I just got played.

[needFORspeed116]

I recently met this one girl on a dating site.

Everything was working out...she seemed really serene and just decent.

She made herself look like an innocent little victim to all the "oh so bad things" that have happened between her and other people in her life.

Great...on November 2nd...she left me a message saying "I'll get back to you tommorow..."

November 3rd, 4th, and 5th went by...never heard back from her.

I sent her several Messages...never got a response.

Finally, I just now called her, she picked up, I said hey, she said hey back but with a reluctant tone it seemed.

She said she's with some friends now and that she'll call me back.

She's not going to call me back is she?

I don't know what's up with this person...I have no clue what happened and why she just stopped talking.

Keep in mind, she messaged ME first!

So whatever lady.

[red95gt]

I know how you feel man, I have been on online dating sites for almost a year now and non of the girls are really serious on there. at least not so far. I have met one girl off of a site and we ended up screwing each other all night and then never talking again. kind of a messed up story but yeah. i have mixed feelings about the dating sites. send her a message and lay it out for her, say to her "either you want to talk to me or not, if not quit wasting my time" if she does then she'll talk to you, if not, your not wasting your time anymore.

[needFORspeed116]

We weren't even going to do anything dating wise.


It was just so we can meet up and hang out and get to know each other.


She was intersted in my ad, I was enjoying our conversation, and then she just fell off the face of the earth.


I don't know what happened...and THAT is what really bothers me about this.


I don't care WHY she stopped talking to me...I just want to know.


It's a trashy thing to do.

[Nostalgic]

She obviously is not worth it so I would focus on meeting someone else who is

[needFORspeed116]

it's just WEIRD beyond anything else.


she's the last person i would expect to do something idiotic like this.


again, i have no clue why she just stopped talking.


she's educated...it's not like she's some attention whore...she's a regular down to earth person who just happened to do a really abnormal thing here.


anyhow, i'm done with that crap.

[Tal]

No offence to you bloke, but you've built up a lot of assumptions about a person you've never met. My bet is she's in a boring or dead end relationship and had second thoughts when things started to go that step further. Let's face it, you don't who or what she is. She could be a man for all you know. The fact that she "disappeared" as soon as you started talking about face-to-face meetings is enough to tell me that things weren't as she said they were.
That being said, I've heard some good stories about dating sites, as long as you keep an open mind and a closed heart and don't expect too much. If you still feel ok about it keep looking but this girl is finished. She's seriously not worth your time.

[Bubbydoll]

^ What tal said sounds right.
Plus you didn't really know each other so she felt she didn't owe you anything explanation wise or call wise and you didn't really owe her anything either. Maybe she was surprised it even concerned or bothered you? Thing about online hook ups is you don't have to have the guilt that goes with real life dating and connecting face to face you can be cold to the other person and not care ( for some people)You gave her your attention and she didn't want it, nothing else you can do.

[Nostalgic]

No offence to you bloke, but you've built up a lot of assumptions about a person you've never met. My bet is she's in a boring or dead end relationship and had second thoughts when things started to go that step further. Let's face it, you don't who or what she is. She could be a man for all you know. The fact that she "disappeared" as soon as you started talking about face-to-face meetings is enough to tell me that things weren't as she said they were.
That being said, I've heard some good stories about dating sites, as long as you keep an open mind and a closed heart and don't expect too much. If you still feel ok about it keep looking but this girl is finished. She's seriously not worth your time.

Agreed