Need guy advice? Well, im a guy, so ask away. :]

by **kdelosh13** on Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:29 pm

lokk at my post.. its called should i snap and slap or kiss him to show what he is missing

no one has advice.. uhh : (

by **noobulater** on Sun Jan 17, 2010 1:14 am

i'll take a looksy at it...

by **lilsunshine** on Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:29 am

Hey, thanks for this topic!

I have a few very short, probably easy to answer questions

1. WELL...often my boyfriend tells me he loves me...but it's mainly while he's pleasuring me which makes me tend to believe he merely 'lusts' me. He treats me amazing though, he's very respectful etc but he told me he loved me very, very early on in the relationship so I don't really think he does.

2. It's normal for a guy to smile heaps after they make you 'happy' right?

3. MEGA peeved because this is the first time I haven't been able to make a guy 'happy'. Like...you know...'O'. (I'm not having sex, at this moment it's only HJ but I will probably soon give him a BJ) Do you have any good tips about HJ's please? He said I'm good and I've been told I was good in the past but I can't make him 'O' and it's REALLY frustrating because he's the first guy ever to make me 'O' and I want to make it up to him! Any good websites or tips? lol I can make him moan and whatnot.....but grrrr, no 'O'!! lol It's awfully tiring...lol

Probably too much information there, but oh well, this is what these forums are for, eh

by **jamie15online** on Mon Jan 18, 2010 12:01 pm

tigerseyes2419 wrote:lol wow i was going to just kiss him when we were at this play for school i was fixing the hat i put on him and then i chickened out lol.. But what when he hugs me just be like i like you??

Hmm.. u shoulda kissed him!, just ask to hang out and then do it or on the second hang out or so

by **jamie15online** on Mon Jan 18, 2010 12:05 pm

lilsunshine wrote:Hey, thanks for this topic! I have a few very short, probably easy to answer questions

1. WELL...often my boyfriend tells me he loves me...but it's mainly while he's pleasuring me which makes me tend to believe he merely 'lusts' me. He treats me amazing though, he's very respectful etc but he told me he loved me very, very early on in the relationship so I don't really think he does.

2. It's normal for a guy to smile heaps after they make you 'happy' right?

3. MEGA peeved because this is the first time I haven't been able to make a guy 'happy'. Like...you know...'O'. (I'm not having sex, at this moment it's only HJ but I will probably soon give him a BJ) Do you have any good tips about HJ's please? He said I'm good and I've been told I was good in the past but I can't make him 'O' and it's REALLY frustrating because he's the first guy ever to make me 'O' and I want to make it up to him! Any good websites or tips? lol I can make him moan and whatnot.....but grrrr, no 'O'!! lol It's awfully tiring...lol

Probably too much information there, but oh well, this is what these forums are for, eh

K, so, this is way to much for me! Im not specialized in that area, so sorry. but i can say to just ask him how serious he is about the words "i love you"

by **tigerseyes2419** on Tue Jan 19, 2010 7:09 pm

yeah well the dance is coming up so maybe we can go to a movi before the dance or something.. youthink thats a good idea? But his exand him went to the movies on there first date... What should i do?

by **jamie15online** on Tue Jan 19, 2010 8:48 pm

tigerseyes2419 wrote:yeah well the dance is coming up so maybe we can go to a movi before the dance or something.. youthink thats a good idea? But his exand him went to the movies on there first date... What should i do?

well if u go to church, invite him one night. But i dont see a problem in a movie.. maybe go to the library? what do you two like?

by **tigerseyes2419** on Tue Jan 19, 2010 11:15 pm

Ummm well we like some of the same movies but i think maybehe would like Sherlock Holmes.. Me and him would probably enjoy that... And do you think he would have trust issues after his ex cheated on him?

by **jamie15online** on Wed Jan 20, 2010 8:23 am

tigerseyes2419 wrote:Ummm well we like some of the same movies but i think maybehe would like Sherlock Holmes.. Me and him would probably enjoy that... And do you think he would have trust issues after his ex cheated on him?

