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Am I emo or am I sensing a spirit?

Postby xxParisJacksonFanxx on Thu Nov 05, 2009 1:34 pm

I don't know if I have emo problems or if I'm sensing how a spirit feels. because almost everyday when I'm at home I feel sad for absolutly no freaking reason. and when I'm at school 8 hours a day I'm fine and calm. but when I'm at home I get so sad that I actually do cry. but like I said at school I'm the opposite, I'm calm and happy.
Is it possible that it could be family related? cause I haven't ever had the "best" relationship with my parents. and is it possible that if my parents said/did something that could scar me for life, does that has anything to do with me feeling sad for no reason at home?
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Re: Am I emo or am I sensing a spirit?

Postby endebendel on Thu Nov 05, 2009 1:45 pm

Ask your Dr., not a bunch of no-nothings.
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Re: Am I emo or am I sensing a spirit?

Postby heartsdreamer on Thu Nov 05, 2009 2:12 pm

cherryorange wrote:
I don't know if I have emo problems or if I'm sensing how a spirit feels. because almost everyday when I'm at home I feel sad for absolutly no freaking reason. and when I'm at school 8 hours a day I'm fine and calm. but when I'm at home I get so sad that I actually do cry. but like I said at school I'm the opposite, I'm calm and happy.

Is it possible that it could be family related? cause I haven't ever had the "best" relationship with my parents. and is it possible that if my parents said/did something that could scar me for life, does that has anything to do with me feeling sad for no reason at home?


"Is it possible that it could be family related?" Absolutely!

"cause I haven't ever had the "best" relationship with my parents. and is it possible that if my parents said/did something that could scar me for life, does that has anything to do with me feeling sad for no reason at home?" Absolutely!

Yes, tell us about any bad experiences/trauma your parents have inflicted upon you, or family members--are there any you can remember? :idea:
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Re: Am I emo or am I sensing a spirit?

Postby xxParisJacksonFanxx on Fri Nov 06, 2009 3:36 pm

HD, There are millions of harsh memories that I have. like, last summer I had a pet salamander that I found in the yard and my mom was helping me catch bugs for it and she told me to put the cup sideways against the rock where lots of bugs were. so i did and my mom called me a dumb dip straight to my face just foor doing what I was told to do. and that scarred me for life and I'm still confussed about why she called me that. :? And when I was in 5th grade I was in band class and I told my mom I've always wanted to try the drums, but my mom said "no, drums are boring", so I said "okay I'll play the trumpet". then a few weeks later I overheard my parents talking and my mom told my dad "I don't even know why she even joined for band, she doesn't even like music"....which is a lie! I LOOOOOVE music! and I joined for band to make my parents proud of me for acomplishing 1 of my biggest dreams which is to be a musician!! and we have a really awsome looking guitar here at our house, and it cost us $100 to buy it, it was a christmas present for my dad but he never plays it. It's really sitting here collecting dust, I put my hand in the box to see how much dust was in it and there were 3 cob webs i found! :hurl: and I asked my mom what we should do with the guitar and she said "you can have it" and that made me happy, but then she said "I'm not allowed to play it cause no1 wants to hear it, and Whose no1,...we live in the middle of nowhere!!!
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Re: Am I emo or am I sensing a spirit?

Postby Cassandra2 on Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:14 pm

At school you are busy and have no time to think about your home life. Find some activities at home to occupy your mind. For the first 18 years of your life and more if you allow them, your parents prepare you for life or control your life. Some of us are ruined by family life and takes years of therapy just so we can live a semi normal life.
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Re: Am I emo or am I sensing a spirit?

Postby Linka on Sat Nov 07, 2009 1:55 am

I dont think you are having a paranormal experience.. I think you are just coming to terms with the insensitivity of your parents. From what you have said here, it doesnt sound like they are abusive, just a little rough around the edges..us parents arent perfect by any means. Could be you are just becoming more self aware and desiring to change, strike out on your own, grow in your own directions.. I think this is totally normal.. Could also be you are going through internal changes, hormonal etc.. us ladies are blessed by that whole mess most of our lives.. hehe.. I have a 19 year old daughter myself who is now in college, has a great relationship with a boy I adore, and is blossoming and thriving! She had it rough for a bit, and it put a strain on our homelife for a while.. but you get thru it, and move on.. Now our relationship is stronger than ever.. :) Just remember, we parents make mistakes.. I told my daughter this many times, and I apologized to her when I realized I had been too tough or insensitive. Keeping communication open and honest is the key for that, which she and I always did/do.. but if you dont have that with your parents, it could make it especially hard to deal with, I understand that. If you cant talk to them, perhaps a grandparent or supportive friend? This is probably one of the craziest yet most intense times of our lives when we are teens, and sometimes problems seem like mountains to us, but time has a way of smoothing things out and giving us a different perspective.. I hope this happens for you soon.. If things get overwhelming to you though, I would seek help from a doctor or other professional.. Best of luck..
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Re: Am I emo or am I sensing a spirit?

Postby heartsdreamer on Sun Nov 08, 2009 4:56 pm

cherryorange wrote:
HD, There are millions of harsh memories that I have. like, last summer I had a pet salamander that I found in the yard and my mom was helping me catch bugs for it and she told me to put the cup sideways against the rock where lots of bugs were.

so i did and my mom called me a dumb dip straight to my face just foor doing what I was told to do. and that scarred me for life and I'm still confussed about why she called me that. :?

And when I was in 5th grade I was in band class and I told my mom I've always wanted to try the drums, but my mom said "no, drums are boring", so I said "okay I'll play the trumpet". then a few weeks later I overheard my parents talking and my mom told my dad "I don't even know why she even joined for band, she doesn't even like music"....which is a lie!

I LOOOOOVE music! and I joined for band to make my parents proud of me for accomplishing 1 of my biggest dreams which is to be a musician!! and we have a really awesome looking guitar here at our house, and it cost us $100 to buy it, it was a Christmas present for my dad but he never plays it.

It's really sitting here collecting dust, I put my hand in the box to see how much dust was in it and there were 3 cob webs i found! :hurl: and I asked my mom what we should do with the guitar and she said "you can have it" and that made me happy, but then she said "I'm not allowed to play it cause no1 wants to hear it, and Whose no1,...we live in the middle of nowhere!!!


From what I reading here, you were verbally abused a child. Your mother has no respect for your personal Boundaries. You have been verbally abused-- a form of abuse that is as physical abuse.

Do your parents have a respectfully loving relationship?
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