overwhelming fear of not being good enough for lover

[daydreambeliever69]

My lover and I met on the internet and haven't seen each other yet, but she's coming to see me very soon && I am afraid that I am not ready.

I know it is an irrational fear but I can't shake it. And other posts I have made on here about dreams seem to be related to her.

Because I have seen ghosts and partly believe in them, and now I think I have dreamed about this girl, before I even know who she was. It was a dream I had a long time ago about running away from my fears (represented in large tsunami-like waves) and finding her, having very satisfying sex with her in the dream and waking up feeling great about it.

So do you think this means we are right for each other and that God or whatever wants us to be in love? =)

[Cassandra2]

If fear is your master, God has nothing to do with the two of you meeting.
You want to meet her? Then do it! See how the two of you hit it off. How
do you feel for her now. The road of love has many stones in the pathway.

[stickmanjim007]

Why not try telling her your fears? If you are going to have any type of relationship, and you appear to have lowered your defenses sufficiently to allow her to know such intimate details as where you live, in as such that she
is going to visit, then you should feel comfortable enough discussing your fears with her. You hint that you aren't ready yet, have you been dishonest with her in any way? If she has already accepted you as you are, with all your imperfections, which I'm sure she's seen some of at least if you've been completely honest, then I would say that you are good enough to meet her standards. My opinion is, communicate with her.