That sounds like a plan, and it depends on how far they got, what they did, but ppl have exex, its normal, so you should be alright.

by **i<3JustinBieber** on Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:35 pm

okay so i have a friend and i reallllly like him n he doesnt know how i feel but he says he doesnt like me...........my frnz say hes lying and he soo does! heres why: we got to hang out at knotts (with two of my other frnz) n it was absolutly amazing...........n he offered me his jacket three times last year..........in handbells he wanted me to feel something so he took my hand in his and i touched it.......there was a gap in between us and this guy wanted to sit between us n he grabbed my arm pulled me close then put his arm around me and pulled me even closer.............when i met his dad hes all o so yoUR ******* yeah ****** has talked about you........n his mom gives me a death stare when she sees me.........i think im getting excited about nothing................but idk what to think...........do you think he likes me more then as just a friend?! cuz i had a "nerd moment" where i tripped over a (verticle) pole n my friend (his best friend) was all ****** go save your true love! but i know he was jk.............now im only 13 and in jr. high n im not lookin for a relationship but i want some peoples thoughts that arent my close personal friends that know me.................

by **lilsunshine** on Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:36 pm

jamie15online wrote:
lilsunshine wrote:Hey, thanks for this topic! I have a few very short, probably easy to answer questions

1. WELL...often my boyfriend tells me he loves me...but it's mainly while he's pleasuring me which makes me tend to believe he merely 'lusts' me. He treats me amazing though, he's very respectful etc but he told me he loved me very, very early on in the relationship so I don't really think he does.

2. It's normal for a guy to smile heaps after they make you 'happy' right?

3. MEGA peeved because this is the first time I haven't been able to make a guy 'happy'. Like...you know...'O'. (I'm not having sex, at this moment it's only HJ but I will probably soon give him a BJ) Do you have any good tips about HJ's please? He said I'm good and I've been told I was good in the past but I can't make him 'O' and it's REALLY frustrating because he's the first guy ever to make me 'O' and I want to make it up to him! Any good websites or tips? lol I can make him moan and whatnot.....but grrrr, no 'O'!! lol It's awfully tiring...lol

Probably too much information there, but oh well, this is what these forums are for, eh

K, so, this is way to much for me! Im not specialized in that area, so sorry. but i can say to just ask him how serious he is about the words "i love you"

LOL sorry! But okay, will do....I fixed up 3 and now understand 2 anyway, but thanks for your help on 1

by **jamie15online** on Wed Jan 20, 2010 11:17 pm

i<3JustinBieber wrote:okay so i have a friend and i reallllly like him n he doesnt know how i feel but he says he doesnt like me...........my frnz say hes lying and he soo does! heres why: we got to hang out at knotts (with two of my other frnz) n it was absolutly amazing...........n he offered me his jacket three times last year..........in handbells he wanted me to feel something so he took my hand in his and i touched it.......there was a gap in between us and this guy wanted to sit between us n he grabbed my arm pulled me close then put his arm around me and pulled me even closer.............when i met his dad hes all o so yoUR ******* yeah ****** has talked about you........n his mom gives me a death stare when she sees me.........i think im getting excited about nothing................but idk what to think...........do you think he likes me more then as just a friend?! cuz i had a "nerd moment" where i tripped over a (verticle) pole n my friend (his best friend) was all ****** go save your true love! but i know he was jk.............now im only 13 and in jr. high n im not lookin for a relationship but i want some peoples thoughts that arent my close personal friends that know me.................

Trust in HIS words, if he says he doesnt like you, then he doesnt. I seriously doubt any boy in jr high is even close to ready for any kinda realationship.

by **sayuri** on Wed May 26, 2010 12:33 pm

Well first of all i gotta say I love the anime icon jamie15online, but heres a curveball for ya,do most guys prefer skinnier girls or more curvy girls?

by **justagirl16** on Tue Jul 06, 2010 12:12 am

I posted my topic its called "need some advice boys"
if you could help me out that would be great thanks!

by **misterchrister** on Sat Jul 17, 2010 12:13 am

jamie15online wrote:
candi14 wrote:What is the general order of a guys like in a girl? face, personality, body, popularity, intelligence and etc

In all honesty, breast, teeth, hair, eyes, personality, skin.. the order changes with every guy, but thats the jist.

