Tips for finding mr right!!!!

[pgirl]

In a bid to hooking up with the right guy,most girls make some very big mistakes:
they feel the guy should make the first approach,no its not true.if you have something for a guy,go to him in a nice way and let him know how you feel,because if you do not tell him,he won't know.do not leave it for him to figure it out himself,then if he doesn't come to you,you will start saying to yourself''so this guy doesn't like me after all''.Secondly don't wait for him to call first,because you can wait for up to three days without hearing from him and if he doesn't call,you will start feeling uncomfortable and hurt.if you don't call him to ask how he is doing,how will this guy know you care about him or even want him?Thirdly if you go on a date with a guy and you decide to keep quiet and allow him do all the talking how will he know YOU, and how is he going to figure out the knid of person you are?i am not saying you should do the talking alone,what i am saying is, you both should do the talking because by doing that you both will get to know eachother's views more.Ladies should know that in a relationship or in a bid to finding mr right,it takes two.if you as a lady do not give a man a reason for him to know that you really care,there is no way the man will know because he is not a magician.Lastly ladies!treat a man the way you want him to treat you....do not cheat on a man and he won't cheat on you....respect a man and he will in turn respect you....show him love and he will show you love in return.....DO UNTO A MAN THE WAY YOU WANT HIM TO DO TO YOU.!!!

[needFORspeed116]

^^^ this

[pgirl]

Not just this, but part of THIS plays a huge role,its urs to take it or leave it.this is from experience,think about it.

[Tal]

I'm leaving it. And believe me, I've got plenty of experience.

Firstly, if a guy hasn't called me after three days then he's not interested. If he was, he'd call. If he's sitting back waiting for me to call, then no thanks. I prefer men with more balls than that.
If a guy talks constantly about himself all night instead of common interests then that's also a big turn off. I'm also not going to sit there telling my life story to someone I've only just met. Anyone who does that right off the bat is self obsessed and, let's face it, a bit creepy. The best bet is to see if you actually like each other as people before you go baring your souls to each other.
If a guy doesn't show he cares then don't expect me to bust my arse proving a point to him either. I have more self respect than that.
What happens if your loyal to your man for years and they cheat on you anyway?
I don't believe in Mr. Right. If two people are good together then they're good together.
I may be reading your post wrongly, but it's coming across as though I'd have to sacrifice a large amount of my dignity and independence to get a man and too be honest I'm just not needing one. Certainly not at that price.

[pgirl]

First of all what is the PRIDE of a woman,if she has all the money and education in this world and she doesn't have a man to call her own?it might be nothing for some people but to some,they prefer to have a man of thier own rather than wearing the CROWN OF PRIDE without a husband.where i came from it doesn't work that way.Okay some people might want to say '''oh damn it,i can live without a man,what do i need a husband or a boy friend for???''' but my dear,these people will always regret thier decisions someday.
By the way,what i meant in my post is just one word'''Work hard if you want a good relationship,you can't just sit down fold ur hands and wish for a good relationship when you do not want to make sacrifices?You may want to ask yourself this WHAT IS SACRIFICE IN A RELATIONSHIP.there is no cinderella tale in a relationship when you will meet a very handsome,rich,6-pack,blue eyes,faithful,sincere,generous,tall,prince and live happily ever after.THAT DOES NOT EXIST.

It is just common sense,im not saying you should start telling every stranger you meet about you,at the end of the day a normal human won't go out with a guy on a date if you do not feel anything for the guy,its as simple as that.you won't go out on date with someone you cannot even stand,you must have a little thing for him that is why you agreed to date him in the first palce.You mustn't even talk about yourself to him there are so many other things to talk about.it is only when you know you really like a person and you can tell the person likes you back and there is a chance for a relationship,then why not get to know him and him getting to know you too?will it take away your PRIDE?

there is nothing CREEPY about it if you are READY for a relationship,everybody must not get married and so on but do you wish yourself that?i don't know.Life is too short for one to start following trends and what is in vogue'''oh my friends are still single and they are far older than me,why should i even bother myself sacrificing in a relationship with a guy who will break my heart after all?'''it is what you wish for yourself that is what you get,no doubt.if you feel a guy will ALWAYS cheat on you at the end so there is no need to bother or you can't be bothered.My dear the ealier you change that perspective of yours the better for you.

