Its dark and I can't see anyone but him? Always!

[uniquedreaming]

In my first dream, I was going up several flights of stairs. There was a teacher with my a some kids I couldn't make out thier faces but one guy quickly stood out to me. He was the guy I had a fight with lat summer and we ended up with him avoiding any contact with me, not any answering any of my texts or phone calls and not calling me. He is ALWAYS in my dreams. I completely hate him and it disturbes me when I remember that he was in my dreams. Anyway he was ahead of me and I slipped a little and fell on the stairs. But the fall was kind of intentional because when I fell, i pretended to be hurt and when the teacher asked me if I needed help and told me that she would stay with me till I was ok, I simply shook my head as if to tell her that I just wanted to be left alone. The flight of stairs was a little dark but there was enough light to see where you were going but most of the people's faces were dark and shadowy. The guy (lets call him jake), simply stared at me to tell me he was so angry with me that he didn't want to talk to me but at the same time in the dream I felt as if he wouldn't leave me untill he knew I was ok. I just wanted him to leave me because I was mentally hurt by him. When the dream was almost over it started rewinding to show me how I kept falling when I went up the stairs by my self (even though I didn't get hurt at all), anad there was no teacher or kids with me.
The second dream I had took place on a bus but I was huge (it fit about a hundred people) and it turned into a rocketship in the back but the front remained in bus form. I was in the back of it with some friends (I coudn't see their faces at all except for one person, the guy in my previous dream. We were all laughing and having fun. He was ignoring me till one point when he was making fun of somebody (it wasn't me) and he started talking to me....kind of. I was making words with his lips but I couldn't understand him. So instead of telling him I couldn't understand him I just laughed. He looked at me as if he was really mad at me because he knew I didn't get what he was saying. So he mouthed the words again and this time I only caught the last word which was "strangle". I made a face that indicated that I thought that was too mean and said "ooo" as if commenting on the insult. He still looked made and said "SO?!" as if saying that wasn't such a big insult and he didn't care anyways. Finally I stood up and walked up to my drama teaacher but all I saw was the back of her haid. There was a little girl operating the bus/rocketship and when she started flying it I nearly fell but gripped on a seat to steady myself. Finally after an unsuccessful try at flying the rocketship she landed it and simply said "It didn't work" and got off it. By the way, everything outside the rocketship and inside was completely dark except for tiny beams of light coming in from the ceiling of the rocketship/bus.

[TenderLC]

Unique,
You seem to have an issue of two with certain people, like your step brother from the other dream you posted, and then the guy in your dream
here. Since the first dream occurs in a school and you are trying to climb to a higher place, this might indicate that you have difficulty in
real life getting to a higher level of thought, as opposed to feelings, which you seem to react to often.

The guy is apparently trying to get you to see this. He seems to be like an alter ego to you to show you something you prefer not to see. When
you finally do see it, then you won't have troubles on the steps. The bus dream is similar. In both you are trying to get somewhere, but you are
the one with the difficulty getting there really. I suggest you check your attitudes to see what part you play in each dream and see what respons-
ability you should take for each scenario. In each one you seem to have an attitude that someone else should be different than the way they are,
but perhaps it's about how they make you feel because they are clashing with you attitude. Change the attitude because you CAN change that,
and can't change them at all.

Does this make any sense to you now? I'd like to know your thoughts on this. Best wishes.

TLC

[uniquedreaming]

I am slightly confused by what you mean. Let me see if I can summarize what you said. You are trying to tell me to watch my attitude about the situation, am I correct. And I noticed you said he is trying to meake me see something...what is it? I just don't want to deal with him at all because of the pain he put me through. I admit I did something that kind of set him off but what he doesn't understand is that I wasn't the only one. And he figured out who was pranking him too. And when he told me to stop I did but the other person didn't. Which is why he stopped talking to me. Now I just don't want to have anything to do with him.

[dreamweaver123]

I don't think the dream is a premonition, probably just the recollection of him bullying you.
I went through a really rough time and went to see a psychic once and she told me the nightmares were because of the past and that everything would be okay, which brought tears of joy to my eyes. It is so cool when someone cares to help you see that the worst is over.
I had repetitive nightmares of my prom date for many years. He's a surgeon now and I feel sorry for his patients. LOL I finally just avoided him like the plague and the nightmares have abated. Just stay away from the dude...he sounds like a dingaling in my opinion.
I know what it's like to feel bullied or humiliated. I had this freaky, scary friend for awhile that told me I had a problem with men and needed to be lobotomized in a state hospital. She's some deranged sexist witch...she was stalking me for awhile. I guess you just learn to ignore stalkers until they get gone or bored with harassing you. She pretended to have some godmother that worked with battered women (everyone knows that bullshit).
I was kind of battered by an ex named Sean, who wasn't Chinese like my prom date was...different dude. At the time, I was desperate for friends but not that desperate to put up with "the problem" with your battering ex-boyfriend bullshit.
Anyway, the girl that was bugging me was convinced I was some axe-murderer cooking human flesh in a witch's cauldron and eating it. I've never killed anyone in my life...the bitch is RANDOM and needs seriously help from a shrink. She also accused me and my mom of raping my dead brother...no girl raped him. I met her on the internet and have decided she is a total PSYCHO.
Hey! God bless you...I don't know why all these kids are coming on this site. Just be careful and don't give any personal information out on here. Some of these people are pretty scary to deal with.
Check out some of my posts and tell me what you think.
Warm regards.

[TenderLC]

I am slightly confused by what you mean. Let me see if I can summarize what you said. You are trying to tell me to watch my attitude about the situation, am I correct. And I noticed you said he is trying to meake me see something...what is it? I just don't want to deal with him at all because of the pain he put me through. I admit I did something that kind of set him off but what he doesn't understand is that I wasn't the only one. And he figured out who was pranking him too. And when he told me to stop I did but the other person didn't. Which is why he stopped talking to me. Now I just don't want to have anything to do with him.

Unique,
I think I was trying to say that "Jake" of your dreams is a part of yourself. In RL he is of course himself. All the feelings you have about him are
simply what you feel in trying to deal with him. However, in your dreams he may be more like a shadow of how you treated him, rather than the other
way around. Like he is a kind of conscience. You say you pranked him and so did someone else, but how did he feel about that? And then in your
dream how do you feel about making him feel that way. No matter how bad he was in relating to you, he still has feelings, and you may be dealing
with some responsibility in that. Do you see? You need to leave him at least one message explaining, with apologies, what transpired. Pranking is
a juvenile kind of way to relate. And he may be justifiably hurt by it all, leaving you to hold some of the responsibility in it, which shows in your
dreams, no???? It takes two to tango, so you need to accept your part of the onus for your tango with him.

Within that vein your attitude in your dreams is keeping you from getting to the higher places, like you are not taking the high road in these, but end
by really failing to take the high road. Your dreams are entirely your own inventions and responses, so your attitudes are behind them 100% !!!
Adjust the attitude to adjust the dreams.

BEst wishes.
TLC