No, I value personality, and the face/hair, but mostly the personality, priority number one.

by **Xwikki** on Sun Jul 18, 2010 11:42 am

sayuri wrote:Well first of all i gotta say I love the anime icon jamie15online, but heres a curveball for ya,do most guys prefer skinnier girls or more curvy girls?

by **123uloveme** on Mon Jul 19, 2010 1:05 am

My dads friends younger brother is 1 year older than me. he and i are good friends but i really like him...as in love,but he doesnt even notice :dummy"

so basicly the point is i want him to know that i like him. so any advice on that would be great thanks a bunch!
-Alli :banghead:

by **Niss** on Mon Jul 19, 2010 1:34 am

Lemme see if I can stump you...

What if a guy was totally unintrested in me, but I wanted to make them interested. How would I do that?

by **marine7138** on Mon Jul 19, 2010 8:32 pm

ok im give this a shot n just ask a straight out question.
why would i guy see some girl and automatically just have to get to know her? almost determined...with no reason behind it.then after say he doesnt want to be anybodys? what was the point? :banghead:

by **daydreamer123** on Sat Jul 24, 2010 9:10 am

Before I post my problem I need to know...

What kind of guy are you?
How old are you?
Are you in an relationship? (to see if you understand)

by **Tal** on Sat Jul 24, 2010 9:13 am

Hope you guys aren't sweating on a reply. The OP hasn't logged in since February.

by **123uloveme** on Sun Jul 25, 2010 5:30 pm

I am having a very close friendship with this guy i like. i think he likes me too,but im not sure, i will give u some examples of things he does nd u tell me wheter u think he likes me. all i kno is i am in luv with him and nothing will change that.His name is zach
Zach:
Waits for me when we walk together,hangs out with me all day, tells me about everything,protects me from people tht may or may not hurt me in any way shape or form,and talk privately to me a lot,makes me laugh,doesnt talk about any other girl except me, he dosent even hang out with his friends anymore, hates when ppl say we r dating, when he leaves i say where are u goin he says i will b back soon, apologives if he thinks he has hurt me,makes tons of sexual jokes, looks me in the eyes when he talks to me, but denies liking me and tells ppl we r just friends.

I thought about asking him out but i am so confused by the signals he gives me, nd i dontt want to be embarresed by asking him out plzzzzzzzz help :heartpump:

-Alli

by **punkchick** on Wed Jul 28, 2010 8:59 am

hey,

see you give advice..
Ive been dating this guy for like 3 years now, but for the first half of our relationship he
was speaking to his ex behind my back which he dated 8years.. i wanted to know from you
if you think that he is not over his ex or if you think he is still talking to her. i want to know
whether i am wasting my time with this guy? do you think he will be loyal after he could do
something like that.
I love him but i dont know if he can be trusted which makes my life very difficult..

Please help

by **Cassidylynn** on Wed Jul 28, 2010 1:44 pm

punkchick wrote:hey,

see you give advice..
Ive been dating this guy for like 3 years now, but for the first half of our relationship he
was speaking to his ex behind my back which he dated 8years.. i wanted to know from you
if you think that he is not over his ex or if you think he is still talking to her. i want to know
whether i am wasting my time with this guy? do you think he will be loyal after he could do
something like that.
I love him but i dont know if he can be trusted which makes my life very difficult..

Please help

Who is contacting who first, him or his ex, how often? Are they being flirty, meeting up?

Just the occasional hey or hi seems innocent, but if you are uncomfortable with him talking you should tell him and see what he says or offers to do. If he acts weird or guilty then you'll know more is happening.

Do you talk to ex's too? Is he okay with that?

