Straight people.

[dreamweaver123]

I'm straight and have a male friend, Steve, who is straight, but was madly in love with a gay man, named Craig. I've moved on and wish him all the best in life. I kind of wince at the idea that some of these homosexuals become the victim of hate crimes or bullying, by backwards-thinking people. I definitely think people need to accept that some are gay, just born that way, and others aren't.
I find that the scapegoating of gays is really unjust and unfair. People need to move past their preconceptions of what gays are and just move toward acceptance. It irks me to no end, how much hostility these homosexuals put up with, just for loving someone of the same gender. It is a wonder to me that people make a big federal case about this. Please forgive me for venting, but I think there is danger in speaking out, like there are still some that pigeonhole someone based on their sexual preference.
Perhaps in big cities people have an open mind to all of this, but small town ignorance plays a role in more rural areas where people don't know and are ignorant to LGBT issues. Lesbian, gay, bisexuals, transvestites are much more understood around here, than in other places, where the issues are swept under the rug. There is just such a taboo when bringing up the topic, like it's something that you don't discuss paradoxically, and the more the communication is there the less people will oppress of another for being what he or she is.
People don't always mean to judge another based on sexual preference but there is a lot of misunderstanding in the community. Gay are like everyone else and they need love from other gays and also straight people.

[Guardian7347]

Straight and loving it. The female body is simply intoxicating to admire, and wonderful to explore. Her scent, the softness of her skin...ok, you get the picture. Besides that, I love women who cry over the sad scenes in movies, want my arms wrapped around them when snuggling, and get all lovey when they want something from me in that overly transparent way. In short, they are what men aren't.

wow...im sure you aren't single...

Straight, but not interested in love/relationships.

Why...don't you want someone to share your life with??..

Im straight

lol Well that depends on who you ask! There are a couple of women on here who have laid claim to being my next ex. In all honesty though, yes I am single. Right now is an impossible time for me to be in a relationship. I'm deployed to Afghanistan. Relationships and deployments don't mix well unless you're in a solid, committed relationship long before you leave the states. Sooo...I intentionally have avoided relationships leading up to this deployment to avoid those complications. During normal conditions however, I'm perfectly content being single anyway. Single or dating, it matters not to me. There are things I enjoy about being in a relationship, just as there are things I enjoy about being single.

But the question is that i am pondering is...Is it possible to live through life happy without being in a relationship?

I would say the answer is yes, but that is a conditional response. There are certain personality types that are favorable to living happily without having someone tied to your life, and there are those who are just wired to be in a relationship. The satisfaction one receives from being in a healthy relationship can be obtained through surrogate activities that these people pursue. For instance, the filmmaker makes films, the painter paints, and the runner runs. They put so much of themselves into these activities that they essentially have a relationship with their work, complete with ups and downs.

I think what you are saying is very rational to be or not to be in a relationship is kinda a win win and lose lose situation we want that person in our lives and to be happy and be loved but it may be difficult for some people to actually stay in a consistent relationship because of their lifestyles or they can't deal with someone else in their lives in such difficult times but i think that's being very considerate because you want to make sure that the person you are with is satisfied and happy without having to cause problems or drama so im defiently on your page on that!

And i also abosultely admire those who are in the army i hope you doing good as well and im hoping i be with someone who is in the military someday i know that he may be gone for a long time but i don't care...iv'e always wanted that anyways

You've always wanted your man to be gone for a long time? How rude! lol jk hon.

[Guardian7347]

Because women are intuitive by nature, and have a strong, natural desire to please which makes them VERY in tune with their partner!

makes them very loyal dogs too

Actually thats a lie. Proven scientific fact according to studies show that women are more likely to cheat than guys are.

They are, but once again, you have to look at their nature. They get satisfaction from pleasing their partner. If their partner isn't demonstrating satisfaction with them, then they will seek out someone from whom they can get that praise. In other words men...if you aren't telling your woman how wonderful she is and how much you appreciate everything she does for you...someone else can very easily slink in and start whispering in her ear...and she'll listen, because that's what she is craving to hear.

