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I'm engaged!!!

Postby tripursl » Thu Dec 07, 2017 11:13 am

Me and my fiance have been together 2 years and we are engaged to get married in may 2019 (18 months). I am so excited! I'm only 17 now so ill be 18 when we have the wedding and my fiance will be 20, so many people think we are being stupid for doing this. The thing is my parents are super supportive because they know us so well and know that we have a strong bond, but his parents are unsupportive because they think we are too young and they want their son to move back in with them. My fiance has always had trouble with his parents. His dad is an alcoholic and his parents are addicted to gambling, so he decided to give up on them and not invite them to the wedding so its kinda sad, but we will try to put that in the past and have an amazing wedding! Many people shame me for being so young and getting married, but when i'm 18 it's legal and if it was "wrong" then it wouldn't be legal. My parents were 19 and 20 when they got married, but they only waited 6 months after being together to get married. Me and my fiance will have waited nearly 4 years to get married. I'm so excited though! :rarara: :heartpump: :clap: :D
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Re: I'm engaged!!!

Postby Tal » Fri Dec 08, 2017 11:39 pm

Tell everyone else to fuck off and mind their own business and if they're so opposed to your marriage don't invite them to the wedding.
My youngest sister married her husband the day before her 19th birthday. She's now 47, has 3 adult kids and 2 grandkids. Their path hasn't been easy but they've made it. My other siblings and I are all divorced. Mone of us married until we were late 20s or early 30s.
Good luck.
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Re: I'm engaged!!!

Postby cannydreams » Thu Dec 21, 2017 9:51 am

Fight for your own happiness together. Congratulations on your engagement.
" Better never to have met you in my dream than to wake and reach for hands that are not there."
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Re: I'm engaged!!!

Postby Sheena » Thu Dec 21, 2017 1:21 pm

This is called identity forclosure. Making major life commitments before you have developed enough to do so. Motivations mentioned indicate it is a Rescue operation. This builds in lots of dependency which is guaranteed to turn into resentment to last a lifetime and poison it. The people who really care about you long term are advising you against this self-destructive and oppositional-child impulsivity.
The insincere respondents here who have meaningless lives of there own with little personal accountability encourage you to copy them.
What the heck, there are lots of bad marriages. Why shouldn't you have one?
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Re: I'm engaged!!!

Postby Kerrshay » Wed Oct 31, 2018 9:00 am

Once you are both happy together, then that is all that matters.
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