If you are always worried about trusting him it will break you up.

by **sayuri** on Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:44 pm

Cassidylynn wrote:
punkchick wrote:hey,

see you give advice..
Ive been dating this guy for like 3 years now, but for the first half of our relationship he
was speaking to his ex behind my back which he dated 8years.. i wanted to know from you
if you think that he is not over his ex or if you think he is still talking to her. i want to know
whether i am wasting my time with this guy? do you think he will be loyal after he could do
something like that.
I love him but i dont know if he can be trusted which makes my life very difficult..

Please help

Who is contacting who first, him or his ex, how often? Are they being flirty, meeting up?

Just the occasional hey or hi seems innocent, but if you are uncomfortable with him talking you should tell him and see what he says or offers to do. If he acts weird or guilty then you'll know more is happening.

Do you talk to ex's too? Is he okay with that?

If you are always worried about trusting him it will break you up.

I completely agree with Cassidy on this one. These are not only questions you should ask him but questions that should make you become more aware of what hes doing. You could also talk to his friends and see if hes acting suspiciously to them too like hes hiding something. But if its just a simple hello then its probably not something to worry about. But if they were to meet up maybe say like " Hey you know id like to come too... Maybe we could all go to Jack-in- the- box for lunch or something?"

by **jonas413** on Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:55 pm

Okay, well... I'd like to throw this at you. I really like (possible even love) this guy I just met two years ago and got to know this year through our schools bands. He's four years older than me and going to college, but he's staying at home (which is, like, three streets away from me). He's always pretty, like, I don't know... reserved,I guess is the word. He's always reserved and never opens up even to his friends that he's pretty close with. Well, him and one of my friends that is a year older than me are pretty close and she always asks him for, like, just a little hug, but he always tells her no and walks away. While with me, every time I ask him he says yes. Actually, the first time I hugged him we were hugging for literally 90 seconds almost and I was the one that had to pull away. Sometimes, whenever I try to talk to him though he still seems reserved and acts like he really doesn't want to talk to me, but at other times he's really sweet. He's just sending a ton of mixed signals. I talked to one of his friends and he (the guy I like) is really cool all the time, but his friend said that he is the opposite when it comes to relationships. He's too shy to ask a girl out and he's just not good when it comes to relationships while he's fine in everything else. I just don't know if I should make the first move and ask him out even though I'm like him in the way that I don't think I'd be courageous enough to go right up to him and be like "Hey, I really like you and was wondering if you'd like to go out with me sometime." I'm just so afraid that he's going to reject me and never talk to me again. 'Cause like I said, I think I might be in love with him. Just wondering what you or anyone thinks I should do. I'd really appriciate any advice anyone could give me. Thanks.

K <3

by **punkchick** on Thu Jul 29, 2010 5:39 am

Wel we have had numerous arguments about him talking to her.
He wanted her back for the first year and a half of our relationship, and i dont know
whether he is still talking to her, ive asked many times if they are still talking and he just says
they dont. But its really hard for me to believe that they just stopped talking. i mean they
dated for 8 years... you dont forget someone just like that.
He cant give me a date more or less from when they stopped talking so its just haed to
believe. He does not allow me to speak to my exes and ive shown him that i have lost all
contact with them.. so im not doing anything wrong.
I just have a gutt feeling that i cant trust him, because it always feels like there
is something he is hiding from me.
Ive found messages where they were planning to meet up and messages of where they spoke
about the last visit... this is just a really screwed up situation and i dont just wana throw away 3
years of my life with this guy.
Its just not so easy...
Is this really worth all the trouble?
He treats me well, opens the car door for me, makes me coffee every morning and does
almost everything i ask him to do... does anyone think he could still be doing something behind my back?
Oh and his ex is apperantly engaged but ive never seen a ring on her finger so somewhere someone

is lying to me and i cant figure out who.