[CeciliaMystic]

Straight and loving it. The female body is simply intoxicating to admire, and wonderful to explore. Her scent, the softness of her skin...ok, you get the picture. Besides that, I love women who cry over the sad scenes in movies, want my arms wrapped around them when snuggling, and get all lovey when they want something from me in that overly transparent way. In short, they are what men aren't.

wow...im sure you aren't single...

Straight, but not interested in love/relationships.

Why...don't you want someone to share your life with??..

Im straight

lol Well that depends on who you ask! There are a couple of women on here who have laid claim to being my next ex. In all honesty though, yes I am single. Right now is an impossible time for me to be in a relationship. I'm deployed to Afghanistan. Relationships and deployments don't mix well unless you're in a solid, committed relationship long before you leave the states. Sooo...I intentionally have avoided relationships leading up to this deployment to avoid those complications. During normal conditions however, I'm perfectly content being single anyway. Single or dating, it matters not to me. There are things I enjoy about being in a relationship, just as there are things I enjoy about being single.

But the question is that i am pondering is...Is it possible to live through life happy without being in a relationship?

I would say the answer is yes, but that is a conditional response. There are certain personality types that are favorable to living happily without having someone tied to your life, and there are those who are just wired to be in a relationship. The satisfaction one receives from being in a healthy relationship can be obtained through surrogate activities that these people pursue. For instance, the filmmaker makes films, the painter paints, and the runner runs. They put so much of themselves into these activities that they essentially have a relationship with their work, complete with ups and downs.

I think what you are saying is very rational to be or not to be in a relationship is kinda a win win and lose lose situation we want that person in our lives and to be happy and be loved but it may be difficult for some people to actually stay in a consistent relationship because of their lifestyles or they can't deal with someone else in their lives in such difficult times but i think that's being very considerate because you want to make sure that the person you are with is satisfied and happy without having to cause problems or drama so im defiently on your page on that!

And i also abosultely admire those who are in the army i hope you doing good as well and im hoping i be with someone who is in the military someday i know that he may be gone for a long time but i don't care...iv'e always wanted that anyways

You've always wanted your man to be gone for a long time? How rude! lol jk hon.

LOL No i meant i want to have a love relationship with someone who is in the military..

Sorry i didn't make sense before...

[Guardian7347]

I'm straight and have a male friend, Steve, who is straight, but was madly in love with a gay man, named Craig. I've moved on and wish him all the best in life. I kind of wince at the idea that some of these homosexuals become the victim of hate crimes or bullying, by backwards-thinking people. I definitely think people need to accept that some are gay, just born that way, and others aren't.
I find that the scapegoating of gays is really unjust and unfair. People need to move past their preconceptions of what gays are and just move toward acceptance. It irks me to no end, how much hostility these homosexuals put up with, just for loving someone of the same gender. It is a wonder to me that people make a big federal case about this. Please forgive me for venting, but I think there is danger in speaking out, like there are still some that pigeonhole someone based on their sexual preference.
Perhaps in big cities people have an open mind to all of this, but small town ignorance plays a role in more rural areas where people don't know and are ignorant to LGBT issues. Lesbian, gay, bisexuals, transvestites are much more understood around here, than in other places, where the issues are swept under the rug. There is just such a taboo when bringing up the topic, like it's something that you don't discuss paradoxically, and the more the communication is there the less people will oppress of another for being what he or she is.
People don't always mean to judge another based on sexual preference but there is a lot of misunderstanding in the community. Gay are like everyone else and they need love from other gays and also straight people.

Ok. First off, your friend isn't straight if he was madly in love with a gay man. That's the definition of gay. Secondly, no offense, but this thread is kinda about straight people...not sure if you noticed. Nothing against gays, but we're talking straight here. If you really feel the need to rant about gays being scape-goated or picked on, by all means go for it...in your own thread. I've read this exact tirade at least fifty times before, what's one more time?

