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Dream Interpretation- Help?!

Postby music5 on Fri Jun 08, 2012 8:26 pm

Hello,
So I had a dream that I was at a party at this boys house, who recently broke up with me a month ago. I thought he was perfect for me, and his reasoning for breaking up was that we were both "too busy". In the dream, I showed up with my friend and there was no drinking involved, just a get together. It was weird, because I spoke to his mom and no one at the party showed up untl he got there which was after me. I don't think he ever saw that I was there, so I wonder what this means? I've never had a dream about someone I liked, so I'm really confused. If you can explain, it would be very helpful. Thank you!
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Re: Dream Interpretation- Help?!

Postby TenderLC on Fri Jun 08, 2012 9:32 pm

Music,
Your dream is really about yourself. It's about trying to fulfill some wish of yours, but also trying to work out how to relate
to your ex. You get to the party before anyone. That seems to mean that you were eager to find him. He may have not
actually known about the party, simply because you invented it in the dream. In other words, you wished for the party
in the dream and expectd it to exist there. after the ex arrives the other people arrive, but you can't get his attention, just
like he said, he being too busy. HE doesn't pay attention because in reality you don't quite get how to get around his
rationale, I suspect. It's as if you as the dreamer can't muster up any idea how to actually affect him in the dream. It's
your inability, not his refusal. In fact, rather than talking to him, you spoke only to his mother, the authority in the house.

If you keep expecting him in real life to pay more attention, I suspect you should sort of drop any idea within you to try to
change it all back to a romantic relationship. The fact that you spoke to his mother may also mean that she may be behind
his calling it off. So, just concentrate on being friends, being friendly, and not making this an all or nothing demand (which
is very likely the way he/his Mom see this.). This way you can still be friends and bide your time to see how things might
develop.
I hope this helps. I'd like to know what you think about this.
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Re: Dream Interpretation- Help?!

Postby music5 on Sat Jun 09, 2012 1:19 pm

I think this relates perfectly, and I've gained some closure from it. I think it's just time for me to move on and stay friendly. Thank you so much!
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