by **Tal** on Thu Jul 29, 2010 7:33 pm

To be honest with you, I think you're in a messy relationship that you'd be better well away from. He's still talking to he ex (maybe cheating) and you don't trust him. Seriously, trust is VITAL in every relationship, even friendships. If you don't trust him now you never will. Three years is not a long time to be with someone. Try being married to a man for 23 years and then finding out he's been cheating with your sister or best friend. You don't have kids so that's a bonus. Him opening car doors etc is nothing. Friends do that for each other as well. What's really important here is the lack of honesty and trust between the two of you. If your gut is telling you that somethings very wrong then chances are you're right. You could try taking a break for a little while and stepping back from it all to get a better perspective. It's easy to look at things clearly when you're outside them.
Essentially, the decision is yours.

by **punkchick** on Fri Jul 30, 2010 5:15 am

the thing is i cant bring myself to leave him, which means moving back to my parents house
and not having the freedom of doing what i want anymore.
I love him to bits but i dont know if that is enough anymore ...
I want to make it work, but the thoughts of him and his ex just wont leave my head.
Ive tried and tried but ive never had the courage to leave him...
He doesnt hit me or anything, im propably just to comfortable where i am.

by **gargoylegoil** on Fri Jul 30, 2010 11:33 am

punkchick wrote:the thing is i cant bring myself to leave him, which means moving back to my parents house
and not having the freedom of doing what i want anymore.
I love him to bits but i dont know if that is enough anymore ...
I want to make it work, but the thoughts of him and his ex just wont leave my head.
Ive tried and tried but ive never had the courage to leave him...
He doesnt hit me or anything, im propably just to comfortable where i am.

Eventually though, you will lose your sense of self worth. Just being comfortable is not going to keep you happy. And if you are snooping on him to find out things, that's not good, where there is no trust, there is no love. Sorry PC, you need to be strong. Don't know if you work, but find your own place to live, who says you have to go back home....Life is tough, you have to be tougher

by **Tal** on Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:26 pm

I agree with this. ^^ If you're going to settle for the negative then that's all you'll ever get. You have to look out for yourself and if that means moving back to your parents' house for a short time then why the hell not? Chances are you won't feel like going out very much for a while anyway and in that time you can get back on your feet. As gargoylegoil said, life is tough and it's up to you and you only, to make it work the way you want it to.
Staying in this relationship will harm you emotionally and then physically and NOBODY is worth that much sacrifice.

by **dulces suenos** on Sat Jul 31, 2010 4:55 am

hey i've seen that ur the go2 guy about guy info.well im 14 and one of my best friends is a really attractive guy and i've told him this and he's told me several times that im very attractive and that he really likes me...u kno like enough to date but he's already gota girl so i told him that yea there is definitely chemistry wen we're together but im not gona date a guy who's already gota girl cuz i've been cheated on and emotionaly hurt and i dont want to partake in something like that bcuz i wud feel bad, so he said ok...so now we're sorta friends but im not sure wat to call it."keep this in mind he's a BIGGGGGG flirt and i cant help but flirt back, he lives 3 to 4 miles away from my neighboorhood and he's walked and or rode his bike all the way from his place to mine jus so that we can hang out and chill, i kissed him *only 1ce though*,and he see's me more than he see's his girl"sum of my friends call it a "fromance"(a romance between 2 friends who are'nt dateing but r very close) wat wud u call it and wat should i do!! idk idk cuz he's such and sweet talker and just ahhhhhhhh :ecstatic:

pleazzz reply bac as so as u geta chance so ill kno wat 2 do *thankx*

by **gargoylegoil** on Sat Jul 31, 2010 4:38 pm

Tal wrote:I agree with this. ^^ If you're going to settle for the negative then that's all you'll ever get. You have to look out for yourself and if that means moving back to your parents' house for a short time then why the hell not? Chances are you won't feel like going out very much for a while anyway and in that time you can get back on your feet. As gargoylegoil said, life is tough and it's up to you and you only, to make it work the way you want it to.
Staying in this relationship will harm you emotionally and then physically and NOBODY is worth that much sacrifice.

