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[Dreamer0716]

Hello, I have had 3 dreams with in the last month to month and a half. My most recent was lastnight. I am thinking that they are stress related but maybe there are more to them since they all 3 have the same theme? The first dream was mostly about my Dad... but the dream started off with my parents selling the house, not telling anyone until the day that they had to move and then my siblings and I were all here helping them pack, but the wierd part of that was that they didnt have anywhere else to move to, they hadnt bought another house. Then the dream turned to my Dad.. a pregnant girl showed up at the house as we were all packing and asked to see my Dad, when he appeared he told her to get in the car and he would take her *to where ever* I approached him and asked who she was, since none of us knew her, he acted as if it was no one, until I asked him if the chld she was carrying was his. We then went into the garage and I proceeded to interrogate him until he fessed up that he had had an affair. The next scene was that of my mother, someone else and myself visiting him in the hospital room because he had just had open heart surgery, the bed was oddly shaped and caught my attention, I pulled the covers off of him to find another man in the bed with him. (Obvisously he was trying to hide him from us). I told him that although I didnt agree with it, that he didnt need to lie to me that I was grown and he could of told me if he were gay. This was the end of dream 1.
Dream 2 was completely of my Mother, she announced in the begining of the dream that she was leaving my Dad for another man. My younger sister and I confronted her about this and the affair that she was involved in. I was extremely blunt with how I felt about this and was told by several people (some that have been dead for a while) in my dream that I was being too harsh on her. I explained to them that she was asking me to accept behavior from her that she would never accept from me. I also to my mother in this dream that I was so discusted with her behavior that I couldnt even look at her. My mother wound up standing in front of our old church and announcing that she had decided to stay with my Dad and asked for everyones forgiveness. I was still mad with her in my dream and when I woke up I was mad too!
The dream I had lastnight was that of both my parents and my family. The dream started off fine, everyone at Thanksgiving dinner/day and normal. Then the dream turned into Tornado warning sirens and sirens from an Ambulance, An overhead loudspeaker saying that our neighbors were awake and about and to please signal which house the Amblance was to go to...Our neighbors in this dream, whom I've never seen before, came to our house at this point to see what was happening. Then it switched to my mother asking me to accompany her to an interview in our downtown area (which is where I work) I gladly joined her, but on the way she announced that again she was leaving my Dad and was getting an apartment. I "flew off the handle" so to speak and let her have it, telling her that she wouldnt be able to sleep at night because she was too scared (she doesnt like being in the house alone at night in real life) and that if she were going to do that then I would just live with Dad. She then told me that I made the decision to live with my Dad like it was nothing, and she didnt think it would be that easy for me to decide. We arrived at the place for her to interview still arguing, but the place was not there they had moved. On the way back to the car, which was a really old white car, I noticed a police officer I work with, and stopped to tell him hello, and when trying to get my mothers attention to introduce them, she got into the car and drove off, waving goodbye. I asked the officer if he could call and get me a ride home, and he did so, but the other officer whom I also know, had to work his shift in a restraunt before he could take me home. While waiting in the resturant, I ran into my 2 of my Aunts, and my brother and his family. I was so angry at my mother for leaving me I couldnt eat in my dream. It must have been Christmas Eve because I was sitting at the restraunt with my brother and his family and my younger sister appeared at somepoint and I asked her how much a sessoin with a psychologist was ( she used to work for one) but she didnt know, I made an appointment in my dream to see a psychologist that day, after my "session" I sat down with my siblings and thier spouses to tell them about how my Dad left my Mom and they had been acting all this time like everything was okay, but in reality it wasnt, and that I had set up some sessions with this psychologist to help us as a family talk all of this out. Explaining to them that my one session with him had helped me greatly, and how I wouldnt have been able to tell them all of this with out his help. I returned to the dr's office to meet with him before my family arrived and was thanking him profusely for meeting with us on Christmas Eve and to please appologize to his wife and child for me for taking him away from them on Christmas Eve, and that how I was so thankful to him for helping me cope with this, that before I would just cry and cry about all of it... then my family drove up and for whatever reason had to cross knee deep water to get in the office, and that was the end of dream 3. When I forced myself to wake up, I was still angry with my mother for leaving me in the downtown area...
Just a little background for whomever had endured this extremely long post ( I thank you ) I have strange dreams all of the time, and I sadly live at home with my parents right now which might be why I dream about them? I just unfortunately think there might be more to these for whatever reason. But any advise on how to stop having them or insight to what they might mean would be GREATLY appreciated. And my appologies for the length of this post...

Dreamer0716

[angelgirlie1231]

it seems like you're unconcious mind doesn't exactly trust your family. its interesting that in none of the dreams were your parents together. they were always in an affair. but your mother told you about it and in the dreams about your father he wasn't willing to