I dream im a guy "with" another guy.*im a girl*

[LoVeHoRsEs]

The dream starts out with (guy) me and this other guy standing an talking under a car pool garage and there’s my (real life) 91" mustang drag car and my dodge dually, we were talking about the mustang when we walked over to a brick wall, he was leaning against it, I remember being hesitant (didn’t know if he was into me or not, or if he was even gay), I started inching closer until I was leaning on him and he didn’t move away so I started kissing him, he then pulled me in and kissed me back,(I felt plesantly suprised) so I began to kiss down his neck to a small 1in scar on his chest. Then a girl walked in front of the house and we stopped and moved away from eachother, I was so embarrassed that I just went for it, and mad that we didn’t go further, I remember thinking, "gosh she’s the biggest C*ck blocker ever." and then I heard someone say "its 6:30" and I woke up and it was 6:30. I don’t understand this dream, I’m a girl, I have a boyfriend, and I didn’t know anyone in my dream (but I felt like I did), or the place, it wasn’t my house, the only familiar things were my car and truck, and I didn’t watch any wired TV shows or movies. Can anyone help elaborate on this; I woke up totally embarrassed and freaked out that it turned me on.

[foreverJung]

maybe you're a tomboy.

[Mazinua]

Your dream contains three boundaries: the brick wall, the girl walking past, and the time 6:30. These are all internal barriers to your development and self-expression. The wall represents your internalized self-conception, especially with respect to societal roles. You are a man attracted to another man, highlighting gender assumptions you make as a straight woman. These assumptions are very likely social norms that you unconsciously endorsed. The cars represent material and professional success; both are rather masculine symbols, highlighting an awareness of the glass ceiling that still persists in our society.

The girl appearing immediately after you kissed him down to his scar represents shame. Shame for defying social heterosexism. Your shame is felt overtly while his injury as a result of this shame is represented as a scar over his heart [chest]. Lastly, something in your subconscious recognizes that you need to make some changes, perhaps in your relationship with your bf, now. That is why it announces the time, your metaphorical "wake up" time. This implies some urgency.

This dream removes you from your comfort zone very purposefully. I do not know what is going on in your waking life, but it suggests that you have some important realizations to work through. Best wishes.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

Wow, that was a very detailed interpretation, thanks for your input. I still don’t really know what to think though, I will say one thing, I’m 24 but I was un comfortable about having sex and feeling vulnerable, even though I have been with my bf for 7 years, but that dream has somehow brought me out of my shell. lol so I guess it was a good thing, now I just need to figure out how to incorporate your interpretation into how my dream and life relate. Thanks!

[LoVeHoRsEs]

[LoVeHoRsEs]

[LoVeHoRsEs]

I met the guy in my dream! I have never seen him befor and he just started at my job yesterday, what dose that mean?

[LoVeHoRsEs]

[LoVeHoRsEs]

I met the guy in my dream! I have never seen him befor and he just started at my job the other day, what dose that mean?

[LoVeHoRsEs]

The dream starts out with (guy) me and this other guy standing an talking under a car pool garage and there’s my (real life) 91" mustang drag car and my dodge dually, we were talking about the mustang when we walked over to a brick wall, he was leaning against it, I remember being hesitant (didn’t know if he was into me or not, or if he was even gay), I started inching closer until I was leaning on him and he didn’t move away so I started kissing him, he then pulled me in and kissed me back,(I felt plesantly suprised) so I began to kiss down his neck to a small 1in scar on his chest. Then a girl walked in front of the house and we stopped and moved away from eachother, I was so embarrassed that I just went for it, and mad that we didn’t go further, I remember thinking, "gosh she’s the biggest C*ck blocker ever." and then I heard someone say "its 6:30" and I woke up and it was 6:30. I don’t understand this dream, I’m a girl, I have a boyfriend, and I didn’t know anyone in my dream (but I felt like I did), or the place, it wasn’t my house, the only familiar things were my car and truck, and I didn’t watch any wired TV shows or movies. Can anyone help elaborate on this; I woke up totally embarrassed and freaked out that it turned me on.