Gay are like everyone else

No they aren't. If they were, then there wouldn't be any acceptance issues, now would there? I don't care if someone is gay/lesbian, I really don't. Your biz, not mine. Just don't try and tell me that a gay man isn't different from a straight man and a lesbian isn't different from a straight woman. I have a co-worker who is lesbian, and that woman is awesome! Her and I have a good time going out to the bars and picking up women together. She's one of the guys. I know how to treat her. I don't know how to treat a gay man. I can't treat him like one of the guys...because he's off talking fabric color with the women, and I sure as hell can't treat him like a woman because he has a penis. WTF?

[Guardian7347]

LOL No i meant i want to have a love relationship with someone who is in the military..

Sorry i didn't make sense before...

You're fine hon, I was just giving you a hard time. So...gotta ask. Why is it you want to have a love relationship with a military man? What's the appeal? They can actually be harder to love sometimes. Deployments kill relationships. What distance doesn't do, PTSD often finishes off.

[jojo]

Straight.

Some girls are military groupies, same as like rock groupies. It is all they seek out and are attracted too. I don't get it, but whatever makes another happy.

[CeciliaMystic]

LOL No i meant i want to have a love relationship with someone who is in the military..

Sorry i didn't make sense before...

You're fine hon, I was just giving you a hard time. So...gotta ask. Why is it you want to have a love relationship with a military man? What's the appeal? They can actually be harder to love sometimes. Deployments kill relationships. What distance doesn't do, PTSD often finishes off.

You don't have to let me know that it will not be easy to have a relationship with someone in the military without a doubt..i know.

Im well aware of that otherwise i wouldn't have said it.Besides i like a little a challenge and let's say i possibly fall in love with someone in the military he wouldn't have to worry about me being disloyal,besides i hate liars and not one one myself...sometimes And if i can ignore boys at school(even the cute ones)then yeah it won't be a problem for me.

I know im not in a relationship or have ever been with a military guy to actually have the right to tell you this because i don't know what the experience is really like.And yes i know i have to have the patience and endurance of him not always being with me-which i know will be very difficult but i'll accept it.Because him in the military enduring every minute and every second of his life-fighting-is already enough for me and to remind me why im in love with him.

And of course im not looking forward when he's away,it's gonna be so damn complicated and boring but im used to being alone anyways so that i can handle.Also i think the worst part about it is not knowing if he's OK or doesn't get hurt when he's away i tend to get anxiety not knowing what's happening ...im sure every girl in a relationship with a military man have that feeling-but at least i can get to write him that's fine with me.

[JessicaBunny]

Straight and loving it. The female body is simply intoxicating to admire, and wonderful to explore. Her scent, the softness of her skin...ok, you get the picture. Besides that, I love women who cry over the sad scenes in movies, want my arms wrapped around them when snuggling, and get all lovey when they want something from me in that overly transparent way. In short, they are what men aren't.

well done, sir & well played too. men can be snuggly too. like big hibernating bears on a sofa.

[Nostalgic]

@ guardian. It's really great to see a man really understand us woman, not many men do, at no fault of their own as we can be complicated lol.

The girl you meet and fall in love with is going to be one lucky woman.

[Guardian7347]

@ guardian. It's really great to see a man really understand us woman, not many men do, at no fault of their own as we can be complicated lol.

The girl you meet and fall in love with is going to be one lucky woman.

Yes, women can be complicated creatures. Not one woman can tell me that she hasn't had a moment where she didn't even understand why she did what she did. That said, once you peel back the individual personalities and personal experiences, once you get past the hormonal and emotional rollercoaster, women are pretty simple. Woman is the refined version of man. All of our rougher qualities are off-set by a woman's gentler nature.

