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Is this dream related to what I should do in my relationship

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Is this dream related to what I should do in my relationship

Postby Bella17 » Mon Apr 15, 2019 11:24 am

So last night, before I went to sleep, I tried reaching out to my BF but his phone was off, so I went to sleep with this need of talking to him, and woke up with this dream:

Basically, there was this small blond woman and she was cute and all, but her bf would like have sex with her or cuddle with her and then straight out tell her, it is time for her to leave.
And then they were like cuddling the morning after, and they were in a country where it was cool to show PDA, as opposed to my country. And so him and and her were at a public courtyard on a bench under a blanket, and the guy's friends were also around, they were all hanging out, and the guy suddenly told the girl it is time for her to leave. And so to me, the relationship between them was like that all the time, like he would spend the time he needs with her, but then lets her go, and not make her part of the rest of his life. And I was thinking as I watched those scenes, she is not aware he is not good for her. She should leave.
The last scene, though, she didn't care, and told him "I'm busy", knowing he would think she's going to be with someone else, and she didn't care about that, and she was like on a kick scooter, gliding away free. Then it was me on that scooter, and I was dressed in black and I was at a hotel to stand in line behind two ladies with a trolley with babies. And I had booked a room in that hotel and was in line to check in, and saw the family member whom I was supposed to stay in that hotel room with at the start of the line already having checked in so I left the line and walked over to them, and that was when I woke up.

When I woke up from this dream, and I looked at my phone, and there was a message from my BF saying he couldn't answer, cos "I'm busy." And then I went back to sleep telling myself the dream was a sign that I should just leave him like the girl left her BF. Although, I don't think the dream is related to reality. He is busy with his life, like he has a really hard life, but he doesn't like have sex with me and tells me to go. He treats me well, it's just that I don't see him at all. But at the same time, I don't want to leave him, as I tried before and it didn't work. So what does the dream imply? Is the dream like a message of what I should do? Like an eye-opener? Or is it just an expression of my insecurities?
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Re: Is this dream related to what I should do in my relation

Postby Jery » Mon Apr 22, 2019 12:29 pm

hmmmm ive had a similar dream in the past a few years ago. Basically in my view i was having issues with an ex and i kept wanting him to talk to me but he'd tell me he was busy atm and couldn't talk to me. Well my feelings was that i wasn't good enough, or he really did have more important matters or he was cheating and his side bitch was more important lol. DOn't mean to be so vulgar. But i felt that my dream was trying to show me of how it MIGHT have been if i continued to stay with him which was that he would always just about be busy with something and have hardly no time for me. Hope this helps a little. I don't know how straight relationships work since im a gay man but hopefully i helped a litttle bit. :)
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Re: Is this dream related to what I should do in my relation

Postby Bella17 » Fri May 03, 2019 1:50 pm

Thank you, Jery, for your reply
Yes, it helps, because it is how it would play out, and actually I dumped him since the dream came true, and he actually did something that opened my eyes that he was treating me badly, just like the girl in the dream, and a week after that dream and me dumping him, I actually saw a kick scooter on the street. Someone left it there for someone to take. I was so willing to get on it, hahaha.
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