I met the guy in my dream the other day, he just started working with me at my job. What could that mean?

[LoVeHoRsEs]

aww no answers.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

lol

[Unanimus]

You appear to have a few too many Y crms. And yes you have been inhibited from expressing yourself (just anyway you "dream' of. Perhaps in your subconscious (or maybe in real life you have "imagined" what it would/is like to be with a guy, being a guy as well = two guys together. You obviously like man, but you have fantasies. Perhaps a "Menage à trois" would be one thing you would enjoy. obviously you and two guys. Forget "That wall"...just let the girl live her "Dream". how does it sound?

[LoVeHoRsEs]

interesting thoughts, lol. thanks for your input.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

[lalallaalla]

please answer mine: dreammoods.com/dreamforum/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=105538

[LoVeHoRsEs]

hahaha, k.

[chomieann313]

I met the guy in my dream the other day, he just started working with me at my job. What could that mean?

It seems to me that you are slightly prophetic in dreaming about this guy before you've actually met. Perhaps you will become "buddies" with this guy, working well together, and the relationship will be completely innocent and platonic on the surface. But there will be a moment where either you or him will realize that there lies deeper emotions. Then there will be a decision that will have to be made on account of you wanting more than just friend status with him, or to remain with your current BF (i think this is where the "shame" comes in).

The female walking past is your feminine counterpart "resurfacing" once the kiss was planted. She represents the shame because you are reminded that your romantic life is not with your 'buddy', but with your BF where clear lines of masculine and feminine lie. And perhaps the scar over your friend's heart represents 'baggage' from a previous romantic relationship? Maybe he is ashamed of either how that ended, or ashamed that he is sharing a kiss with his taken co-worker?

Only time will tell if any of these interpretations ring true. but keep us posted!

- Annie

[LoVeHoRsEs]

I met the guy in my dream the other day, he just started working with me at my job. What could that mean?

It seems to me that you are slightly prophetic in dreaming about this guy before you've actually met. Perhaps you will become "buddies" with this guy, working well together, and the relationship will be completely innocent and platonic on the surface. But there will be a moment where either you or him will realize that there lies deeper emotions. Then there will be a decision that will have to be made on account of you wanting more than just friend status with him, or to remain with your current BF (i think this is where the "shame" comes in).

The female walking past is your feminine counterpart "resurfacing" once the kiss was planted. She represents the shame because you are reminded that your romantic life is not with your 'buddy', but with your BF where clear lines of masculine and feminine lie. And perhaps the scar over your friend's heart represents 'baggage' from a previous romantic relationship? Maybe he is ashamed of either how that ended, or ashamed that he is sharing a kiss with his taken co-worker?

Only time will tell if any of these interpretations ring true. but keep us posted!

- Annie

Interesting, I have talked to him a little, and when my jeep broke down on the job he came and tryed to fix it for me. but thats ben the exstent of our "freind ship" we work at the same place but in diffrent departments so we never talk.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

car port*

[sh311]

and then I heard someone say "its 6:30" and I woke up and it was 6:30.

This part is probably just your mum/dad/parent/roomate/whatever in real life telling you to get up because it was 6:30

Hope i helped

[LoVeHoRsEs]

and then I heard someone say "its 6:30" and I woke up and it was 6:30.

This part is probably just your mum/dad/parent/roomate/whatever in real life telling you to get up because it was 6:30

Hope i helped

I would not question that part if I didint live alone, theres no one ells in my house.

[H2olily]

Sounds like you have a masculine (independent?) side that wants self-acceptance. Very cool prophetic aspect.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

Sounds like you have a masculine (independent?) side that wants self-acceptance. Very cool prophetic aspect.

LOL, yeah, im allways trying to be "one of the guys" im allways trying to prove that im equal or better because in my family girls arent as good as boys, so I break horses, build/work on drag cars, and do what ever ells girls arnt suposed to do, lol. And thanks

[LoVeHoRsEs]

Now I have a 1990 mustng ssp car for my everyday driver. Just got it the other day. im so excited.

[RhianThomas]

I wouldn't know about your dream but I do know “Whatever women do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half as good. Luckily, this is not difficult.” 
― Charlotte Whitton.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

hahaha!