Already did once Nos. Didn't end well, but I did learn a lot from it. The problem with marrying young is you are still growing into the person you will someday become. My opinion is your personality is continuously being molded and shaped by your enviroment until somewhere around 25-ish. After that, most things aren't going to change how you think or feel as much as during your "formative years". Sooo...this person that you fell in love with at 18 or 20 is still changing into someone else. If the two of you don't change together, then you wake up one day and realize you don't even like this person that used to be your great love. No worries though, I'm in no rush to find the next mrs. right. I have plenty of women in my life as is.

[Guardian7347]

Straight and loving it. The female body is simply intoxicating to admire, and wonderful to explore. Her scent, the softness of her skin...ok, you get the picture. Besides that, I love women who cry over the sad scenes in movies, want my arms wrapped around them when snuggling, and get all lovey when they want something from me in that overly transparent way. In short, they are what men aren't.

well done, sir & well played too. men can be snuggly too. like big hibernating bears on a sofa.

Oh I'm definitely a snuggler! Me laying behind her, my arms wrapped around her, feeling her soft, slow breathing as she sleeps. If they can sleep in your arms, you know they feel safe with you and that's important to me.

[Guardian7347]

LOL No i meant i want to have a love relationship with someone who is in the military..

Sorry i didn't make sense before...

You're fine hon, I was just giving you a hard time. So...gotta ask. Why is it you want to have a love relationship with a military man? What's the appeal? They can actually be harder to love sometimes. Deployments kill relationships. What distance doesn't do, PTSD often finishes off.

You don't have to let me know that it will not be easy to have a relationship with someone in the military without a doubt..i know.

Im well aware of that otherwise i wouldn't have said it.Besides i like a little a challenge and let's say i possibly fall in love with someone in the military he wouldn't have to worry about me being disloyal,besides i hate liars and not one one myself...sometimes And if i can ignore boys at school(even the cute ones)then yeah it won't be a problem for me.

I know im not in a relationship or have ever been with a military guy to actually have the right to tell you this because i don't know what the experience is really like.And yes i know i have to have the patience and endurance of him not always being with me-which i know will be very difficult but i'll accept it.Because him in the military enduring every minute and every second of his life-fighting-is already enough for me and to remind me why im in love with him.

And of course im not looking forward when he's away,it's gonna be so damn complicated and boring but im used to being alone anyways so that i can handle.Also i think the worst part about it is not knowing if he's OK or doesn't get hurt when he's away i tend to get anxiety not knowing what's happening ...im sure every girl in a relationship with a military man have that feeling-but at least i can get to write him that's fine with me.

No offense, but I don't think you have a clue. Too little experience with relationships and none as emotionally complicated as dating a soldier. That said, I sincerely hope you get what you wish for, and once you do, it's everything you've dreamed it could be. I honestly do. You sound like you may have the perseverance to make it work. Just don't allow yourself to be so consumed with this romanticized image of a soldier that you overlook too many flaws in your quest for a dream, ok?

[Nostalgic]

Nicely said guardian.
I agree as well. I met hubby young. I was 24 he was 25 but we did grow together. There was a year where we were on slightly different tracks but we adapted and it passed. I was ready a year before him for kids and he took slightly longer to not enjoy partying as much but these things didn't affect us as much as it does some others.
I just stayed home doing origami why he went out and I knew he would want kids eventually so it didn't bother me to wait.
We are very similair but also very different people.

He and Lucien are my everything.

There is never a need to rush although you're a good one so I'm sure you'll not have lack of choice.

[CeciliaMystic]

LOL No i meant i want to have a love relationship with someone who is in the military..

Sorry i didn't make sense before...

You're fine hon, I was just giving you a hard time. So...gotta ask. Why is it you want to have a love relationship with a military man? What's the appeal? They can actually be harder to love sometimes. Deployments kill relationships. What distance doesn't do, PTSD often finishes off.

You don't have to let me know that it will not be easy to have a relationship with someone in the military without a doubt..i know.

Im well aware of that otherwise i wouldn't have said it.Besides i like a little a challenge and let's say i possibly fall in love with someone in the military he wouldn't have to worry about me being disloyal,besides i hate liars and not one one myself...sometimes And if i can ignore boys at school(even the cute ones)then yeah it won't be a problem for me.

