Hate to do this but...

[Jon!]

Cos I hate these kind of posts. But I am actually experiencing being stuck between two guys. Me and kitteh have been on a break for over a month now. Situation is we're pretty much still together just with complications. He's asked me to move in. If I do we'll get back together. We're both happy together, we don't have everything in common but it means we have plenty to keep us interested in each other.

Met a guy through work. We have lots in common. And get on just a little bit better and I see from him he knows how to care. Kitteh doesn't seem to. I am torn.

I love kitteh and I know him and I care for him a ton. And before gav came along I had it all figured. I feel like I'm met gav at a really inconvenient time cos we would be so good together. But then again, I still don't know him that much. I'm just do confused and I have to make a decision. Kitteh doesn't know about gav, but gav knows about kitteh. Just need a bit of help and directional guidance :/

[BLUE]

Ok I have heard about the other two guys but you know all I am worried about is my jon :hugs: What if you take option 3? Stay single for the next little while. Spend time with both guys and then make your decision. You know I am about being all open and honest in a relationship. So tell kitten you need time you need time to work out the complications. You love him but not sure if it will work and yes it is up to you if you tell him about Gav. It may bring out some things in kitteh you will need to see to make your decision...Gav too for that matter. Will they manipulate the situation...have a fit...maybe even be extra good to get you...or truly want ti be with you. Make sure you read all the signs before making your decision.

You only deserve the best my jon jon

[LifeChanges]

I agree with Blue. Being single for a while would help clear your mind. Personally, I think you should go with Gav though. It sounds like your relationship with Kitteh has run its course. Unless you truly want to be committed to Kitteh, I would move on and start a new chapter in your life.

[Guardian7347]

The best of dilemmas can be the most troubling at times.
Blue is on target with this one. You need the space to be able to think clearly and sort your thoughts and feelings out. You need your space. I think moving in with kitteh would unfairly sway your decision. It may well be that your relationship with him HAS run it's course. Make sure you're willing to consider that possibility honestly while weighing your decision.

[Jon!]

Thanks guys. I've thought of the pure and simple single option. But if I decided to stay and get to know gav better then I would be single as I don't want a r/s with him as I still wouldn't be over kitteh.

I am more inclined to stay with kitteh, the fight I've already put up for him will not be for nothing. I've thought about it more now. I've not long since been on holiday with kitteh and it was the best holiday ever. It was fantastic being with him and re-kindle what we both almost let die. It means so much more than a guy I've only jut met. I know what the heart wants, just need to stay focused :/

[Nostalgic]

I didn't know you guys were on a break. You seemed so in love with him.
The new guy may just be interesting cause he's new and you were having problems?

I really don't know Jon. What's your heart saying?

[Jon!]

I chose kitteh of course ^_^ lol we had a bit of a fight the other day over something he said via text and the texts drove me to reluctantly walk away. Little did I know that was the ex husband texting me, not him. So kitteh drive to mine, confessed he loves me for the first time ever and begged me back. I've been such a stupid dick for even thinking about being with anyone else. True that gav and me are a great match, however my heart only knows and wants kitteh. I lost my head for a while there :/

[gargoylegoil]

I chose kitteh of course ^_^ lol we had a bit of a fight the other day over something he said via text and the texts drove me to reluctantly walk away. Little did I know that was the ex husband texting me, not him. So kitteh drive to mine, confessed he loves me for the first time ever and begged me back. I've been such a stupid dick for even thinking about being with anyone else. True that gav and me are a great match, however my heart only knows and wants kitteh. I lost my head for a while there :/

Seems you've aleady made your decision Jon.

[LifeChanges]

I chose kitteh of course ^_^ lol we had a bit of a fight the other day over something he said via text and the texts drove me to reluctantly walk away. Little did I know that was the ex husband texting me, not him. So kitteh drive to mine, confessed he loves me for the first time ever and begged me back. I've been such a stupid dick for even thinking about being with anyone else. True that gav and me are a great match, however my heart only knows and wants kitteh. I lost my head for a while there :/

I glad you found out it wasn't Kitteh and all this was sorted out. I wish you the best and I hope you two are happy!

[sayuri]

Well it looks like things have sorted themselves out, Congrazzles Jon! :3