It is not a must to adhere to what i ve just said you know.

[Tal]

Listen kid. Don't patronise me. I've got 4 kids and 3 grandkids and believe me I don't need to validate my existence by catering to a man. And I have NO regrets about my decision.
"Crown of Pride". What a load of tosh.
I've never been freer since I made that decision. To me having a man around the house was just extra work for almost no reward. I get plenty of love and respect from my family and friends which I thoroughly enjoy returning.
If you need a man to make your life worthwhile then that's your loss. I'd rather expend my hard work and energy on creating a good life for myself and the people I love.
I have everything I need thankyou very much.

[pgirl]

Looking at the tone of ur voice,it is obvious you are a very ANGRY person.first of all i do not see you as a kid,miss high and mighty and secondly im not a kid,thirdly its likely you have experience the other side of ur relationship and that is why you took ur decision which im not against.fourthly its not my LOSS if i decided to have a man in my life.i don't know about ur belief,but my belief as a christain my bible says that God created a man and a woman to be together.

I did not post my views for you to call me a kid or for you to be rude to me.it is not a must that you should even view or comment on it,and besides even though you do not agree with my post,it doesn't mean you will start sounding harsh.this is a public forum not a personal one.we all have our different beliefs and views.you mustn't agree with mine,vise versa.if you really are matured you would have thought about this before calling a stranger a KID,kid.

[Tal]

Angry? LOL @ "the tone of my voice". You can hear me now?
I'm never angry. Far too happy with my lot for that.
And as you said, this is a public forum and I contributed my opinion just as you did. If you can't handle comments that you disagree with then don't post. That's all there is too it.
The only people I've ever heard use the term "Miss High and Mighty" are children. I'll leave you to think about that one.

[Smiley Lord]

Looking at the tone of ur voice,it is obvious you are a very ANGRY person.first of all i do not see you as a kid,miss high and mighty and secondly im not a kid,thirdly its likely you have experience the other side of ur relationship and that is why you took ur decision which im not against.fourthly its not my LOSS if i decided to have a man in my life.i don't know about ur belief,but my belief as a christain my bible says that God created a man and a woman to be together.

I did not post my views for you to call me a kid or for you to be rude to me.it is not a must that you should even view or comment on it,and besides even though you do not agree with my post,it doesn't mean you will start sounding harsh.this is a public forum not a personal one.we all have our different beliefs and views.you mustn't agree with mine,vise versa.if you really are matured you would have thought about this before calling a stranger a KID,kid.

Tsk tsk... Someone's Projecting...

[needFORspeed116]

THIS
IS
SPARTAAAA!!!!!!!!

[pgirl]

@Tal WHATEVER!!!!'''miss high and mighty''',i did not disagree with ur opinion,u have ur right to say what u feel and so do I,so PLEASE .

[Les]

I'm leaving it. And believe me, I've got plenty of experience.

Firstly, if a guy hasn't called me after three days then he's not interested. If he was, he'd call. If he's sitting back waiting for me to call, then no thanks. I prefer men with more balls than that.
If a guy talks constantly about himself all night instead of common interests then that's also a big turn off. I'm also not going to sit there telling my life story to someone I've only just met. Anyone who does that right off the bat is self obsessed and, let's face it, a bit creepy. The best bet is to see if you actually like each other as people before you go baring your souls to each other.
If a guy doesn't show he cares then don't expect me to bust my arse proving a point to him either. I have more self respect than that.
What happens if your loyal to your man for years and they cheat on you anyway?
I don't believe in Mr. Right. If two people are good together then they're good together.
I may be reading your post wrongly, but it's coming across as though I'd have to sacrifice a large amount of my dignity and independence to get a man and too be honest I'm just not needing one. Certainly not at that price.

