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Current boyfriend belittling me at a party, crying...

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Current boyfriend belittling me at a party, crying...

Postby creagan88 on Thu Nov 19, 2009 8:14 am

The dream I had last night was a terrible one. I woke up in tears, and even now as I remember how I felt I begin to feel overwhelmed.

The dream started off with my two best gal pals and I at the mall just shopping for things. Then all of the sudden my boyfriend was there. We were suddenly at a house, one I've never been to. One of my girlfriends said she was leaving because she didn't feel comfortable there, and she left. The other spent hours talking to my boyfriend about I don't know what - in the dream I assumed it was me. I got angry because I had been waiting for hours for him and he hadn't even spoken to ME his GIRLFRIEND, instead he was talking to MY girlfriend. Then all the sudden people I didn't know started coming into the house, and it was apparent that someone was throwing a party. My boyfriend then starts to tell horrible jokes to everyone at MY expense*. This is when I started crying. I remember going up to him several times and telling him how mad I was for making fun of me to all these people I didn't know, and he was just laughing in my face. Girls were constantly flirting with him and coming up to me and saying how they heard I was such a witch to him and that I better watch out. The guys were similar. They kept walking around saying how great a guy he was and that I was a witch who told lies. I remember feeling so overwhelmed with hurt, and I ran up to my boyfriend and pushed him down and told him that he was never going to see me again, and that I was moving out and taking our son, and he just laughed. I walked outside to leave and saw that my car had been severely damaged thanks to his new "friends". Then I woke up and started crying.

*On one note, before I went to bed, my boyfriend was telling jokes at my expense to my brother, and he's aware of how much it bothers and hurts me, so that may be where it stemmed.

Can someone please help me to interpret this dream? Am I making a mistake?
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Re: Current boyfriend belittling me at a party, crying...

Postby dreamyqueenie83 on Thu Nov 19, 2009 10:47 am

anybody who makes you feel this way is worthless! dont waste your time on him!

do you feel like he needs you or you need him? you need your self respect and stand up for yourself ! does he know how u feel when he says stuff about u? does he know it hurts u? if he does, and he has said that he will stop, then make sure that he does. if he does it cuz it hurts u, leave him. your dreams tell u what 2 do.

maybe the guys in your dream who tell him how great he is, maybe they are all actually him, boasting abbout how great he is. he is not that great.

maybe the girls who say that he is so great are all you, your different personalities or your wish to be different.

does he think he is a ladies man? leave him. u dont need the pressure. find someone else.
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