Dreams of him EVERY NIGHT!!

[An_Unfailing_Mystery]

So there is this guy that I like an well... Things haven't really worked out between us so he suggested we just be friends. I'm all for it except for one problem... HE'S IN MY DREAMS EVERY NIGHT!!! I am a bit of a lucid dreamer and I am trying to train myslef to realize that I'm dreaming whenever I see him but it doesn't really work and honestly probably wouldn't do much good anyway. Every morning I wake up though with a horrible stomach ache though and my feelings for him are extremely hard to control when I can't stop dreaming about him!! Could anyone help me out here???

[Queen-Dee]

Sometimes we intend to dream what we think about the most during the day.

You been thinking of him too much girl.

[An_Unfailing_Mystery]

Oh yes I know this and I've made myslef focus on other things but even still. Last night I went to bed resolved in my mind that I was over it and what do you know, another dream with him in it. I know that it's just my subconcious revealing what I really want but it doesn't matter what I want caue it isn't gunna work out in real life and so I just wanna get over him and stop dreaming of him.

[Ryan Szalaty]

I would have to disagree. It seems to me like you are saying one thing, but thinking another. There is no guarantee that this relationship will not blossom. Sometimes, the greatest relationships begin low-key. Or, even unrealistic. Perhaps this guy needs time to think. For now, see where the winds take you. Whatever happens...let it happen!

[An_Unfailing_Mystery]

I would have to disagree. It seems to me like you are saying one thing, but thinking another. There is no guarantee that this relationship will not blossom. Sometimes, the greatest relationships begin low-key. Or, even unrealistic. Perhaps this guy needs time to think. For now, see where the winds take you. Whatever happens...let it happen!

Thank you, I probably needed to hear that. I know how I feel about him but I'm just so scared to put faith into a relationship that may not ever even become a relationship. But I see where your getting at, I've now resolved myself to becoming passive in this situation and just "waiting things out" I want to believe that he feels the same way but if he doesn't then well life will go on! lol My dreams aren't as constant as they had been and I honestly think that it's because I have excpeted that I do like him and am no longer in denial. Thank you though.

[spyyko]

Ahh, those boys

[An_Unfailing_Mystery]

Ahh, those boys

Psh, You're telling me.

[SilentDaydreamers]

I've had this situation before with an ex...every flippin day was the same guy but each of them had a meaning . It was strange because when he did contact me again, I would guess what was going on and whatever I dreamed was exactly what he was experiencing, but of course I never really did tell him that!

You're either thinking too much about about this guy or their is a meaning behind the dreams....

[Drew]

Is there anything you regret not telling him? Since you keep on dreaming of him, there might be something unsaid that is bugging your subconscious.