I know im not in a relationship or have ever been with a military guy to actually have the right to tell you this because i don't know what the experience is really like.And yes i know i have to have the patience and endurance of him not always being with me-which i know will be very difficult but i'll accept it.Because him in the military enduring every minute and every second of his life-fighting-is already enough for me and to remind me why im in love with him.

And of course im not looking forward when he's away,it's gonna be so damn complicated and boring but im used to being alone anyways so that i can handle.Also i think the worst part about it is not knowing if he's OK or doesn't get hurt when he's away i tend to get anxiety not knowing what's happening ...im sure every girl in a relationship with a military man have that feeling-but at least i can get to write him that's fine with me.

No offense, but I don't think you have a clue. Too little experience with relationships and none as emotionally complicated as dating a soldier. That said, I sincerely hope you get what you wish for, and once you do, it's everything you've dreamed it could be. I honestly do. You sound like you may have the perseverance to make it work. Just don't allow yourself to be so consumed with this romanticized image of a soldier that you overlook too many flaws in your quest for a dream, ok?

Just because im young doesn't mean i don't know anything-believe me i understand what it takes...

Nicely said guardian.
I agree as well. I met hubby young. I was 24 he was 25 but we did grow together. There was a year where we were on slightly different tracks but we adapted and it passed. I was ready a year before him for kids and he took slightly longer to not enjoy partying as much but these things didn't affect us as much as it does some others.
I just stayed home doing origami why he went out and I knew he would want kids eventually so it didn't bother me to wait.
We are very similair but also very different people.

He and Lucien are my everything.

There is never a need to rush although you're a good one so I'm sure you'll not have lack of choice.

You might not think this but 24 and 25 isn't that young

[Nostalgic]

I think it's young. In some cultures it's probably really old. But I think we met young for a lifetime relationship.
Age doesn't really matter as it depends on the 2 people but from people I know it generally works better if they meet around 28 / 30
That's not a fact, I'm basing this opinion on people I've met in life.

I lied oops, I was 23 not 24 (bad memory)

[Guardian7347]

Nicely said guardian.
I agree as well. I met hubby young. I was 24 he was 25 but we did grow together. There was a year where we were on slightly different tracks but we adapted and it passed. I was ready a year before him for kids and he took slightly longer to not enjoy partying as much but these things didn't affect us as much as it does some others.
I just stayed home doing origami why he went out and I knew he would want kids eventually so it didn't bother me to wait.
We are very similair but also very different people.

He and Lucien are my everything.

There is never a need to rush although you're a good one so I'm sure you'll not have lack of choice.

Thanks Nos. You and hubby are a wonderful example of what CAN be. Sometimes I do forget that young love doesn't always fail, and it's good to get a reminder. You're a good woman, with an even temper and a cool head. You'll make a wonderful mother to Lucien!

[Guardian7347]

You might not think this but 24 and 25 isn't that young

Let me know if you still feel that way when you're thirty. 25 both is and isn't young. I think it's a great age in my opinion. Still young with plenty of energy, but tempered with a little experience under your belt.

[Nostalgic]

Thx

30 now and the years I've been with hubby have flown by. Feel like I've known him my whole life but just met last year, does that make sense?

Young can work but it's rare I think.

[CeciliaMystic]

You might not think this but 24 and 25 isn't that young

Let me know if you still feel that way when you're thirty. 25 both is and isn't young. I think it's a great age in my opinion. Still young with plenty of energy, but tempered with a little experience under your belt.

Oh no no i know 24 and 25 is young im just saying it's not ya know that young...when i was reading what Nostalgic was saying i thought she was gonna say she met her hubby in her teen years cause she said she met him young...but then mention it was in her 20s

And i think 30 is like a real woman age

@ guardian. It's really great to see a man really understand us woman, not many men do, at no fault of their own as we can be complicated lol.

The girl you meet and fall in love with is going to be one lucky woman.

