubbydoll]

Looks like faithful, honest[trusting] and humor get a lot. Not one wants an intelligent guy?

Most guys I date are intelligent, I find the other qualities harder to find. But that is only my view and experiences.

[Tal]

intelligent
confident
independent.

Just adding another 3 to the others that have already been posted.

[Beejebus]

Confident but not cocky, tal? Independent is a good choice shows you want to remain individuals.

[Tal]

Confidence is sexy. I like people who are sure of themselves. I've had a lifetime of scaredy, miserable folks who quite simply drain all the energy out of me after half an hour.
Independence is important because living in one another's pockets just makes for a dull relationship. "What did you do today?" "You know what I did. You where there." Clingy is a big no-no. My ex husband used to text or call me at least 5 times whenever I went to the supermarket. On the rare occasion I ever got to go anywhere without him, I'd have to turn my phone off because he'd harrass me. One night I went out with my bff for dinner and he sent me 33 texts, not to mention the missed calls.
This is probably why he's my ex. Financial independence is vital because being relying on others for your income sucks and feels like being a kid again.
Intelligent is important because people only look good until you get to know them and the rootin' like rabbits wears off as well. If you don't have anything to talk and laugh about, it's a dead end deal and boredom kicks in.

[Xwikki]

I had a friend like that once, I went out to dinner with the mother and she continuously called me 17 times, and when I turned my phone off I had about 30 odd more missed calls.

[Beejebus]

Confidence is sexy. I like people who are sure of themselves. I've had a lifetime of scaredy, miserable folks who quite simply drain all the energy out of me after half an hour.
Independence is important because living in one another's pockets just makes for a dull relationship. "What did you do today?" "You know what I did. You where there." Clingy is a big no-no. My ex husband used to text or call me at least 5 times whenever I went to the supermarket. On the rare occasion I ever got to go anywhere without him, I'd have to turn my phone off because he'd harrass me. One night I went out with my bff for dinner and he sent me 33 texts, not to mention the missed calls.
This is probably why he's my ex. Financial independence is vital because being relying on others for your income sucks and feels like being a kid again.
Intelligent is important because people only look good until you get to know them and the rootin' like rabbits wears off as well. If you don't have anything to talk and laugh about, it's a dead end deal and boredom kicks in.

Great post.

I had an ex girlfriend that was very similar, insecure and jealous. She smothered me with all the calls, text messages, and drop overs. If she had of been able to relax and trust me we wouldn't have broken up. Fact is she pushed me away.

[Tal]

There's nothing worse than someone tagging your every move. I never understood why they can't see their own insecurities just drive you away. But then they've got a justification for their behaviour. "I don't trust you because my last 15 partners dumped me". They leave out the 'why' part though lol.

[greenhavoc]

Not one woman in here was completely honest.
I didn't hear looks....i'll stop you right there Mrs.Whoever you are that's fixing to say:Looks aren't....(BULLSHIT!)
Please,i tell you what..why don't you just go put some more makeup on.

[Bubbydoll]

Looks don't matter that much, greenhavoc. I'd never soley date a guy for his looks, I don't think I am that shallow. I need to feel an attraction, sure, but drop dead good looks are not high on my list, never was.

[Cassie]

1) Crazy, but not in a stalker or rapist or pedo kind of way
2) Interesting, i would want someone that i could talk to, someone that i have things in common with
3) Right for me at the time

[Beejebus]

1) Crazy, but not in a stalker or rapist or pedo kind of way

Because you exhibit that quality too, Cassie?

[Xwikki]

Had you noticed Webmaster changed the Status below our names>?

[ThisIsNotYourReality]

lol
1)Looks
2)Music Taste
3)Sincerity

[Beejebus]

Had you noticed Webmaster changed the Status below our names>?

I noticed. See the poster with the troll one?

[Beejebus]

lol
1)Looks
2)Music Taste
3)Sincerity

What makes looks #1 for you? Are you cool if he's the biggest dumbass you ever met?

[Xwikki]

Troll>?

[Beejebus]

They posted in my Forum jealousy thread. Troll means:

an internet user who sends inflammatory or provocative messages designed to elicit negative responses or start a flame-war. (As a fisherman trolls for an unsuspecting fish.) : Don't answer those silly messages. Some troll is just looking for an argument.

[pchips]

They posted in my Forum jealousy thread. Troll means:

Are you one of greenhavoc's usernames?

how many people think he is greehavoc and that he should be ran out of town?

[Xwikki]

Beelzebub isn't Greeney. I think. Doesn't sound like him, Greeney has a distinct; writing style. And also probably wouldn't squabble with himself.

[pchips]

Beelzebub isn't Greeney. I think. Doesn't sound like him, Greeney has a distinct; writing style. And also probably wouldn't squabble with himself.

who knows? (don't forget, I am the forum troll)

[Xwikki]

Wait, I think he posted a picture in People Pics, or was that Tazzicus>? XD I forget.

[Idontcare6661]

Confident but not so arrogant he carries a mirror in his pocket, Independent, and Spontaneous

Intelligence isn't something I want, it's something that has to be there. I don't want to have to force conversation, it should flow easily, he should be smart enough to contribute to one.