[Superman1]

Wow.
Before you said you met the guy, I'd say your male side of dealings with males was impeded or interrupted by your feminine side. The brick wall you came up against, after talking of male things.
That maybe you wanted to relate to males better, but you got in the way of that because you are a girl.

YOUR MALE SIDE
You were hesitant at getting close to the male aspect (you didn't know if this side was into you or not, or even if it was attracted to you or the same as you.)
You leaned on this side - as this side had leaned on the wall or barrier - you relied on it. It didn't repel from you so you got closer to it, which in turn got closer to you, which pleasantly surprised you.

So then you decided to get close to and get affectionate with more of your male side.
You connected with his expression (the neck), and the small scar it had caused in your heart {the chest}.

YOUR FEMALE SIDE
Then your female side walked in, which opposed the male side and stopped it, made it move away from you.
Perhaps then, that wound was from your female side, sort of getting in way of it - colliding with it.

EMBARRASSED
You were embarrassed by your feminine side then. So it was very personal.
But embarrassed so much it didn't matter so you just went for it with your male side, angry you didn't go all the way or closer to it.
The cock-blocker might mean male blocker. It's the main part that differentiates male. Your female side was the biggest male blocker ever.
But because you were so embarrassed by your female side seeing your antics with your male side, it may be sexual.

WAKE UP
Then part of you said it's time to wake up.
Do you normally wake at 6:30?
But it was the wake-up call for you, for it to dawn on you.

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PROPHESY
Perhaps this man you met is connected with the exact issue you have in your dream. Can it be too much to suggest he may have been sent to you for a purpose?

FANTASY PROPHESY:
I probably reject now what I first thought:
But because you now met the guy of your dreams, so to speak, I wonder is a prophesy the result of a past-life connection?
Can it be you were really close with this person, because why else would you dream of him and being so affectionate with him?
Yes it could mean the future. But the future isn't made without the past.

Here's a doozy for ya. Can it be you used to be a man? A gay man. Just an option.

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Perhaps it can be both.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

Wow.
Before you said you met the guy, I'd say your male side of dealings with males was impeded or interrupted by your feminine side. The brick wall you came up against, after talking of male things.
That maybe you wanted to relate to males better, but you got in the way of that because you are a girl.

YOUR MALE SIDE
You were hesitant at getting close to the male aspect (you didn't know if this side was into you or not, or even if it was attracted to you or the same as you.)
You leaned on this side - as this side had leaned on the wall or barrier - you relied on it. It didn't repel from you so you got closer to it, which in turn got closer to you, which pleasantly surprised you.

So then you decided to get close to and get affectionate with more of your male side.
You connected with his expression (the neck), and the small scar it had caused in your heart {the chest}.

YOUR FEMALE SIDE
Then your female side walked in, which opposed the male side and stopped it, made it move away from you.
Perhaps then, that wound was from your female side, sort of getting in way of it - colliding with it.

EMBARRASSED
You were embarrassed by your feminine side then. So it was very personal.
But embarrassed so much it didn't matter so you just went for it with your male side, angry you didn't go all the way or closer to it.
The cock-blocker might mean male blocker. It's the main part that differentiates male. Your female side was the biggest male blocker ever.
But because you were so embarrassed by your female side seeing your antics with your male side, it may be sexual.

WAKE UP
Then part of you said it's time to wake up.
Do you normally wake at 6:30?
But it was the wake-up call for you, for it to dawn on you.

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PROPHESY
Perhaps this man you met is connected with the exact issue you have in your dream. Can it be too much to suggest he may have been sent to you for a purpose?

FANTASY PROPHESY:
I probably reject now what I first thought:
But because you now met the guy of your dreams, so to speak, I wonder is a prophesy the result of a past-life connection?
Can it be you were really close with this person, because why else would you dream of him and being so affectionate with him?
Yes it could mean the future. But the future isn't made without the past.

Here's a doozy for ya. Can it be you used to be a man? A gay man. Just an option.