I agree 100%!

Straight.

Some girls are military groupies, same as like rock groupies. It is all they seek out and are attracted too. I don't get it, but whatever makes another happy.

I wouldn't consider myself a military groupie-because im more of a leader never a follower lol but i did understand what you were trying to say.

[Nostalgic]

Teen would be super young, even rarer but some of those work out well.

Had a friend who got married at 18. Lasted a year before the divorce. None of the teen mums I know are still with the fathers. Sadly teen pregnancy was a fashion where I grew up.

[Guardian7347]

Thx

30 now and the years I've been with hubby have flown by. Feel like I've known him my whole life but just met last year, does that make sense?

Young can work but it's rare I think.

It makes perfect sense. I understand the feeling. That's where time blurs together and you have that soul-mate understanding of each other. You don't remember a time before you met them, because it seems like in all your memories, they were standing just outside your vision. Yet at the same time, the relationship still has that "new love" scent to it. lol

Obviously, I agree with you that young CAN work, but it's a lot more rare and difficult.

You might not think this but 24 and 25 isn't that young

Let me know if you still feel that way when you're thirty. 25 both is and isn't young. I think it's a great age in my opinion. Still young with plenty of energy, but tempered with a little experience under your belt.

Oh no no i know 24 and 25 is young im just saying it's not ya know that young...when i was reading what Nostalgic was saying i thought she was gonna say she met her hubby in her teen years cause she said she met him young...but then mention it was in her 20s

And i think 30 is like a real woman age

@ guardian. It's really great to see a man really understand us woman, not many men do, at no fault of their own as we can be complicated lol.

The girl you meet and fall in love with is going to be one lucky woman.

I agree 100%!

Straight.

Some girls are military groupies, same as like rock groupies. It is all they seek out and are attracted too. I don't get it, but whatever makes another happy.

I wouldn't consider myself a military groupie-because im more of a leader never a follower lol but i did understand what you were trying to say.

And i think 30 is like a real woman age

Please explain, I'm curious. I think I know what you mean, but I'm not sure.

I agree 100%!

Thank you. I appreciate the flattery, but I assure you both that I have my fair share of faults. For one, in case neither of you has noticed, I tend to be argumentative!

[CeciliaMystic]

@Guardian

Well im not good at explaining things..but i just see when a girl hits age 30 they should already have their life togather like in general whether or not theyr'e ready to have children,or what she loves to do for living and just basically what they want in life...at that time they should have gained enough knowledge or try figuring out what they truely want in life and have to except the fact that they are now a woman.Does that makes sense?

Young can work but it's rare I think.

I agree with you on that...especially if you fall in love so young and still manage to be togather for years or maybe forever.Oh what a dream that is.

[CeciliaMystic]

Thank you. I appreciate the flattery, but I assure you both that I have my fair share of faults. For one, in case neither of you has noticed, I tend to be argumentative!

Oh no one is perfect even me i am very impatient i do not not like waiting at all for nothing or no one...and i tend to be argumentive sometimes too or hot-headed and throws things if im so annoyed-but hey we all have our faults right?

[Guardian7347]

@Guardian

Well im not good at explaining things..but i just see when a girl hits age 30 they should already have their life togather like in general whether or not theyr'e ready to have children,or what she loves to do for living and just basically what they want in life...at that time they should have gained enough knowledge or try figuring out what they truely want in life and have to except the fact that they are now a woman.Does that makes sense?

Young can work but it's rare I think.

I agree with you on that...especially if you fall in love so young and still manage to be togather for years or maybe forever.Oh what a dream that is.

I figured that's what you meant, but I try not to assume...tends to get me into trouble! lol I think by thirty most women have a pretty good feel for life, like you said. Honestly though, I think women settle down a lot earlier and have a solid base long before that. Women really do mature faster than men, both physically, mentally and emotionally. They are more likely to have life locked down earlier than their male counterparts.