[Les]

First of all what is the PRIDE of a woman,if she has all the money and education in this world and she doesn't have a man to call her own?it might be nothing for some people but to some,they prefer to have a man of thier own rather than wearing the CROWN OF PRIDE without a husband.where i came from it doesn't work that way.Okay some people might want to say '''oh damn it,i can live without a man,what do i need a husband or a boy friend for???''' but my dear,these people will always regret thier decisions someday.
By the way,what i meant in my post is just one word'''Work hard if you want a good relationship,you can't just sit down fold ur hands and wish for a good relationship when you do not want to make sacrifices?You may want to ask yourself this WHAT IS SACRIFICE IN A RELATIONSHIP.there is no cinderella tale in a relationship when you will meet a very handsome,rich,6-pack,blue eyes,faithful,sincere,generous,tall,prince and live happily ever after.THAT DOES NOT EXIST.

It is just common sense,im not saying you should start telling every stranger you meet about you,at the end of the day a normal human won't go out with a guy on a date if you do not feel anything for the guy,its as simple as that.you won't go out on date with someone you cannot even stand,you must have a little thing for him that is why you agreed to date him in the first palce.You mustn't even talk about yourself to him there are so many other things to talk about.it is only when you know you really like a person and you can tell the person likes you back and there is a chance for a relationship,then why not get to know him and him getting to know you too?will it take away your PRIDE?

there is nothing CREEPY about it if you are READY for a relationship,everybody must not get married and so on but do you wish yourself that?i don't know.Life is too short for one to start following trends and what is in vogue'''oh my friends are still single and they are far older than me,why should i even bother myself sacrificing in a relationship with a guy who will break my heart after all?'''it is what you wish for yourself that is what you get,no doubt.if you feel a guy will ALWAYS cheat on you at the end so there is no need to bother or you can't be bothered.My dear the ealier you change that perspective of yours the better for you.

It is not a must to adhere to what i ve just said you know.

This sounds a bit shoddy to me. Besides; what if Tal doesn't want a man in her life what if she wants a sweet young woman to occupy her time and attention? Any woman with an ounce of sense is a lesbian or recovering lesbian!

[heartsdreamer]

Come on people!

There isn't such thing as Mr. or Ms perfect. Are you kidding yourselves?

Arghh!!!!

And yes, there are many women who are very happy being alone without an asshole to treat them like shit.

[Tal]

This sounds a bit shoddy to me. Besides; what if Tal doesn't want a man in her life what if she wants a sweet young woman to occupy her time and attention? Any woman with an ounce of sense is a lesbian or recovering lesbian! [/quote]

[heartsdreamer]

Love is love...

[pgirl]

i know that i posted a long text,but it would have helped alot if u read it before posting your rubbish.Besides in my topic'''TIPS FOR FINDING MR RIGHT'' i am not reffering to lesbians here,im reffering to straight people whom are looking to settle down with a man,so you should shove your comments about lesbians cause they are very irrelevant prior to this topic.

I didn't write on it that you must agree to what i have said,u have ur opinion and if u wanna say it,say something sensible,don't say it because others are saying it.if you don't have an opinion of ur own and if you don't stand on ur own as a human,you will slip. PEACE OUT.

[needFORspeed116]

Love is Love and Lust Is Lust


straight people For The Win.

[Tal]

i know that i posted a long text,but it would have helped alot if u read it before posting your rubbish.Besides in my topic'''TIPS FOR FINDING MR RIGHT'' i am not reffering to lesbians here,im reffering to straight people whom are looking to settle down with a man,so you should shove your comments about lesbians cause they are very irrelevant prior to this topic.

I didn't write on it that you must agree to what i have said,u have ur opinion and if u wanna say it,say something sensible,don't say it because others are saying it.if you don't have an opinion of ur own and if you don't stand on ur own as a human,you will slip. PEACE OUT.

We posted our opinions. You didn't like them and now you're insulting everyone. Oh wait, you're a good Christian. That explains everything.

