HELP MEEE!

[Alisa131]

i just have to get this out there somewhere.

ok well I'm 15 and I've never had a bf before.
I used to b one of those loud retarded funny ppl that youd meet in the hallways but i didnt care at the time.
Now that I'm more mature i want to talk to guys but I just get really nervous and barely talk so they think I'm normally like that.
But this only happens around some certain guys who i feel like can do so much better then me and idk y they talk to me.

I need some advice cause this is getting old now.

[pepper]

wink at them first. If they look repulsed, then say..have something in me eye..

nothing ventured nothing gained...none of us are any better than another, so don't mentally put
yourself down.

[Guardian7347]

Part of the reason you're so quiet now is you don't know how to act. I understand you are maturing, and feel that being the clown is no longer how you wish to present yourself, but maybe you could keep some of the old, comfortable you. Humor and laughter is a wonderful ice breaker. It puts people at ease. Plus, whenever you're comfortable with yourself, you're more confident, and confidence is universally attractive. Ultimately, you can always take solace in remembering that school is just a training ground for how you will interact with people later in life. No matter how bad you screw it up in school, you get to start over when you graduate.

[lex]

hi!

I'm Lex... and I loud when and excitable..
trust me when I say.. even when you grow up... and look more mature, deep down you'll always want to be the loud goofy kid in the halls that everyone laughs with

I am, and I love making the people around me happy and smile, I'm comfortable with that, and I've met a lot of nice guys
that like that about me.

dont' worry some much about attracting the guys you want, cuz if they are already around, then your doing something right ^_~

take it easy and let things happen, yeah you might get hurt... and what not.. or it might not work out your way, But dont' change just to get a GUY....
so not worth it (been there babe done that)....
So you know any real guy.... will just want the real you anyways.
don't rush, just enjoy your life, and if you feel lonely.... other peoples love don't fix that I promise.

Learn more about yourself... and the rest will fall into place... I swear to you ^_^