[Nostalgic]

I like everything you said except the maturing physically faster bit

[Guardian7347]

I like everything you said except the maturing physically faster bit

lmao The least debatable point out of anything I've said in this entire thread is the one thing you choose to dislike! Figures!

[Nostalgic]

What can I say.... I'm a woman

[Guardian7347]

What can I say.... I'm a woman

lol Wouldn't have you any other way Nos!

[CeciliaMystic]

@Guardian

Well im not good at explaining things..but i just see when a girl hits age 30 they should already have their life togather like in general whether or not theyr'e ready to have children,or what she loves to do for living and just basically what they want in life...at that time they should have gained enough knowledge or try figuring out what they truely want in life and have to except the fact that they are now a woman.Does that makes sense?

Young can work but it's rare I think.

I agree with you on that...especially if you fall in love so young and still manage to be togather for years or maybe forever.Oh what a dream that is.

I figured that's what you meant, but I try not to assume...tends to get me into trouble! lol I think by thirty most women have a pretty good feel for life, like you said. Honestly though, I think women settle down a lot earlier and have a solid base long before that. Women really do mature faster than men, both physically, mentally and emotionally. They are more likely to have life locked down earlier than their male counterparts.

Umm yes that sums it up

[Nostalgic]

We need t shirts

[JeremyM]

Straight lolz

[tropicalheatwave]

We need t shirts

i wouldn't mind wearing such a t-shirt but if i happen to get jumped by a group of fags because of it, then i'll be too embaressed to leave home.

[jojo]

We need t shirts

I will guess that would offend some who are gay.

[Nostalgic]

Some People would misinterpret it but people wear gay pride t shirts

[Jon!]

We need t shirts

i wouldn't mind wearing such a t-shirt but if i happen to get jumped by a group of fags because of it, then i'll be too embaressed to leave home.

from reading some of your posts in regards to the gender borders... You reek of ignorance dude. And THAT in itself is bloody embarrasing!

We need t shirts

I will guess that would offend some who are gay.

may i ask why you think that?? Seems like a rediculous notion to me.

[tropicalheatwave]

from reading some of your posts in regards to the gender borders... You reek of ignorance dude. And THAT in itself is bloody embarrasing!

relax, it was meant as a joke. i'll admit sometimes i do go too far and joke around too much.

[dimplesd]

[Jon!]

relax, it was meant as a joke. i'll admit sometimes i do go too far and joke around too much.

it's hard to get sarcasm across through text without hearing tone of voice accompanied by facial expressions >_>

It was still a rather ridiculous statment though. Maybe i just dont get your humor :-/

[tropicalheatwave]

i rub alot of people the wrong way with my humor.

[JeremyM]

I could see how a few could be put off by that tee, Nos. Some people are sensitive and hate to have whatever issue diminished or joked about.

Most gays/lesbians wouldn't be, but some would. I don't care what anyone wears, freedom of clothes. lolz

[Nostalgic]

I guess some would consider the t shirt homophobic or against gays, those types are weird in general though.
I wouldn't wear it, that's cause it's not something I feel the need to be proud of,

[Guardian7347]

We need t shirts

i wouldn't mind wearing such a t-shirt but if i happen to get jumped by a group of fags because of it, then i'll be too embaressed to leave home.

from reading some of your posts in regards to the gender borders... You reek of ignorance dude. And THAT in itself is bloody embarrasing!

We need t shirts

I will guess that would offend some who are gay.

may i ask why you think that?? Seems like a rediculous notion to me.

I'm inclined to agree with Jojo on this one. Some people tend to be overly sensitive towards certain issues and are unable to handle any jest aimed at a cause they feel attached too. They would feel like it was done in a mocking fashion as opposed to a joking fashion. Your reaction to Tropic's comment is a prime example of Jojo's point. What he said was said in jest only, but you took offense because it's something near and dear to your heart. You took it personally. Understandable, but you still over-reacted. That's all Jojo was saying.

