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dreaming about my ex lovers family

PostPosted: Mon Mar 19, 2018 11:36 am
by forgetmenot1
I keep having dreams about me being inside my ex lover's family. Him, his wife and kids they all doing some staff but ignoring me and in my dreams I am feeling not good, feel like outcast. Dont like those dreams and I wish I stop having those sort of dreams. Whats my problem? Any advise? Please?

Re: dreaming about my ex lovers family

PostPosted: Mon Mar 19, 2018 5:04 pm
by DarkAxel
It seems like you are having problems with the idea that he has moved on from the relationship, and you are having trouble with the idea that you can no longer relate to him the way you used to. If you suppress those feelings they have a tendency to show up as repeating dreams. This is your mind's way of telling you that you need to acknowledge them and let yourself feel them, because if you don't they can sabotage your emotional health and interfere with future relationships. It may be helpful to know that these kinds of feelings are normal, and they are valid, too. It may hurt, but pain is one of the ways we learn.