Right????? Thanks for agreeing...I went through it

by **dulces suenos** on Sun Aug 01, 2010 1:41 am

( keep in imnd that im a teenager with this problem) :eat:

ok well I've been dating black and biracial dudes and well most of them have been jerks.... I'm not saying that all black and biracial guys r like that but in the situations that I've been in most have been this way. so I'm thinking of looking into guys of a different ethnicity like hispanic.....do u think that maybe i jus attract the bad boy type :dusto:

(reasoning why there jerks) and what should i do i cud realy use some advice.
thankx :toothless:

by **gargoylegoil** on Sun Aug 01, 2010 9:16 pm

You attract what you put out......be strong,,,will attract better guys

by **dulces suenos** on Sun Aug 01, 2010 9:55 pm

thankx........ but it seems as if wen i do nice things 4 them in return im the 1 gettin treated like garbdge

so like is there any thing different that u might have in mind that i should do :?:

by **Tal** on Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:35 am

You should be out there enjoying your own life and having fun. Why the big rush to have all these boyfriends? You're only 14. You've got years before you should be worrying about this kind of thing.

by **punkchick** on Mon Aug 02, 2010 8:06 am

Thank you so much for all the advice to all that has commented!
i wil post something again when ive taken the big step...
wish me luck... :wave:

by **sayuri** on Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:17 pm

punkchick wrote:Thank you so much for all the advice to all that has commented!
i wil post something again when ive taken the big step...
wish me luck...

Good luck!!! :excited:

by **gargoylegoil** on Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:25 pm

Tal wrote:You should be out there enjoying your own life and having fun. Why the big rush to have all these boyfriends? You're only 14. You've got years before you should be worrying about this kind of thing.

I agree with you Tal....14 is way too young .

by **Cassidylynn** on Mon Aug 02, 2010 4:30 pm

punkchick wrote:Thank you so much for all the advice to all that has commented!
i wil post something again when ive taken the big step...
wish me luck...

Good luck and hope it all works out for you. :cupcake:

dulces suenos wrote:thankx........ but it seems as if wen i do nice things 4 them in return im the 1 gettin treated like garbdge so like is there any thing different that u might have in mind that i should do

Some people are users, they will take what they want and still not care about you. Don't buy gifts or do extra things for guys who don't treat you with respect. Don't call and keep texting guys who do not return back, if they wanted to hang with you they would.

If a guy is rude to you, move on. Just because you think he is cute doesn't mean he is worth your time. :hugs:

by **dulces suenos** on Mon Aug 02, 2010 11:02 pm

thankx and u kno people like u realy put my self asteam up(be sides my family) :heartpump:

and help me with things that i jus dnt understand..............thank you :blowingkisses:

by **sayuri** on Tue Aug 03, 2010 12:41 pm

dulces suenos wrote:
thankx........ but it seems as if wen i do nice things 4 them in return im the 1 gettin treated like garbdge so like is there any thing different that u might have in mind that i should do

Some people are users, they will take what they want and still not care about you. Don't buy gifts or do extra things for guys who don't treat you with respect. Don't call and keep texting guys who do not return back, if they wanted to hang with you they would.

If a guy is rude to you, move on. Just because you think he is cute doesn't mean he is worth your time.
I gotta agree with Cassidylynn on this one too, some people are users which is very unfair to the one that gets hurt. And if the guy is rude to you then move on, theyre not worth youre time because if they did care for you they would treat you with respect and they wouldnt be rude. Plus there has to be chemistry there, don't just be with a person because you think theyre cute. If theres no chemistry there then theres no compatibility and when theres no compatibility there could be a chance of there beig something you just couldnt get through together and that could wind up being messy. So my advice is this: Move on and while youre moving on take a look in the mirror each morning and say to yourself: "I am strong, I am smart, i will find someone that will treat me how i am supposed to treated..." then maybe find something to love about yourself cuz confidence attracts people to you and pehaps maybe youll be happier and happiness will, in turn, attract someone who may lead to a happy, healthy relationship. Hope the advice helps!

by **Sheena** on Tue Aug 03, 2010 1:31 pm

We wish all men were just like jamie.

by **Val98** on Sun Jul 17, 2011 8:40 pm

A guy at school i think stares at me, he is friends with all my friends, but he rarely talks to me when he does we only say hi or he asks for help on homework. Hes not friends with me so does he like or what? Please help me

by **acomabearr** on Mon Jul 18, 2011 1:24 am

My boyfriend has a different personailty when we text then we do talking physically. Im just confused and scared on what that means !?!?! D: Plz help

by **Xwikki** on Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:50 am

Bloody thread. Guys, this thread hasn't been active for a long time.