[CeciliaMystic]

We need t shirts

I disagree on the t-shirts we "straight" people don't necessarily need to flaunt our pride to the world to know that we're straight...we aren't the ones having problems with our community,we aren't the ones getting discriminated and we aren't the ones getting bullied or beaten up because of it..i know it's good to have pride but i don't think the t-shirts is necessary in my opinion

[Guardian7347]

We need t shirts

I disagree on the t-shirts we "straight" people don't necessarily need to flaunt our pride to the world to know that we're straight...we aren't the ones having problems with our community,we aren't the ones getting discriminated and we aren't the ones getting bullied or beaten up because of it..i know it's good to have pride but i don't think the t-shirts is necessary in my opinion

I agree with you that it's absolutely not necessary, but I don't see where it is necessary for any group to flaunt their pride. What need is there to say "Hey! I'm gay/straight/black/white/latino/asian/slavic and proud of it". Yeah? So what? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If one group gets to do it, you can't tell another person they can't.

[CeciliaMystic]

We need t shirts

I disagree on the t-shirts we "straight" people don't necessarily need to flaunt our pride to the world to know that we're straight...we aren't the ones having problems with our community,we aren't the ones getting discriminated and we aren't the ones getting bullied or beaten up because of it..i know it's good to have pride but i don't think the t-shirts is necessary in my opinion

I agree with you that it's absolutely not necessary, but I don't see where it is necessary for any group to flaunt their pride. What need is there to say "Hey! I'm gay/straight/black/white/latino/asian/slavic and proud of it". Yeah? So what? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If one group gets to do it, you can't tell another person they can't.

That is so true but people in this world will believe what they want to believe and say what they want to say...some just feel the need to express their feelings/differences towards others in every way as possible...

[Guardian7347]

We need t shirts

I disagree on the t-shirts we "straight" people don't necessarily need to flaunt our pride to the world to know that we're straight...we aren't the ones having problems with our community,we aren't the ones getting discriminated and we aren't the ones getting bullied or beaten up because of it..i know it's good to have pride but i don't think the t-shirts is necessary in my opinion

I agree with you that it's absolutely not necessary, but I don't see where it is necessary for any group to flaunt their pride. What need is there to say "Hey! I'm gay/straight/black/white/latino/asian/slavic and proud of it". Yeah? So what? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If one group gets to do it, you can't tell another person they can't.

That is so true but people in this world will believe what they want to believe and say what they want to say...some just feel the need to express their feelings/differences towards others in every way as possible...

True. I could really care less either way, personally, but I'd probably wear one at least once just as a jest. I think it's funny personally.

[Nostalgic]

We need t shirts

I disagree on the t-shirts we "straight" people don't necessarily need to flaunt our pride to the world to know that we're straight...we aren't the ones having problems with our community,we aren't the ones getting discriminated and we aren't the ones getting bullied or beaten up because of it..i know it's good to have pride but i don't think the t-shirts is necessary in my opinion

I agree with you that it's absolutely not necessary, but I don't see where it is necessary for any group to flaunt their pride. What need is there to say "Hey! I'm gay/straight/black/white/latino/asian/slavic and proud of it". Yeah? So what? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If one group gets to do it, you can't tell another person they can't.

Guardian explains it the best,

[nass_Traumen]

joke'em if they can't take a fook...

I'm straight because I prefer it, they're gay because they prefer it, live and let live.

[Guardian7347]

We need t shirts

I disagree on the t-shirts we "straight" people don't necessarily need to flaunt our pride to the world to know that we're straight...we aren't the ones having problems with our community,we aren't the ones getting discriminated and we aren't the ones getting bullied or beaten up because of it..i know it's good to have pride but i don't think the t-shirts is necessary in my opinion

I agree with you that it's absolutely not necessary, but I don't see where it is necessary for any group to flaunt their pride. What need is there to say "Hey! I'm gay/straight/black/white/latino/asian/slavic and proud of it". Yeah? So what? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If one group gets to do it, you can't tell another person they can't.

Guardian explains it the best,

Perhaps, but you look better explaining it! lol