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I don't love anyone else the same way, what to do?

PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2018 7:57 am
by dreamerseeker
I met this guy on a penpal website. He's 26 and I'm 25. He's from India and I'm from the USA.

I've known him for nearly 3-years now, and let me just say, there is no such thing as perfect, but he was perfect to me. He was everything I've always dreamed of. But he is madly in love with someone else. I do not want to interfere between them. I tried to forget him and find someone else, but no one else gives me that same feeling that I had/still have for him. I am truly in love with him and only him. I never felt like this for anyone else before. I really believe he is the one for me. But clearly I'm not the one for him.

Yes, I've had crushes on guys before, but it was nothing like the feeling I have for my Indian friend. I don't know what to do.

Re: I don't love anyone else the same way, what to do?

PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2018 9:19 pm
by aussie_musician
well .. you have to forget about him ..

and well .. you actually know what to do because you have already said so ..

you're not the one for him ..

get on with your life .. and forget about him ..

Re: I don't love anyone else the same way, what to do?

PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2018 8:25 pm
by cannydreams
Pining after someone whose heart is given to another and cannot be open to yourself will be soul-crushing always for you. I agree with aussie and let the idea of him and you go.

Re: I don't love anyone else the same way, what to do?

PostPosted: Mon Dec 17, 2018 12:06 am
by Jezzabella
This is not love, this again is infatuation.

Re: I don't love anyone else the same way, what to do?

PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:00 pm
by aussie_musician
just wondering .. does he like or play cricket ???

i know that american's don't ..

and they possibly have no idea what cricket is .. :)