Strange, because I've never done it in real life...

by **tinydreamm** on Fri Dec 19, 2008 2:41 pm

I always lucid dream, and there is one theme that reoccurs in a lot of my dreams. There is this guy that I am extremely close to - he's like a brother to me and his family & my family are very close as well - I am 16 and he's 19. I met him when I was 6-7 so I liked him at first, but our relationship quickly turned to a family-like one. Strangely though, I ALWAYS have lucid dreams that he and I are having sex, but it's always really loving and not nerve-racking, like I perceive it to be in real life. I am a virgin, and, although that doesn't really mean anything, I find it even weirder that it's always with the same person. I don't have "feelings" for him like that whatsoever! Can anyone provide any insight? Thanks so much!

by **Phoenix** on Sat Dec 20, 2008 10:00 pm

I think especially since u are a virgin, this has a lot to do with trust and curiosity. This boy you speak of, while you may not think of him as a realistic sexual partner, may represent the type of person you would feel comfortable with giving yourself to. What qualities does this boy have that u admire and would want in a partner? It is natural to be curious about sex and therefore dream about it, but it seems like you have a good idea about what it is supposed to be like. which is good. dont rush it and dont give yourself to just anyone. and when u are ready, use birth control lol. Be sure u truly love the one you are with, dont let your curiosity cause you to make decisions you would later regret.