Close family hates me? Possible life changing choice?

[Benhomer9]

This really confused me in a number of ways and I have no idea what to make of it...
I can't really remember half of it, but I don't think it's important. I'm a 20 year old male, still live at home and have a summer holiday to Ibiza in 3 weeks (dunno of this helps?)

Basically it started as I was in a sports shop buying a hat for a friend of mind, and I was with a lady who was his Gran (I've never met his gran) we bought it and I asked if she wanted something engraved on it, she did and then she disappeared. I went and got it engraved. I remember walking into a room and my parents where sitting there, my dad says in a calm voice "get out, I never want to see you again." do I leave and run to a McDonalds around the corner, and I see my little sister. She comes with my to McDonalds and I see my auntie (she lives 200 miles away in a place I've always wanted to move too). She's sat with 2 people I've never seen before. I ask for a word in private and ask if I can stay with her. She says yes followed by a little positive sentence about liking being under pressure. I then go to the counter and order a non McDonald's ice cream for my sister and a steak burger for me and sit down. Next thing I remember is me ringing work telling them I can't come in tomorrow (it's the last day before my 2 week trip to Ibiza), I hang up before they say anything and the dream ends.

I know its a long story but I tried to get as much detail as possible.
Does this mean I'll move to my aunties place? Why would my dad say that? Why didn't my mum say anything? Why did I find my sister in a random place she wouldn't be? Why was my auntie with 2 random people and not her husband and 1 year old child? Why McDonald's? Why that week before my holiday?
These are just a few questions I couldn't work out, along with why the dream happened. I was a little frightened when I woke up, along with a sense of relief my dad hadn't actually said that, but a little disappointed I wasn't in my aunties house.

Any ideas on what this means would be a great help!
Thanks

Ben

[TenderLC]

Ben,
have you ever heard the expression about "wearing several hats," meaning roles, in something? The question I would have about buying that hat
is why are you buying a role for someone else, and then engraving (permanently marking [ownership]) it? You were doing this with someone else's
wise relative? Why not your own granny?? It was as if you were outside your family to benefit someone else. Your father you see is the father
within you. He plainly but almost without emotion tells you to leave, meaning get a job, support yourself, get married, or whatever it might mean
in your sense of your life. In effect you are telling yourself to grow up, get independent. Whether that is possible just now is beside the point.
It's not meant to rush you into anything, but to express your inner conscience about this issue.

Going to mcDonalds is to obtain food(for thought) about how to accomplish this. Your sister may be there to accompany you, but I think the
point is that she reflects that non-grownup sense of your situation. Your Aunt is grown up, but she can't be a wife obviously, so she is more
like a mother to you. The two men with her seem to indicate that she is connected to someone else but not in any personal way, just that
she is decidedly separate from you. To ask her and not your mom is to show how you plan to "get out" but it seems to present an idea of
dependence still, since she would really be taking you under her wing as a mother might.

This dream is IMHO all about independence. It may not mean you have to leave exactly, but that within the home definitely be your own
man, respectful in all ways, but your own man.
I hope this helps you. Best wishes. I would like to know what you think now about your dream and the interpretation.

TLC

[Benhomer9]

Thanks for your input, it's appreciated!

My auntie I would say is more like a sister to me, but I can see where your coming from.
Any more thoughts would be appreciated