Val98 wrote:A guy at school i think stares at me, he is friends with all my friends, but he rarely talks to me when he does we only say hi or he asks for help on homework. Hes not friends with me so does he like or what? Please help me

Okay so, it's difficult to initiate conversation with someone you like in school. Especially if they have no idea who you are. This goes for guys and girls. He's probably trying to find ways to talk to you, asking help on his homework is an excellent excuse for talking to you. Ever seen Mean Girls? :lol:

Lindsay Lohan, a genius, acts like a stupid in maths to talk to a guy.

Invite him along with your friends when you go out, or like, ask him to go out to lunch with you. You guys have things like study dates right? Yeah, watch his eyes light up. :lol:

acomabearr wrote:My boyfriend has a different personailty when we text then we do talking physically. Im just confused and scared on what that means !?!?! D: Plz help

He could be socially awkward, you see it's easier to text rather than talk to someone face to face when you don't have to worry about being aware of your presense. Don't ask us, ask him! Get him face to face, and approach it nicely. Ask him if he feels more comfortable texting because he's awkward around you, and if he admits it, then ask him how you can make him feel more comfortable around you. It's easier to be confident when you're texting, do remember. You're not sat there analysing their reactions in case you've just drawn the line or something.

by **Kat.M.** on Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:24 pm

Can guys loose interest just like that? My fiance broke up with me out of nowhere he said he just didn't wanna deal with my shit anymore (I just wanted him to spend more time with me & to help with his son) but a day before he told me he was happy to have me & he promised to step up & be a better dad....a week before he dumped me we had the most amazing time camping he was all lovey dovey with me and all...I just don't get him one day he's nice & the next he dumps me & treats me like crap...he tells me he hates me & says he can't stand being around me.

by **Laney266** on Mon Jul 18, 2011 11:06 pm

ok c if u can tell me anything ab this one im 16 last year i dated a guy n he was 2 years older then me we dated for a lil ovr 8 months which is my longest relationship n the only serious one ive ever had this guy took my v card which at the time i was cool wit well i ended up breakin up wit him for alot of different reasons n like we stayed friends...atlease thats wat i thot ab 5 months after we broke up i figure out that he has ben sayin crap behind my back tellin everyone im a whore n stuff n tellin all the stuff i did wit him and for him....this guy was suppose to b the guy i cud trust i mean b4 we went out we were best friends n like he turnd around n did this rumors hav ben made up ive gotten made fun of n it sucks but what i dont get is y like i did mess up when we were datin like i startd to flirt wit another guy but that was at the beginnin n b4 this relationship my longest one was a month and a half n he told me he forgave me but like now hes sayin i had one nights stands n that i had 3somes while we were datin n it seems like he just is tryin to make me break ya no he nos what hurts me that most n when i finally txtd him askin him to stop he sed i need to shut my f***ing fat a** mouth n like if u saw us when we were together u wud think he was someone entirely different!!! n now its been a year since we broke up n im still gettin calls ab if rumors r true or not! y wud any guy do this?! all the guys ive dated hav either cheated on me n done this... :cry:

by **Guardian7347** on Tue Jul 19, 2011 3:45 am

tigerseyes2419 wrote:lol wow i was going to just kiss him when we were at this play for school i was fixing the hat i put on him and then i chickened out lol.. But what when he hugs me just be like i like you??

Pardon my interruption, but just my :2cents:

. He may be shy, and it sounds like right now he knows you're into him, so he's stalling on making a move. Perhaps you need to push him into action. Next time you talk, I assume there'll be a hug as a goodbye. As you pull apart, say something like " You know, if you don't make a move on me soon, someone else may come along and steal me away". Then walk away. That leaves him with the thought that he could lose you. Just an idea.