What do I do?

[Avenger245]

Ever had a dream that felt so realistic, as if you were actually there?

I had one of those last night. I dont remember how it started, but I was with a girl whom I like (but won't tell her), and we were at her parents house. I had done something to hint that I liked her, and her mom started humming wedding music (of all things). The.girl then left the room for a second with her mother, and did something I'll never forget... Shes asked me to go on a date basically... Exact words were "lead the parade with me?" And I remeber it like it was real, after she said that, I went and hugged her, and that was it. No kissing, just hugging, holder her in my arms and looking into her beautiful face. And then I told her, "I've been waiting for forever to figure out if you even liked me", and she tells me that she's liked me all along. And we just stood there, holding each other.

And then I woke up.

I wish I could tell her how I feel in reality, but the fear of rejection is prominent. She and I sahre.the same dating views that we want in a person, and we both have them. I don't if she's waiting on me to make a move, or if she has no clue about my interest in her. But will I say anything? Nope. Because I hate rejection. That, and I'm terrible with telling people.how I feel. I seem to forget how to speak, or say something stupid and screw it all up.

Sorry... Just had to put that out there.

What does this mean?

[uniquedreaming]

Considering that she asked you out in your dream, you said yes and her telling you she liked you all alone, your sub-concious mind is trying to tell you that everything will be fine if you just try. To help, I would rehearse how you want to tell her you like her and possibly ask her out in front of a mirror.

Good Luck!!!

[MySongAngel]

You're just simply longing for something you won't give yourself in real life. Your dreaming mind is doing its best to create it for you. Dude! You need to just ask her out. You have a little fantasy in your head that is semi comfortable right now. It is more comfortable than rejection anyway. But you're sticking yourself into an endless limbo. Consider two possibilities: First possibility - She has no interest in you. You have no future with her. She wants nothing to do with you. It's all an empty fantasy in your head. TRUST ME. It will hurt to discover this, but then you will be able to move on. You will be glad you did it. I have gone through this exact scenario. I wasted almost two years in your position and then discovered that my crush wanted nothing to do with me. Guess what? I survived and was able to move out of my fantasy world and into my life. The best thing I ever did was call him and tell him point blank how I felt. It's really not that scary once you just do it. And asking someone out is not that big of a deal. It doesn't confess an undying love. Oh yeah - Second possibility - She likes you as much as you like her. Well... you'll wonder why you wasted so much time being scared of your happiness. Just do it... Oh... and not liking rejection doesn't make you special. I have yet to meet someone that likes to be rejected.

[Avenger245]

Thanks guys!

I told her how i felt but i never really got a response... so i've gotten over it. Oh well, right? lol