[pgirl]

Tal or whatever you call yourself why did u remove your first comment?YES i am a good christain,DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT??????????i don't even know why im wasting my PRECIOUS time replying to ur irrelevant messages,it is very obvious you are nothing but an attention seeker,,blurrr... yuck........eww......get a life YOU.or you can simply bang your head on the nearest wall hissssssssssssssssss.

[Les]

Tal or whatever you call yourself why did u remove your first comment?YES i am a good christain,DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT??????????i don't even know why im wasting my PRECIOUS time replying to ur irrelevant messages,it is very obvious you are nothing but an attention seeker,,blurrr... yuck........eww......get a life YOU.or you can simply bang your head on the nearest wall hissssssssssssssssss.

I have a problem with that. Christians creep me right out with their beady little eyes and shifty ways...makes my skin crawl every time I pass a church.

[Tal]

Tal or whatever you call yourself why did u remove your first comment?YES i am a good christain,DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT??????????i don't even know why im wasting my PRECIOUS time replying to ur irrelevant messages,it is very obvious you are nothing but an attention seeker,,blurrr... yuck........eww......get a life YOU.or you can simply bang your head on the nearest wall hissssssssssssssssss.

Because you're too rude and obnoxious to be a follower of Christ. You insult his teachings and life.

[Les]

i know that i posted a long text,but it would have helped alot if u read it before posting your rubbish.Besides in my topic'''TIPS FOR FINDING MR RIGHT'' i am not reffering to lesbians here,im reffering to straight people whom are looking to settle down with a man,so you should shove your comments about lesbians cause they are very irrelevant prior to this topic.

I didn't write on it that you must agree to what i have said,u have ur opinion and if u wanna say it,say something sensible,don't say it because others are saying it.if you don't have an opinion of ur own and if you don't stand on ur own as a human,you will slip. PEACE OUT.

I do have an opinion of my own. Spell out the word you instead of using "u" and you're instead of "ur."

[Tal]

Don't bother Les. She's 15 if she's a day. I've never met an adult yet who uses textspeak to say something.

[pgirl]

Tal i don't see why my religion bothers u,or was it in the topic?u claim you are matured,you've got four kids bla bla bla...let me tell you something MATURITY is not by having 100 kids and 50 grandchildren,MATURITY is what u have upstairs and what you can offer...as you can see i have offered a TIPS FOR FINDING MR RIGHT not a TIPS FOR FINDING MRS RIGHT,i can see you are heading towards finding mrs right.I am afraid you have come to the wrong place,this is a place for straight people,so you can try the next post.And let me WARN you,don't DARE me,cos if you do!!!i reserve my comment for now.

[Tal]

Silly girl.

[pgirl]

Silly WOMAN.

[Tal]

I stand corrected. You're a silly WOMAN then.

[pgirl]

You are a silly MUM and its a PITY!!!I wonder what your kids will say seeing thier so called mum writing in such a shameless way.

[Tal]

Don't you dare bring my children into your petty little spite fest you disgusting little bitch. This it between you and me you piece of trash.
You've got nothing left so you bring children into your pathetic fight.

[pgirl]

LOOOOOOOOOL,IMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!Does that hurt?awwwww.SHAMELESS MOTHER!!!!!

[Tal]

Shameless how?
Christ would turn his face from you in shame. And rightfully so.
You're no Christian.

[pgirl]

Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!its between us,don't you dare bring CHRIST into this...you are not CHRIST,you started the insults and awful comments and i guess CHRIST is seeing all that,who are you to even start preaching CHRIST do u know Him????? ofcourse not.cos if you do,you would have acted sensible like others and stop posting these rubbish you 've been posting,jobless know how.hahahahaha LOL,matured idiot.

[Tal]

I expressed my opinion about your post. You reacted without restraint and decorum by insulting everyone who posted in this thread. Christ knows you for who and what you are. You are not a Christian. You don't even begin to follow the most basic of his teachings.
Perhaps you need to consider anger management lessons. Or even a few in basic manners.
Oh and how about basic grammar while you're at it.

