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Are you dreaming of your crush, your significant other, your spouse, or your ex? Is your boyfriend/girlfriend cheating on you? Share your dream experience with others and what advice you have for those who are having such dreams.


Postby Ksusha21 » Sun Oct 07, 2018 11:34 am

I had this very strange dream with different aspects and I would love to have it deciphered.
There was a strange big buff man, that I do not know in my real life, who was following me around everywhere in everyday life and he wasn’t visible to everyone but I kept noticing him everywhere I was. I would be at a restaurant and saw him around the corner behind a wall, I attended a festival and I spotted him under a tent from a distance.
I called him out eventually and I got a sense from him that he was not a good guy, I was under the impression he was a villain type. I asked him why he was following me and I asked him if he was going to kill me. He told me he was a hitman and was after someone for their very valuable and desired gold necklace/chain. He told me not to worry because it was not me he was after, but someone close to me which is why he was following me. For some reason, I felt secure with his response and I had faith in believing him. I have no idea why I wasn’t concerned with him hurting someone close to me?
I felt like a long period of time had passed where he was just around in my everyday life. There were certain instances where I was in trouble or found myself in danger and he would just so happen to save me. I was somewhere where I almost fell down and hurt myself and he jumped out and caught me. Another instance where someone was going to hurt me and he took care of that person. I started to feel like thrilled by the thought of having a villain watching over me and actually protecting me.
Towards the end, I snuck away to an abandoned cabin over a lake to sort of lure him with me. & once we were there I seduced him and we engaged in gentle intimacy, it wasn’t like a rape. It was almost like he was timid but very gentle and engaging. I remember him holding my head in both of his huge muscles arms against his chest and I just felt so safe and content. He then flew me over the water, I remember just dipping into the water and flying over and his body was just holding me, so he in the end was a superhero type?
All over the place lol
The end.

I am in an extremely secure and serious loving relationship!
I have been wondering what this dream means because I have never even had the thought of having feelings for anyone else.
In the dream the feeling of falling in love with this mystery man was exciting and thrilling. Upon waking up, I thought I would never even consider engaging with another man like that.
This dream and those intense feelings from the dream kept overpowering my mind.
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Postby Vos » Mon Oct 08, 2018 2:29 am

Hello Kshusha,

The dream is a message coming from the unconscious. Part of the unconscious makes itself conscious by turning into a symbolical message. These symbols are formed by our life-experience, and can be decyphered by questioning each of them individually.

Does the hitman remind you of somebody? If so, could you make a short character Portrait with some positive and negative aspects?

What is a hitman? Why do People hire hitmen? Why does a hitman do his Job?

What is the difference between somebody who is a villain and somebody who is not?

What makes a necklace so desireable?

Could you imagine who this man was after, if it is somebody Close to you? In other words, try to imagine which of the People who are Close to you might be a worty target for a hitman who is after valuables. If you come up with somebody, a short character Portrait with some positive and negative aspects.

When you say "it wasn´t like rape", the thought of rape is at least included in the dreamthought. What is rape? Why do People engage in rape?

What are your associations with water?

What are the differences between your Partner and the man in your dream?

If you feel like questioning the above questions, either in a post or private message, we can try to work with your dream. I might ask a few more questions based on your answers, or if your answers are sufficient to come up with an Thesis about the dream-thought, I will formulate this.
Some of These questions can be rather personal, but the dream itself is the most personal Thing. By sharing it you have shown a willingness to look inside, to explore the depths of your mind. The above questions are what I can offer you if you want to come to an understanding.
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