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Perhaps it can be both.

lol, wow, thats alot to think on.
The way I feel about this guy that I work with is tottaly different from the dream. I have zero feelings for him, no attraction what so ever, and I assume he’s the same way because he has never flirted with me. I don’t know about the past life thing, (religious me) I do not belive in past lives, (college me) but I also cannot say that there’s no such thing because we really don’t know. Thanks for your input.

[Superman1]

I think I have it right now, LoVeHoRsEs.

Maybe this dream was about how you got out of your shell then - in relating to males.
As as you said it made you feel like that, most likely you did that already, to have the dream after.
Unless you just really wished you did.
Your female side was stopping your assertive male side - and that explains the embarrassment - but you went for it anyway.
So going all the way could be with that.

That also tallies well with:
You connected with his expression (the neck). Or to put it better now, you expressed your more outward going self.

Can you remember doing or thinking that the day of the dream? - on Apr 27, 2012? Or just before.

PROPHESY EXPLAINED
And finally, maybe you meeting the guy for real was just a little prophesy that you would have another cause for being your outgoing self, in meeting this new guy. That was his connection in the dream.
Forget all my over the top past life gibberish, haa. Put that under the bottom.
It seems just the opposite, funnily. No connection at all, which would bring out your non-shy self the most.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

The dream was so embarrassing I didn’t want to admit it but It did make me feel more confident and outgoing, and I was ready to rape my boy friend, but you can’t rape the willing . lol
If anny thing I think im more of a tom-boy than girlygirl, I work on cars, break horses, and am not afraid to get dirty, and I caint stand shopping... unless its for my horses. lol.

[Superman1]

Neigh I was wrong again. But maybe close.
Hey what about this:

The dream must be about you feeling uncomfortable about having sex and feeling vulnerable, as you said, then you left your inhibitions behind.
Your female or not so assertive side was embarressed, but you went further anyway.
That can explain why you wanted to jump on your boyfriend in real life after.

At first in the dream, you were thinking of your movement in this area, which had come up against a wall.
I thought recently it might be about s*x. Because C*ck blocker seems too strong a sign not to be.

If right, either it was an experience with your boyfriend, or you were thinking this to make it happen.
And you did not recognise that guy because it was an unknown or uncertain area with your boyfriend. Like he was a stranger to you in that way. Or it was strange.

And kissing his neck is about his expression,
And you were kissing the slight wound in his heart because you were not doing it with freely with him.
This must be the mane answer.

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Neigh, that is probably wrong as well.
Because you met the guy about 2 weeks later, the only logic may be that it will happen in the future - symbollically.
...Unless he does represent a stranger in your dream, in the way you saw your boyfriend in this matter. There ya go.


Hay, I no longer feel like I am being watched by a giant horse's eye.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

Hmn, I think you may have hit it on the head. I do tent to have problems with leting my guard down.
And I dont realy factor in meeting the guy just because I have dreams of things happening, or meeting people, and it comes true latter, ususaly if someone or something dies though. like the terrorist atack in New York on 911.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

but idk.

[Superman1]

It's still going, and still not right? lol

After reading your new James Bond dream, I realised maybe this older dream did affect you more than vice versa like I thought.
So, what about you took the dominant role in the relationship, maybe over some issue, and it was embarassing?
Sort of fits with what you said in your later post in your Bond dream.

[LoVeHoRsEs]

It's still going, and still not right? lol

After reading your new James Bond dream, I realised maybe this older dream did affect you more than vice versa like I thought.
So, what about you took the dominant role in the relationship, maybe over some issue, and it was embarassing?
Sort of fits with what you said in your later post in your Bond dream.

Hm, I tend to be the more dominant one anyway I guess, it is sort of embarrassing because other girls look at me like I’m some sort of alien or something, and most of them hate me, 1 because in prettier than most, a lot of elderly people tell me that I look like Evelyn Nesbit, she was a "supermodel" in the early 1900's, and 2 because most guys think it’s cool that I know how to work on cars, break horses that most men can’t, and I will get in there and just get the job done whatever it is no matter how messy or difficult.

But I think it’s most embarrassing for my boyfriend that I’m more like the "man" in the relationship.