[pgirl]

WHATEVER!!!!Get a life Tal.I'VE GOT MORE IMPORTANT ISSUES TO ATTEND TO AND YOU RE LIKE A SNAP OF A FINGER...how come you are talking about my grammar,does it really count??its obvious you can read what i write,SO???YOU HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM AND THAT IS WHY A MAN CANNOT TOLERATE YOU.....CHECK YOURSELF......OR YOU CAN SIMPLY GO AND SEEK AN ADVICE FROM A COUNSELLOR,EVEN THOUGH IT IS TOO LATE FOR YOU.HAHAHAHA IMOA...WEIRDO! IM OUT,AND WILL GIVE YOU A REPLY LATER.

[Tal]

Toodle pip then.

[pgirl]

WHATEVER!!!!Get a life Tal.I'VE GOT MORE IMPORTANT ISSUES TO ATTEND TO AND YOU RE LIKE A SNAP OF A FINGER...how come you are talking about my grammar,does it really count??its obvious you can read what i write,SO???YOU HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM AND THAT IS WHY A MAN CANNOT TOLERATE YOU.....CHECK YOURSELF......OR YOU CAN SIMPLY GO AND SEEK AN ADVICE FROM A COUNSELLOR,EVEN THOUGH IT IS TOO LATE FOR YOU.HAHAHAHA IMOA...WEIRDO! IM OUT,AND WILL GIVE YOU A REPLY LATER.

[Tal]

You already said that.
Feel better now about yourself now? I certainly hope so. You don't have a whole lot of anything else going for you.
I bet you're single. Or a hooker.

[Tal]

Tal or whatever you call yourself why did u remove your first comment?YES i am a good christain,DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT??????????i don't even know why im wasting my PRECIOUS time replying to ur irrelevant messages,it is very obvious you are nothing but an attention seeker,,blurrr... yuck........eww......get a life YOU.or you can simply bang your head on the nearest wall hissssssssssssssssss.

I have a problem with that. Christians creep me right out with their beady little eyes and shifty ways...makes my skin crawl every time I pass a church.

Curse you Les. I had a mouthful of beverage when I read this.

[pgirl]

I'm afraid not.i'm a HAPPILY married young lady.
i believe you are a FAT,jobless old lady,who is so bored with life finding favour from stranger on net.always glued to the computer 24/7,wasting away drinking beverages.old FOOL.WASTE AWAY MISS 30 STONE..

[Tal]

Wow...you're all class.

[Les]

Wow...you're all class.

May I Tal?

[Tal]

By all means Les...

[Les]

I'm afraid not.i'm a HAPPILY married young lady.
i believe you are a FAT,jobless old lady,who is so bored with life finding favour from stranger on net.always glued to the computer 24/7,wasting away drinking beverages.old FOOL.WASTE AWAY MISS 30 STONE..

I can't speak for Tal, but I think you're a bitch and your religion is a joke as is every post you have made in this thread. Children these days...they get married and all of a sudden they know what the fuck they are talking about...

[Les]

You are dismissed pgirl. Run along and play so the grown-ups can talk.

[Tal]

She'll be back.
By the way Les...do you know how old a cat has to be before she can mate?

[Les]

:lol:
She'll be back.
By the way Les...do you know how old a cat has to be before she can mate?

5 months or so....I think.

[Tal]

Oh bollocks. Better get the little hussy to the vet asap. And I'm not talking about pgirl.

[pgirl]

les and tal(LESBIANS).........YOU BOTH ARE TWO JEALOUS OLD WITCHES....WHORE.....AND BITCHES....i don't have time for you two old fools and i will not bother myself to reply you guys.....BIG FAT IDIOTS.hissssssss.YOU BOTH SHOULD CREEP AHEAD AND LOOK FOR SOMEONE OF YOUR AGE AND SIZE.SHAMELESS PIGS,YOUR NOT WORTH IT ATALL. TWO FREAKS....

[Les]

Oh yes, you don't want that trouble on your hands. Kittens are fun but they can be hard to get rid of...