[MysticMatriarch]

Must haves are:

Intelligence because who wants to talk to someone when all the information is just going over their head
Honesty because Even white lies are meaningless
A logical mind because he needs to know the value things.

[Beejebus]

They posted in my Forum jealousy thread. Troll means:

Are you one of greenhavoc's usernames?

how many people think he is greehavoc and that he should be ran out of town?

No. And to be honest the suggestion of it is insulting to me.

Yeah, Xwikki, I posted a photo in the people's picture section when I joined.

[a_chick_who_dreams]

respect, honesty, and light hearted-ness No girl wants to date a uptight jerk!

[Beejebus]

Must haves are:

Intelligence because who wants to talk to someone when all the information is just going over their head
Honesty because Even white lies are meaningless
A logical mind because he needs to know the value things.

As intelligent as you or moreso?

[Beejebus]

respect, honesty, and light hearted-ness No girl wants to date a uptight jerk!

Would you date an ex con?

[green oe]

how many people think he is greehavoc and that he should be ran out of town?

I have two user names
green oe and greenhavoc
I have absolutly nothing to hide.
pchips,i'm surprised at you...i thought we had a healthy tit-for-tat going on..
i can't stand BJ by the way(nothing personal beejebus)there's just some people i don't like.

[green oe]

They posted in my Forum jealousy thread. Troll means:

an internet user who sends inflammatory or provocative messages designed to elicit negative responses or start a flame-war. (As a fisherman trolls for an unsuspecting fish.) : Don't answer those silly messages. Some troll is just looking for an argument.

Some trolls have extremely intelligent ogres watching their every move.The ogres are so good at what they do they can find out where this troll lives(anywhere on the planet)..sometimes they even like to post this poor trolls medical records,SSN,IPAD,billing address and most resent DMV photograph all over 4chan ..I sure hope i never find myself underneath the tangy ballsac of a very pissed off ogre(i hear they have a terrible sense of humor as well)

[pchips]

how many people think he is greehavoc and that he should be ran out of town?

I have two user names
green oe and greenhavoc
I have absolutly nothing to hide.
pchips,i'm surprised at you...i thought we had a healthy tit-for-tat going on..
i can't stand BJ by the way(nothing personal beejebus)there's just some people i don't like.

Trolls like to goof around..j/p wit ya dude

[Xwikki]

They posted in my Forum jealousy thread. Troll means:

an internet user who sends inflammatory or provocative messages designed to elicit negative responses or start a flame-war. (As a fisherman trolls for an unsuspecting fish.) : Don't answer those silly messages. Some troll is just looking for an argument.

Some trolls have extremely intelligent ogres watching their every move.The ogres are so good at what they do they can find out where this troll lives(anywhere on the planet)..sometimes they even like to post this poor trolls medical records,SSN,IPAD,billing address and most resent DMV photograph all over 4chan ..I sure hope i never find myself underneath the tangy ballsac of a very pissed off ogre(i hear they have a terrible sense of humor as well)

[Yoshi13]

1. Trustworthy
2. Compassionate/Understanding
3. Funny ( humor is a definite must for me)

bubbydoll i saw a pic of you and u are drop dead gorgeous!

[**TaylorLautnerLover**]

Okay so,
1.) Intellegent
2.) Honest
3.) Dorky, So like me. Lol.

By the way looks is on my list but it is like #8 or 9. Looks are NOT everything. What you look for in a guy should not revolve around how "hot" he is. Guys shouldn't look for that either by the way. Because maybe someone who isn't so great looking could have a great personality(#4) and someone who isn't "hot" could also love you very much.

Love is def key in a relationship if it's going to work out for you. Love is not one on my list because you should end up(in the end) with someone who loves you and you love them.

Thats just my !!!!
~~**TaylorLautnerLover**

[Xwikki]

Says one of whom has their name as '**TaylorLautnerLover**'

[arc794]

Says one of whom has their name as '**TaylorLautnerLover**'

LOL. Pwned.

[**TaylorLautnerLover**]

Hey, I never said that taylor lautner is any of those things. I just love his acting although he is extremely good looking. LOL.
~~**TaylorLautnerLover**

[Xwikki]

That's what I implied.

By the way looks is on my list but it is like #8 or 9. Looks are NOT everything. What you look for in a guy should not revolve around how "hot" he is.

although he is extremely good looking. LOL.

[arc794]

Hey, I never said that taylor lautner is any of those things. I just love his acting although he is extremely good looking. LOL.
~~**TaylorLautnerLover**

So you love Taylor... but not because he's anything on your list... because he's good looking, which isn't important to you.
Makes sense

[Bubbydoll]

I asked a gf this question and she said, "abs abs abs!"

[MysticMatriarch]

Must haves are:

Intelligence because who wants to talk to someone when all the information is just going over their head
Honesty because Even white lies are meaningless
A logical mind because he needs to know the value things.

As intelligent as you or moreso?

More so preferably. I do not have all the answers. For where I feel I want to be in life I need the information and skills that I lack to be in him.

Looks are on the list somewhere but... I can't stand the drama of it. If my husband looked like Antonio Banderas there is no telling how much worse the women would be. They already need to be caged.