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Dream about older sister and friend

PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 1:13 pm
by Beef78
Have been having a recurring dream (4th time)..about my older half-sister, having sex with a buddy of mine from gym. We have a good relationship..Shes in her 50s attractive but happily married, religious and wouldn't seem the type to do such a thing. My buddy has mentioned that shes attractive a few times,and complimented her pic on facebook, which she was flattered by so I don't know if that planted a seed in my subconscious. (he'd never cross the line in person) She gets complimented a lot on Fb by diff guys so perhaps there's underlying wandering eyes. I do know she was wild in her youth, as a nosy kid I found her diary etc lol. Growing up a few of my school friends had crushes on her. That may feed into this.

The dreams all follow the same pattern- I'm witnessing it happen,very vividly like I'm "there" but not there..almost like watching a porn..when its finished she meets me in another room and is imploring me "you won't tell anyone right, i needed this etc" 4 times this type of dream, in recent months

Re: Dream about older sister and friend

PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 4:47 pm
by Sheena
Pictured as if dreamer is keeping her own sexuality or desires at arm's length. In turn this suggests unresolved in the family system, such as sibling rivalry or favoritism. Nothing unusual for this theme to emerge in dreams during current season of family holidays.

Re: Dream about older sister and friend

PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2017 3:36 pm
by Beef78
Thank u

I should add, that I chat with a friend of sis, on Fb..and we have a lot of sexual type discussions, as she is the total opposite of my sis (very sexually open minded & upfront). She gets me quite aroused often and sister has no idea we talk like that, so I'd wonder if that plays into the dreams also. The forbidden factor

Re: Dream about older sister and friend

PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2017 3:58 pm
by Sheena
Dreamer is saturating the mind in sex as compensation for not doing it. Is dreamer afraid of vaginas?

Re: Dream about older sister and friend

PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2017 4:40 pm
by Beef78
Hmm interesting. Actually if anything I have been too promiscuous in the past. Have been consciously trying to change that. I do fantasize quite a bit yes. Could be compensation for cutting back on actual sex. Maybe seeping over into dream state?

Re: Dream about older sister and friend

PostPosted: Fri Dec 01, 2017 3:17 pm
by Sheena
There. You've got it figured out now. Goodbye and good luck and stop fussing with it, especially when the come-lately yentas press you to.